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Q: 14/f
so im pretty but im kinda like shy. well more than anything i want to be like the "leader" of my little group of friends. i know it sounds weird but i just want to. please dont tell me just be yourself. how do i pull this off? thankss.
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A couple things you could try to start become more of a leader:
Be the one to make plans. Then everyone will look to you for what is happening, and you will be the one in control.
You have to be really confident, know that you are pretty, and act like it. Leaders are usually always amazingly confident and outgoing.
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Q: how can i lose that inner leg flab??
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To lose inner leg flab, you should try doing squats. That tones your legs, and it should work well if you do it every day.
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Q: I reccently met a kid over myspace. He lives in Germany, but speaks near perfect English. First we talked through Myspace comments, and then we exchanged MSN addresses. We talked for 7 hours straight on MSN. Of course, since there is a time difference, he actually stayed up til 5 in the morning to talk to me. I was considering going out for a jog so I told him I had to go for a while. He started to say, "Are you going to be back? When? I'd be glad if you were back soon." So instead I decided to stay. We talked about everything, and he told me he had over 100 candles in his room. I told him that it'd be cool to see what they looked like at night. So he went and lit ALL of the candles, and took pictures of them that minute, just for me. He also sent me some pictures of him, and shared a poem with me that he hadn't shared with many people. He told me I was pretty and described in detail why. But then he started to joke with me, and call me ugly and "sir." I know he was just kidding though- it's his sense of humor.
Sometimes we' get bored in the conversation and we both wouldn't know what to say. Finally when he had to go, he wrote "
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Sorry sweetie, but me and my partner have some not too great news for you. This guy might not really be real! He could even live in your backyard and be 60 years old! Its actually a possibility. You can never trust anyone. The pictures he sent you could have been from Google. This could be a whole act, and I do not want to see something bad happen. You will most likely never see this guy anyway, so please don't take the risk.
Please take this into consideration.
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Q: So I'm 14/f and my fried is 15/f. I love her to death. I've known her forever and I would never abandon her.
She suffers from depression and is on 'happy pills' but she told me that she doesn't think that they are working b/c she calls her bf of a year a few times every month at night with her suicidal ideas. And then there's the whole body image thing. She's 5' 3" and 98lbs--underweight, I know. I did the BMI thing. But she still thinks that she's fat & sometimes doesn't eat saying that she is 'not hungry' when she skipped dinner the night before and breakfast. Then there is her sister--she's very close to her family and I don't mind that. What I do mind, however, is her sister [18/f]. She basically smokes pot & just does a lot of [random] guys. She's not the picture perfect sister to look up to [although she seems very nice and cool].
Anyways, her mom wants to send her to a nutritionist [dieting issue] but hasn't yet. But that's not the main question. I want to bring into her parent's attention that jer medicine isn't working sometimes and I'm afriad that she is going to hurt herself someday. And I'm afriad that she'll get dragged into the drug world and what not. I'm just really worried about her and I want to help her but I don't know what to do...I mean I doon't wanna be super friend and straighten out everything but I'm just afraid that I might lose her one day
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First of all, you have to contact someone reliable about your friends problems. Can you imagine how guilty youd feel if something bad did happen to your friend and you had never said anything?! This is why you have to tell someone. Your friend will be mad at first, but in the long run she will thank you if she is a true friend.
Good luck,
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Q: Well, this is a pretty weird question.
There is this one guy who is 4 years older than me that I've grown quite close to -- over the internet. I know, don't trust strangers you meet online. But I know he's real b/c of cam, pictures, phone, and letter.
I wrote him once & he wrote me back once. We talked on the phone 2 or 3 times/we talked on the mic a lot. He got on his cam quite a lot [G rated thank you very much...except that time he chucked his sword into is door...that was pretty cool].
Anywhos, I talked to him for about a year but then he had to leave for culinary school and things got bleh and I really miss him since I haven't been able to really talk to him for a long time now. I was thinking of maybe txting him or calling him one day...or maybe write him a letter to his home address
He lives in cali & I live in VA. I'm 14 soon to be 15 and he's 18 turning 19 in november.
I haven't talked to him for about half a year now? Okay, 10 months about. Would it be weird if I wrote him a letter?
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We do think it would be weird if you wrote this guy a letter. You haven't talked to him in a very long time, and he could have a whole new life now. Also, it seems to me that he isnt very interested in you if he hasnt tried to contact you. So, I dont think it would be a good idea to write a letter.
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Q: ...Anywho is it possible to give yourself and orgasm i mean i know that sounds really weird but someone was saying something about it and yeah if you can any ways how to??????thanks in advance
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We agree with the person below us, finger yourself! you can use toys, like vibrators. this will help you to your goal of having an orgasm.
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Q: ok next year will be my first year of high school and i want to start getting involved more now i wont know anybody at this school cause i'm switching out of the school district i'm in now and i'm kinda overweight but want to get involved in sports too any suggestions on how i can go about doing this
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do you have a friend right now that would excercise with you during this summer? if so, excerice with her! it will make it alot more fun and keep you motivated, and then you will feel better and look better in the upcoming school year, and you will have confidence. also, once you get to your new school join any club that you have interest in, because you will make friends easier since you have the same interests. if you are switching to a private school, dont worry, alot of people will be in the same new situation as you. good luck joining clubs and making friends!
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Q: So I like this guy in my class that im friends with, but i also have a boyfriend that i rly cant break up with due to complicated reasons i dont want to get into. I just cant break up with him. not now anyway. Problem is i REALLY like this guy in my class, a lot and i want to go out with him. i just cant break up with my bf.i think the guy likes me and im afraid if i wait too long he's going ot get over me. what shud i do?
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first, find out if this guy really does like you before you get all complicated. then get breast implants if he doesnt like you. just kidding. if he says he likes you, explain the situation with your boyfriend, and how you arent interested in him any more. see how your crush responds to this explanation. good luck!!!
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Q: well i have acne. like on myforehead. i was wondering what works? like any products that ACTUSLLY work. and i wash my face every night before i go to bed if tht helps.
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I use the OXY face wash it really worked a lot better for me than the million other products I've tried. Also, the Neutrogena Spot Treatment pencil works really good because it dries the pimples but doesnt make then flaky, and it covers up the acne at the same time. Hope this helps :]
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Q: is ther anything i can do to make my hair grow faster and healthier?
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To make your hair grow faster, massage your scalp when you put shampoo and condition on in the shower. Also, if you put pressure on your scalp by doing a headstand, it will help make it grow quicker.. strange but it does work. To make it healthier, get monthly trims to get rid of split ends and use moisturizing shampoos conditioners to keep it moist. Hope this helps
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Q: does anyone have any good tips on how to flirt with a guy but not making it to to obvious?
thaankkss a llott
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Heres some tips...
- When you guys talk always make eye contact
- Giggle at the jokes he makes, even if they are not funny
- Tell him you like his new shirt, hair cut, etc
- Play with your hair and smile the whole time you are around him and blush and giggle when he looks at you, he will think its cute
- Tell him how fun it would be to hang out together and go to the movies and stuff
- Touch him playfully when you are joking around
Hope this helps
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Q: i have a bigg crush on one of my good friends brothers. she knows, and she swears she doesnt mind, but i think she does. should i go for it with him, or lay off and respect the relationship i have with my friend?
thanks!
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If you really have big feelings for this guy and think it could go far, take a chance and try to start a relationship with him, but before you do that talk to your friend and make sure she isn't going to like avoid you and stop talking to you if you go out with her brother. I doubt she will get that mad if you tell her how much you like him and how you think that you could have a great relationship with her brother and her at the same time. Make sure she knows that she will not be the third wheel, because that might be concerning her. Hope this helps
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Q: okay im 14//f, but i havent gotten my period yet. like i know its usually until 16 that i have to worry about but, ive had like hair down there for 3 years..and its weird how i havent gotten it yet. my breasts have grown too, butn ot completely. Is there something wrong? Will i ever get my period?
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I don't think there is anything wrong with you at all. Like everyone has said, all girls develop at your own pace. You will probably get your period with in the next year or so. I was starting to develop and get hair down there before I got my period also. But, if you really want to know when you will get it, talk to your doctor and she will usually have a good idea about when you will get it. Hope this helps
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Q: can bulimia cause cancer? ive been throwing up for the last 7 years of my life it usually is only for weeks or months at a time and i NEVER LOSE WIEGHT!
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I don't think it can cause cancer, but it can cause you to become so healthy and week you could die!!! If its not even helping you lose weight, why are you doing this? You need to stop, please. Its not doing anything but making you unhealthy. Try to stop throwing up and go back onto a healthy diet, that will make you lose more weight than you are now.
Rachel
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Q: I had a horrible day today in school. I prefer not to go throught the details, but all I will say is that i have not had a day like this in a long time. How can i relax myself and forget about this terrible day?
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Whenever I have a bad day, I take a really hot and extremely long bath and put all kinds of relaxing eucalyptus liquids and bubbles in it and it really makes me feel a lot better. Or you can just lay down and clear your mind and everything will seem a lot better and not so horrible. Also, go to bed early tonight and don't think of anything that happened today, or else you won't get a good night's sleep and you'll feel even worse in the morning. I really hope this helps.
Rachel
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Q: My hair is very damaged. I wash, dry, and straighten (with a CHI iron) my hair daily. I've dyed it numerous times professionally, but she didn't dye it right.
When she redyed it to touch it up, she didn't just put color on the roots then on the rest of the hair 15-20 minutes later. She put it all on at once.
I haven't dyed my hair since July and you can see where the damaged hair stops and the healthy hair starts. I know the only way to completely repair damaged hair is to cut it off but I'm looking for a product that will temporarily "fix" my hair and give it a healthy appearance.
Thanks=)
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You could try putting mayonnaise in your hair and keeping it in for like 20 minutes. When you straighten your hair spray on a heat protector, they work pretty good. The best thing would be to stop straightening your hair, I'm sure that has something to do with the damaged hair. Theres also shampoos/conditioners for dyed hair to restore it.
Hope this helps
Rach:D
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Q: i know most of you HATE these screenname
questions and i can relate, but i just
need some opinions.
i want a really cute screen name NOT with my name in it
something like..
beauty rush xo
or step ya game up
any ideas appreciated
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-beauty overload
-STEP yur game x UP
-so freshh
-one L0xVE
-cherry lipz
-bURN x0 paradise
-runaway L0VE
-glamour x beauty
hope you like some of these
rach :D
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Q: I'm fourteen years old, but I'm small and I have a very young looking face. When people guess my age they think I'm twelve. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and very pale skin. If anyone had any suggestions on how to look a little bit older, they would be greatly appreciated =] I was also thinking that highlights might help, and if anyone knows about if that would help or not, I would love it. Thanks!
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Here's a list of things you could do to look older:
- Where more makeup like eyeshadow, lipgloss, foundation, mascara, and eyeliner.
- Try straightening your hair or scrunching it if you don't already.
-The highlights would help, just don't make them too drastic, and don't get really thick ones thin highlights would look better
- You could either try tanning outside, but obviously it isn't the right season for this, or you could go to a tanning salon.
- Wear more form fitting clothes if you don't, and if you're flat you could try bras with a little padding.
I hope this helps
RACH :D
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Q: ugg i cant stop my skin from breaking out everywhere, its not from my period cause i got it like 2 weeks ago. Is there any methods to helthier clearer skin? please help me=)
p.s any advice helps!
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My skin breaks out everywhere too! It sucks. I used to use Differin and Benzaclin, but it made my skin peel but I think thats because I overused it, at first it worked very good but thats a little pricy. I like Proactiv and the Neutrogena wash too, thats what I am using now. I recommend just sticking to the same good product for every day, doing what the directions say, and it will most likely make your skin ALOT clearer. Also, don't touch your pimples or anything, try to pretend that they are not there, that will just get them oily and dirty and make it worse.
Hope this helps!!
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Q: what is a good way to loosen yourself up because when i do it it always goes bakc to being tight after a couple days
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Try masturbating every day. You could do strange stuff that works.. like putting a hairbrush handle up your pussy. I know it sounds weird but it works, try it. You could use anything else thats close to a brush handle.. like.. a carrot. Haha hope this helps. :D
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Member Since: November 13, 2006 Answers: 43 Last Update: August 14, 2007 Visitors: 2937
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