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bitchy mom n sex
my mom grounded me for having sex...im 16...wtf...i can do what i want, im almost an adult...sex doesnt have to be about love...how can i make my mom get me out of the house, i want to continue having sex and doing fun shit while i still can...*jer*
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calm down.
not every parents wants t know that their kids are "sexually active"
she's looking down for you.
let her cool of a bit.
dont piss her off more
then will end up really bad for you
i know because my mom grounds me for almost evrything
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ew i know my moms kinda the same way
when i was in 7th grade i got grounded for a month for getting a hicky on my neck..what a bitch right
but if you think your mature enough and responsible to have sex then thats your decition (i cant spell that) not hers
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Um...are you serious?
Ok, heres the deal.
I'm 15.
I've had sex with ONE guy, we were in a very long relationship, and he gave me genital herpes. I'm not proud of it, but I'm just playing the hand I was delt. And, if that happened to me after having sex with someone I LOVED, (and yes, it IS about LOVE) then imagine what can happen to you while you're doing every guy and having "fun"?
In my opinion, "fun" isn't about having an STD or getting pregnant.
Are you protected?
Do they use condoms?
Do they have STD's?
I mean, seriously. Don't put yourself in the position where it could ruin your life. Sure, you may think you're almost an adult, but clearly from reading this, you're far from it. Any "adult" would know it was about love, and would respect their mom. Rate me as low as you want. You needed to hear that.
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You need to chill.
Take this from your mother's point of view. How would you feel knowing your daughter was having sex? You wouldn't like it, I can pretty much guarentee.
For you to almost be an adult, you are being very childish. Sex makes babies. You know that right? If you want to enjoy the fun shit while you still can, having a baby at 16 isn't a good way.
Maybe you should try having a civilized conversation with your mother about it. You whining about having sex isn't a good way to convince her you are mature enough for it.
You owe your mother respect. She raised you, and apparently cares about you, because if she didn't she would allow you to go out and have sex with just anyone.
Sex is about love. Having sex just for the pure hell of it is stupid. If you don't love a person, but have sex with them anyway, you know what that means?
Come on you know the answer, you're almost an adult now, remember?..
A Slut.
I am in no way calling you a slut, but the way you are acting seriously suggests it. I mean think about it. =] You need to use your head and give your mom a break.
I also know you are probably still going to have sex, so when you do be sure to go get birth control and use condoms. You have no idea what some guy could have, no matter where you live.
I hope you get some sense <3
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I am only 15 years old & I completely have been down the road your going through.
I'll be 21 weeks pregnant in a couple of days, an now that I look back on it. I should've listened to my grandparents (they raised me) I am now a very young teenage mother, I can't imagine how hard It's going to be.
I'm not in school.
I'm suppose to be home schooled.
Fortunely, I've growed up very quick, I'm very independent even though I was spoiled until the age of 13 when my daddy died & I'm getting rdy to move out with my current boyfriend into our own apartment.
I'm glad my boyfriend is still with me.
& By the way, Having sex with guys doesn't make them like you more usually unless your in a committed relationship, Straighten up & think about your doing.
Those guys are probably just talking shit behind your back anyways.
Hope this helps.
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wow.....this is exactly why ppl give us teens a bad name. and the word ALMOST!!!!!!!!! is so improtant in this its "almost" FUNNY! so your saying its fine to get banged by every guy, get a few kids, get some STDS. and die. right? and if you say"well i can always get an aboration. I HOPE GOD HIMESELF STRIKES YOU DOWN!!! because if he doesnt in this life. well you'll get it for murder when you answer for all your sins when you do die. but i do pray, that God gets ahold of you before its to late.
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Do you have a job?
Can you afford to raise a child on your own?
Do you have insurance?
Can you afford to pay for treatment of STD's,
especially AIDS which takes high dollar meds
just to make life tolerable?
Yeah, having sex for the fun of it
can really get expensive. My guess is mom
doesn't want to foot the bill for your good
time. So you aren't going to get off grounding.
Act like an adult and take your punishment
without an attitude. :)
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Firstly, you still live under your mom's roof, so I suggest to grow up a little and understand that you have to follow her rules! And sorry to burst your bubble, but you aren't 'ALOMST' an adult, just because you're most probably legal doesn't mean you're an adult, the fact that you think you're an adult just shows how mature you are, which is quite far! Just think about it, how would you feel if you got with a guy that had sex with a couple or thousands, the one guy you loved, I'm sure you would feel pretty dirty and just like another! Secondly, STDs and all sorts are everywhere, even if you do practise safe sex, you can still get other gross things, like pubic lice and nasty stuff like that. I think you are quite immature to be having sex, if you think sex doesn't always have to be about love, then, yes, that's your opinion, but listen to your mom and obey her rules! What would you do if something went wrong?! Do you have the money and other things like that to help yourself? You'll need your mom! So obey her!
There ARE many things out there that are fun, sex is not the only thing, and once you're older and NOT living under your mom's roof you can have as much sex as you want! You're still young now, and I think you should get your life together, sex shouldn't even be a matter right now!
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shes just worried in her eyes youll always b her little girl no judgement from me i know people who hav sex for fun and it works for them but you should speak to your mum just tell her you need her trust and ask her how you can show her that you are mature enough to do what you r doing !!
good luk !!
hope i helped!!
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If you want to have sex, get together with your mom. And listen to what she has to say about it. Listen to her side of the story. And then tell her that you listened you, now she has to listen to your side of the story. Tell her how you feel about the whole thing. And that you still want to have sex. Maybe you guy can come to a compromise. Tell her that if she let you out of the house, you will be responisble about it. And you should be responsible about it. Try to get her on your side and tell her that's it's perfect normal for a girl your age to have sex.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
-LiTTLEGiRLBLUE
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