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my mom grounded me for having sex...im 16...wtf...i can do what i want, im almost an adult...sex doesnt have to be about love...how can i make my mom get me out of the house, i want to continue having sex and doing fun shit while i still can...*jer* (link)
calm down.
not every parents wants t know that their kids are "sexually active"
she's looking down for you.
let her cool of a bit.
dont piss her off more
then will end up really bad for you
i know because my mom grounds me for almost evrything


there are these 2 guys i like,(A & B)
A is like my best friend but the kind of friend that you can make out with and theres no strings attached, he told me wen we first starting makeing out that he doesnt want a relationship which i was fine with until he started wanting to go further with me and thats when i told him that i won' until i was in a relationship with him,.plus i'm 16 but he is like the guy who hooks up with every girl he meets so its reli awkward sumtimes,.but he gets reli jealous if i hook up with someone
B is another very close friend who again likes to hook up with girls,.but would want a relationship if it came to it,.i think,. but i think i do actually have feelings for,.but the problem is when i go to tell him i like him he likes sumone else and vice versa,.we have made out a few times but we're usually drunk when we do and both take it as a drunken kiss and nothing gets said bout it afterwards

i'm soo confused i don't know who to pick and try and stick with and try make it work,
sorry its soo long but ye kind of neeed to know sum background info to know where i'm coming from

thanksx (link)
choose A
sounds like the same problem my friend has
A will probably last longer in a relationship even though he might be a big flirt


i'm NOT planning on giving "head" ANYTIME soon but i was just wondering, my friends were talking about how they gave their boyfriends head in their rooms, but they all "spat". did they like.. leave the room and go to the toilet?
wouldn't that look stupid? (link)
that would look stupid
swallow it


15/f. i had sex a couple days ago and i know im young i have a question im not here to be lectured that im too young to have sex. the kid i did it with he said the condom had a hole on tha side but he was told that if a condom breaks then it snaps at the top and rolls down. is there a chance i would get pregnant if it just had a hole on tha side of the condom? (link)
we are the same age and female
the guys analogy is serious lacking truth
so better take a pregnancy check if you misss your period
a hole in it can get sperm in your body leading to pregnacy
but then dont worry if you miss your pperiod then you might be


2 days ago my boyfriend fingered me. I woke up today and had some light red bloody discarge. Also a burning sensation when I pee. It's not my period because I had it about a week ago. Could it be from a rip maybe that's causing me to bleed? Should I be worried? Or pregnant? (link)
um....
you dont get pregnant from being fingered
so you definitely not pregnant


ok well im in 9th grade.! and it seems like alot of my friends have done some/more sexual things than i have done!!.... all i have done it make out and stuff.. but i refuse to give head b.c i think its dirty.!! 1st am i the only not doing it??/ and 2nd i wouldnt mind going a little farther but not sex how do i make it known that i want to do that with out sounding like a slut!!???????????? plz help me..!!!! (link)
be proud of who you are
im in 11th grade but i still havent done any sexual stuff
okay probably because i turned 15 in january
but dont let your friends views corrupt who you are
to what you think is comfortable and right for you


I shaved "down there" about a month ago. I got terrible bumps, which I guess I should have expected. But these bumps haven't gone away and now they are like pimples, getting white heads and they bleed when I pop them. Is this normal?

And no, I do not have an STD...I am married, happily for 7 years and there is no possibility of either of us cheating.

I will never shave "down there" again, I was wondering how Nair would work? Any suggestions?

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yeah that happened to me when i shaved dont pop them and dont shave
use a scissors to cut the hair brand neww scissors make sure it dosnt cut you


What is the best possible way to lose the maximum amount of weight in one month?

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hiphop dancing its fun too and you lose weight


Hey, what are some good songs (aside from Marley, buffett, sublime or beach boys) for a beach themed party??? Thanks! (link)
kelly clarkson's "since you've been gone"
to rock out
or
"Breakway"
to relax
hope i helped


Well, I gave my boyfriends head. I told my friends. They got mad at me and they told thier moms. Now the whole school knows. All the moms and students hate me!!! Im soo imbaressed what should I do!!!13/f (link)
like it says dont tell anyone thats between you and yourself


Hey, I was just wondering can you get limewire on your PDA? and if so, how?

Thanks in Advance! ♥ (link)
you have inetrnet then download it


Back to school! I need a really cute and eclectic backpack. Does anybody know any sites/stores I could get one at. Just to give you the idea of what I like, my last backpack was a hott pink, canvas and corduroy messenger bag I decoratd with millions of buttons (pins). LoVe To AlL!!! (link)
bj or go to pbteen.com


alright. here's the sitch.
i have this boyfriend, who i've been dating for
2 days. and i love him very much.

now that probabbly sounds rediculous,
but me and him dated once before, for about
7 months. he treated me like gold. i loved it.

but after a while he seemed to lose interest.
he broke up with me. and he said upfront that he
started to like another girl. i was very hurt, but
i appreciated his honesty.

after like a week of us being broken up. he called
me at 2am. crying. saying he made a big mistake,
and he cared about me yada yada. and i believed
him, and took him back.

then literally 2 days later, he told me he thought
he was making the right decision by asking me back.
but he just realised he doesnt feel the same.

and i felt stupid for taking him back.



now, weve been good friends for about 4
months now.and the other day i went to his
house andhe told me he liked me again, he
claims he never stopped. he ended things
with this girl for me. which must mean something.


he asked me back out when i went to his house.
and we didnt do anything sexual, he just held me
tight and said how much he missed holding me.
and he would kiss my forhead and such.

now,weve been pretty good these past days.
i just feel kindof paranoid ya know.
like when hes gone and i dont know where he is
i'll be all nervous and such. i hate this feeling.
i dont think he would do anything, but its still
a weight on my shoulders. i'd like to learn some
advice on how to not be so paranoid, and learn
to trust him. so our relationship will be stronger.





anyone know any REAL advice on how to do that?




thank you so much.
xxxoxoxo (link)
looks like he's been using
it seems to like this guy can't live without an girlfriend
and are you giving him many chances?
YES you been giving him many second chances that he's taking advantage of you


I am 14/f and i'm gonna admit. i am not skinny. i am not too overweight, and by no means obese. maybe the farthest thing from it. but i am always soooo self concious! iabsolutelyhateit.
i want to lose weight. but i just don't have the drive... until i lose some weight, how can i keep from being self concious??? (link)
do something that you will ove like hiphop dancing its fun and it makes you feel good about what you kind do


Hey there im 13 female and i am 5'2 and 117 pounds i absolutley love my body but i have no will power to lose like 5 or 6 punds and if you answer please dont say get a friend to help i need real advice like how to get pumped to excersize. Thanks XOXO (link)
try dancing hiphop dancing
its fun and you lose wait and its a great way to learn new cool moves


sorry about the length..
ok well i just got out of a relationship about a week ago and it was over the stupidest reason. at night he would come over around 1 and 2 in the morning and he did it alot for the entire time we we're dating bc most of the time we we're dating he was grounded and that was the only way he could get out. but then one night he told me he was going to come over and i told him that was fine but i didn't want to really "do" anything that night and he got REALLY affended but EVERY time he came over he would always want to do stuff so i just gave him a heads up beforehand so he didn't get mad when i turned him down or whatever when he came over. anyways he got PISSED and decided to not talk to me so we broke up. but during that week i kind of found another guy that i kind of might like a little bit but nothing serious. and then today i got an instant message from my ex apologizing for being a dick and now he wants to talk before school starts up again. i don't know what to do! hpoefully someone can help?
oh btw i'm a softmore in hs if that helps any.. (link)
sounds like you ex needs rewiring of his life
imean no offense to you but i dont think you should get back together with him
you dont know if he's going to be the jerk he was before
so besides its your decision stick with your instinicts


ok there is this girl named brittany i really like her and she dont know i tell her brother to tell her that i do but she dont believer me i want to know what to do? do i make our friends ship better then ask her or jus ask her? idk what to do so can yall please help me out? (link)
yeah go up to her and ask her out
you should be the guy you are girls sometimes like guys who speak up for themselve
and if you ask her it will make her realize you like her


Okay.. Please help me!
I go to camp in a place 15 minutes from me.
I've been going there for about 4 years.
Last year i met 3 guys...
Steve. David. Jon.
They were all really sweet and my best friends.
they are still all my best friends.
I really liked steve though.
more than friends.
he actually asked me out, and we went out
2 months after camp ended, i had to break up.
i never saw him!
and he did too many drugs!
so i broke up with him, and he was pretty upset.
Now we're still really good friends,
and he's always protecting me.
He has a girlfriend sam now... so its cool.
There was David,
who when i was going out with steve..
i thought i liked david a little bit too
he was way too sweet!
This year... its so awkward!
steve isnt in it anymore,
but we all still talk
Jon started holding my hand..
kissing me...
and putting his arm around me.
and it was weird because i like him too.
but, me and jon arnt going out
cuz he lives too far away.
Now i just found out david likes me.
and i cant help it because david is amazing.
i am always having dreams about david!
like.. sneaking behind jon and kissing david
but i dont think i like him..
well i guess im just trying to tell myself i dont
even though i might.
now my friends christine and russel,
are going to the movies as friends
(russel wants it as a date...but christine doesnt)
and they want me to go and to bring a guy friend. i thought to bring jon.
christine sed no
because it would be like a double date
because me and jon would be kissing...
so i said i'll bring david.
since he is my closest guy friend.
but truthfully...me and david would
probolly end up kissing too if he went.
jon is upset about david going because
he wants to go with me.
but david said he wont go if jon is going.
Oh and also,
me and david keep saying we're going to make-out and its going to be so cool,
and at first it was a joke..
but it's really not anymore.
steve said if i cant pick who to bring..
i should just bring steve.
ugh! what do i do? (link)
thats a whole lot of mess
but take someone you really but dont make ruin your friendship
remember friendship last longer


my left boob is bigger than my right one! is it gonna be like this forever?? i dont like it!! (link)
that happens youll be fine


My computer recently crashed so everything was lost on it. There was one program I can't seem to find again : Zichanger 4. It's a program for AIM to change colors. When I did a google search for the download I couldn't find it anywhere. Could someone possibly help me find it? (link)
http://imbum.com/messages.php?id=6941

go to the websit a guy there can send you the program
aim: lil luke822
just aim him before 11:00




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