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guy troubles
sorry about the length..
ok well i just got out of a relationship about a week ago and it was over the stupidest reason. at night he would come over around 1 and 2 in the morning and he did it alot for the entire time we we're dating bc most of the time we we're dating he was grounded and that was the only way he could get out. but then one night he told me he was going to come over and i told him that was fine but i didn't want to really "do" anything that night and he got REALLY affended but EVERY time he came over he would always want to do stuff so i just gave him a heads up beforehand so he didn't get mad when i turned him down or whatever when he came over. anyways he got PISSED and decided to not talk to me so we broke up. but during that week i kind of found another guy that i kind of might like a little bit but nothing serious. and then today i got an instant message from my ex apologizing for being a dick and now he wants to talk before school starts up again. i don't know what to do! hpoefully someone can help?
oh btw i'm a softmore in hs if that helps any..
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it all depends on if you are dating this other guy if you are let him say sorry then break the bad news but if you are not tell him that you dont wanna go back out i hope i helped and write me back to tell if i did help signed speedy0301 and goodluck!!**
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i dont think you should talk to him b/c if he really loved you in the first place he wouldnt of gotten all pissed off at you so go wit that other guy. hope i helped =] &&hearts
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If I were you I'd go for the new guy. If your ex got so pissed just because you didn't wanna do anything.. doesn't that kinda say something?? Not to offend you or anything but it sounds to me like he was just in it to get some but mayyybe im wrong. But just so you know, guys like that don't normally change on their own, or in such a short amount of time. If he's like that once, it'll probably happen again. I know it's probably harder for you to look at it like that because you obviously had feelings for him, but do you really wanna be with someone that wants to do things you don't really wanna do all the time when you don't have to? And your only a sophomore, I'd def go for the new guy. Even if it doesn't work out with him, it's better than doing what you don't wanna do with a dickhead boyfriend. There's plenty of other guys, you just have to find the right one! Good luck!
♥ Evy
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sounds like you ex needs rewiring of his life
imean no offense to you but i dont think you should get back together with him
you dont know if he's going to be the jerk he was before
so besides its your decision stick with your instinicts
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I don't think it was over the stupidest reason. He was being selfish. He put his own wants ahead of your feelings and overreacted when you decided to put your feelings first, then you left. It sounds perfectly reasonable to me.
You never explained what you want to do. How do you feel about your ex now? Do you want to give this other guy a chance? Personally, I wouldn't approach any high school relationship with serious intentions, so if you aren't sure who to pursue, I would try dating the new guy for awhile.
As for the conversation with your ex, there's no harm in talking.
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umm i think you should talk to him first but if your starting to feel something for this other guy dont go back with your ex because not only wont you b able to b with the guy you like but you will b hurting him to...but towards the other part i think you should tell him he needs to understand that you were just saying it so he wouldnt b like oh man she dosent wanna do it or shyt like dat you kno!
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