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i like this guy but have a boyfriend
So I like this guy in my class that im friends with, but i also have a boyfriend that i rly cant break up with due to complicated reasons i dont want to get into. I just cant break up with him. not now anyway. Problem is i REALLY like this guy in my class, a lot and i want to go out with him. i just cant break up with my bf.i think the guy likes me and im afraid if i wait too long he's going ot get over me. what shud i do?
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okay well you say you deff. can't break up with your boyfriend and im guessing its because maybe he's going through something thats really hard for him right now and you dont want to hurt him any more than he already is..but the truth is it sounds like you really like this other guy and the longer you wait the harder this is going to get, trust me. It will be harder for him to let go of you the longer you guys have been going out also your not going to be happy and he might be able to tell..so i personally think you should probally break up with him..good luck keep me updated <3
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I don't understand why anyone "just can't" break up with someone. I know you have your reasons, but I've never heard of a reason valid enough to warrant not being able to break off a relationship to seek someone who may make you happier.
But, to each his own...
If you "just can't" break up with your current boyfriend, then you have to just let the other guy go on with his life with someone who isn't spoken for.
You leave yourself no other moral choice in the matter.
Cheating should never be an option- there is too much of that going on in this world as it is, and it does nothing but get everyone hurt.
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honestly, the reasons why you can't break up with your boyfriend don't matter in this question. there really is no excuse or reason to be with him when you're wishing you were with somebody else. maybe you should talk to the guy in your class about this problem so he won't feel hopeless and move on, and also the two of you might be able to think of a way to fix this without hurting your boyfriend, since i'm sure you TRUST this guy enough to tell him your complicated reasons (a major part of a relationship, which is another reason why you should end what you have with your boyfriend because the two of you aren't exacly on the same trust level). but anyway i hope you keep in mind that the longer things are dragged on, the more effect they have on people and the more pain is involved. even though it won't be easy, it won't be as tough on your boyfriend now than if you broke up with him later because if he is truely involved in the relatioinship he should feel closer and more attatched to you as the days go by. and as you said, the more you wait, then the chance of the guy in your class moving on gets higher. then you would end up with no one. don't keep waiting for the perfect moment, or it will pass you by. you need to take the moment, and make it perfect. i hope i've helped!
<3.amanda
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first, find out if this guy really does like you before you get all complicated. then get breast implants if he doesnt like you. just kidding. if he says he likes you, explain the situation with your boyfriend, and how you arent interested in him any more. see how your crush responds to this explanation. good luck!!!
<3 rachy and erry.
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hey, well you cant cheat on your boyfriend no matter what your reasoning is that you cant break up with him. thats just wrong and completly unnessasary(sp?). you could tell the guy that you like the reasoning for you not being able to breakup with your boyfriend and ask him to wait. tahts pretty much all you can do without breaking up wiht your boyfriend. i really suggest doing so since you have feelings for another guy possibly more feelings than you have for your boyfriend and since your not happy. you always come first no matter what reasoning for not breaking it off.
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