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Germany is far away
I reccently met a kid over myspace. He lives in Germany, but speaks near perfect English. First we talked through Myspace comments, and then we exchanged MSN addresses. We talked for 7 hours straight on MSN. Of course, since there is a time difference, he actually stayed up til 5 in the morning to talk to me. I was considering going out for a jog so I told him I had to go for a while. He started to say, "Are you going to be back? When? I'd be glad if you were back soon." So instead I decided to stay. We talked about everything, and he told me he had over 100 candles in his room. I told him that it'd be cool to see what they looked like at night. So he went and lit ALL of the candles, and took pictures of them that minute, just for me. He also sent me some pictures of him, and shared a poem with me that he hadn't shared with many people. He told me I was pretty and described in detail why. But then he started to joke with me, and call me ugly and "sir." I know he was just kidding though- it's his sense of humor.
Sometimes we' get bored in the conversation and we both wouldn't know what to say. Finally when he had to go, he wrote "<3 night." to me. I have never felt like this before about anyone. He's everything I want, except he lives in Germany. What's the point of trying? I'm never going to meet him, my parents would never approve of him, I don't even know if he likes me back, and the only way I could be with him is if I ran away.
I'm 15 by the way. Do you think he likes me? And do you have any sugguestions on what I should do? Please explain in detail.
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Sorry sweetie, but me and my partner have some not too great news for you. This guy might not really be real! He could even live in your backyard and be 60 years old! Its actually a possibility. You can never trust anyone. The pictures he sent you could have been from Google. This could be a whole act, and I do not want to see something bad happen. You will most likely never see this guy anyway, so please don't take the risk.
Please take this into consideration.
<3 Rachy and Erry
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I;m not going to sugar coat this but its not going to workout....
Your only 15 and you have your life ahead of you...
If you think of this in a reasonable way....
ermany is far far far away and in order to se ehim youd have the choices of....
Moving to Germany-which isnt a option
Have him move to the US-
Or spend a bunch of money to see him once every couple of years.
when you get a lil older you will long for his touch every day and not being able to have it will depress causing you to go someplace else to find it....Causing Heartache
Be friends...
-Sky-
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hey
yes, it sounds like he does like you. if he goes out of his way for you & does those things, it shows he cares.
you may or may not ever meet him in real life, but don't EVER lose hope. you're so close to being old enough to have your own life, and lead things your way. you're 15. that's old. maybe if you guys keep talking, you can one day meet him. if you both stay loyal. but if he bails for some reason, he wasn't worth it. but it sounds like he is.
due to the time differences, just email each other. write long, extensive emails about everything & send it. when he gets a chance, he'll respond. this is what i do with my busy friends who i can't IM all the time.
he sounds real. dont lose him if you really like him. & he won't lose you if he really likes you.
good luck & i hope i helped :]
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