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Member Since: July 25, 2006
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ok so i had a pimple in the crease of my nostrale and i couldnt pop it cuz it wa shard and its a black head. so i put tooth paste on it because some people on here said it would work now i have this littl dried out rash by my nose and it hurts so bad and the pimple is still there. any help on how to make the rash go away (link)
Ok listen toothpaste does not work been there done that and i can tell you really only the only thing that works is proactive blackhead reloutin and regular old pro active i dont have the number for it bout it does work so watch a little tv and call it will work trust me been there done all that ohh plus it would be really cool to if you were to rate me!!!! Good luck


I'm supposed to be drawing Caricatures for my aunt's boss but I'm not exactly sure how to start one off. She also told me to set a price for her. I'm drawing 5 different people for Christmas cards. So, how much should I charge her? and any tips on how to start off a caricature would be so great. I really need to hurry and get this done! (link)
start off with the outline of the head and then the outline of the body then braw in all of the details you kno like the eyes the nose etc then draw the back ground in it put like trees covered in snow or santa or jesus christ then color and put in a saying like um........... hope you have a merry christmas on thye front and on the inside and a happy new year!! Merry christmas. Now lets talk pricing depending on the color and the pictures price it from 1.00 to 5.00 per card thats what i would do send me a pix of your card at blondwildchild1@hotmail.com good luck


I really want to talk to her and get to know her, but I am shy around girls and I don't know how to talk to her. I can't just walk up and talk to her. (link)
Dear Shy,
i am the same way with guys what i do is walk up and down the street with my friends to get them to notice me or get some one to call me when she is near me or last but not least get some one to pretend to be her and practice i am always available if you choose #3


Ok, so I have been best friends with this boy since kindergarten. I recently switched schools and asked him out. I wrote him a letter telling him how I felt about him. He ended up saying no, and I was crushed. I haven't talked to him since. What should I do? (link)
call and talk to him tell him you dont want to mess up the friendship and it would be great if yall were to talk and be friends again


I have 2 neighbors that I've been friends with for a long time. I'm a girl, 15, and they're both guys, 2 yrs younger than me, if that matters. Anyway, we used to always play outside together or play vido games at each other's houses a lot. About 2 years ago, due to personal family issues, I wasn't around very much for a long time, and I havn't really seen either of them at all. For a long time if I saw one of them on the bus or something, we'd just say "hi" and that's it. For the most part they ignore me. All the family stuff is cleared up now, but since school's out, I still havn't had a chance to talk to them. I want to still be friends with them, but what am I supposed to do? Do I just call them and ask if they want to come over like I would have two years ago as if nothing's happened? Do I tell them I feel like I've been ignored? Please help me, and sorry this was so long! (link)
i do think you should call them up you are still friends do what you wouldve dun 2 years ago


I just moved in to a house in Lake Park, NC. I have lived here for a week and I like this girl that lives across the street. I don't have the nerve to ask her out. Can someone tell me a good way to ask her out.

Signed,

newkid (link)
NO NO NO!!!! what you should do is try to get to know her a little bit more like when you really kno her then ask her if you need anymore advice you can email me or ask on this website.
my email is blondwildchild1@hotmail.com. or just ask me on here


I'm a 14F turning 15 in 3 months. I still haven't had my 1st period and am VERY curious to find out how soon it is coming. I have heard that you get it around the same time as your mother did, but my mom got hers when she was 11, almost 12. I am 5'1" and 95 pounds. Any estimates? (link)
some girls dont get their periods until they are 16 i got mine when i was 11. Most girls dont get theres until they weigh 100 pounds im guesing it wont be long until you get your dont worrie.


Me and this boy really got attached to eachother at camp. We both REALLY liked eachother, but we couldn't be a couple becuase it was the last week of camp! He's at camp for one more week and I'm still home. I've been sending him e-mails each day, telling him what I've been doing. He says he'll call me on the bus ride home. He lives two towns over from me, so i know we'll see eachother once in a while. I really miss him and every minute of my days are spent thinking about him! I can't stop and its making me so sad to think I may not see him for a while. Am I going ver the top? I really love him. I know im only 13, but its love i swear. Am i spending too much thought on him? What can help me to enjoy the rest of my summer? (link)
tell your friends about this guy when you go to places like the mall and other places. If you enjoy him you should enjoy talking about him but dont worry your friends to death then theyll be annoyed. if you happen to annoy them and you can tell then chill a lil take a break then talk about camp instead i hoped i helped well g2g well write back and and tell me if i helped. Signed Speedy0301 goodluck!!**


13/F
Im like really loud. I don't know if its like in the annoying way, but I'm like always hyper. Even thought I don't eat things with a lot of sugar. Like I'm really friendy & I love talking to new people. I acuallly just love talking period. So yeah anyways. I don't know if I'm annoying or something. So do you guys think its annoying to meet someone new thats really loud & stuff? if you do how can i change? (link)
i think being loud is very annoying but being hyper is cool what i would do is try to calm down and quite down try not to be as loud as you are. if you can try to calm down youll be a great singer and dancer cauz you are loud and very hyper and thats all you need to dance and sing try it out. Write me back and tell me if it works. Signed Speedy0301 goodluck!!**


I'm 14, female.
I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs.
I feel like a loser, ALL my friends do stuff like this, cause in my town, everyone just does. I don't want to risk getting in trouble so I don't. I don't cuss, do sexual things other then making out, and I'm afraid to do crazy things with my friends. I won't sneak out with them, or like steal road signs. I just feel retarded and immature around all of them, everyone treats me like a baby, I've even been threatened a few times for being too "good." What should I do? I'm friends with almost everybody in my small town, so theres no one to go to. (link)
Youre not a baby a loser a scaredycat or anything like that you are the smartest person i ve ever hurd of stay that way


I was wondering what some of ya'll think is the best method for teeth whitening. I have heard of baking soda but how would you use that like applying and preparing it, etc.? Or any other brands that have worked the best?
Thanks! (link)
you know that poroxide does the trick to ohh nd the new crest prohealth works really good ohh and what you do is put baking soda on the toothpaste on your tooth brush. well goodluck!!**


well, my girlfriend is not very romantic, i am and i try to be but i can never get her to be romantic what i can do..please help (link)
well my boy friend is the same way and it drives me crazy all i can tell you is to pretend to be not as romatic and shell miss it and shell be a lil more romatic then shell wonder why u stopped being you and take over then go back to your normal self Write back and tel me if it worked Signed Speedy0301 Goodluck!!**


sorry about the length..
ok well i just got out of a relationship about a week ago and it was over the stupidest reason. at night he would come over around 1 and 2 in the morning and he did it alot for the entire time we we're dating bc most of the time we we're dating he was grounded and that was the only way he could get out. but then one night he told me he was going to come over and i told him that was fine but i didn't want to really "do" anything that night and he got REALLY affended but EVERY time he came over he would always want to do stuff so i just gave him a heads up beforehand so he didn't get mad when i turned him down or whatever when he came over. anyways he got PISSED and decided to not talk to me so we broke up. but during that week i kind of found another guy that i kind of might like a little bit but nothing serious. and then today i got an instant message from my ex apologizing for being a dick and now he wants to talk before school starts up again. i don't know what to do! hpoefully someone can help?
oh btw i'm a softmore in hs if that helps any.. (link)
it all depends on if you are dating this other guy if you are let him say sorry then break the bad news but if you are not tell him that you dont wanna go back out i hope i helped and write me back to tell if i did help signed \speedy0301 and goodluck!!**


My mom just got drunk at her friends house. She came back asking me the same questions over and over. Im normally a smart a**. Im an attitude problem too. And I was doing my normal thing to her, like telling her to stop talking and stuff. I don'tlive with my mom, parents are divorsed. So Im used to only seeing her normal and fine and stuff. And she just blew up. I cant even tell you what she started saying (link)
im sensing you and your mom have some issues just try ti be nicer to your mom she is you MOM just be nicer and say i love you and im sorry well thats all i got well write me and tell me how i did Signed Speedy0301 goodluck!!**


My boyfriend & I have been together for several months now. He has recently told me he loves me. Since then, I've felt weird. I'm not sure what love even is! I care about him alot and I can't picture my life without him, but how do you know when you truly love someone? I've tried saying it to him, but the words never come out. I don't know if I'm scared of giving him that part of me he could break or if I really don't love him. How do I determine from the two? (link)
well ..........this is a really hard one...........................i have to say if you can picture your life with out him and its horrible and depressing then i think it means you love him as long as u totally care about him but if you can picture life without him and its not that bad u cant exactky say you love him i hope i helped you write back and tell me if i helped. signed speedy0301 goodluck!!**


Im going school clothes shopping next week and i dont know what i should really look for. I dress kind of plane jane but this year i want to look more stylish and look more grown up. I want to look completely different but not like goth more like preppy. Also, I have no idea what to wear on the first day...we cant wear spagetti straps or skirts above the knee. Thanks in advance :] (link)
on my first day i would consider gouchos or preppy looking capris with a shirt that has a phrase like i have mejor issues and youve been warned let your shirt say stuff funny and make sure it has attitude similar to yours well thats all i can say Signed Speedy0301 goodluck!!**

p.s dont for get to tell me if i helped you!!!


I invited a new friend and his daughter to attend the 5th birthday celebration of my daughter. This was in part because I was returning the favor, and in part because this new friend is someone I have found to be a great guy who I like hanging out with.

Unfortunately, I messed up the invitation, and told him to show up two hours late. I didn't realize what I'd done until the party had already started and it was too late for him to come. I called him and apologized profusely, and he said he understood. What I feel worst about is that I'm sure his daughter was very disappointed (we held the party at a popular kid's restaurant, and of course she missed out).

I would like to get my family together with his so that the kids can have some fun and I can apologize to his child in person. I called the next day and he said he would call back, but he never did.

Now I must leave town on business for a month. My wife doesn't want to arrange a get-together because she feels that the ball is in his court, as he failed to call back on the second day. I feel that it's really my fault, and that I need to fix it.

Should I call back when I return home? If you were my friend, would you accept my apology at that point, or assume I was making excuses so as not to get together? I feel a little miffed that my wife is not helping me out here; are my feelings justified? And finally, how should I make it up to his child? I feel she's the one who's really the injured party here.

Thanks in advance! (link)
i think that you should call him after your buisness trip tell your wife maybe he for got about calling you im sure it was a mistake all i can say is ger your familys togethor and go out to eat at that same place yall went to eat and say sorry in person it would be the rite thing to do
signed speedy0301 goodluck!!**


wut sort of games or activities can i have ppl do at my party? i know seven up, seven minutes in heaven (but not going to do that) and spin the bottle except there are diffirent versions of it liike promisering like that lol wut is that (link)
how about truth or dare ohh and have a guy and gurl pass out cards and have the same amount of girls and guys then make numbers on the cards like 1-8 and then let them draw and if the guy has a 1 and a girl has 1 thyen they french kiss if you dont get it write me back and tell me if it works or you dont get it. Signed Speedy0301 goodluck!!**


This boy asked me to dance at prom (about 1 or 2 months ago). I said yes to be nice, but I really don't like him like that. However, he then tried to follow me around the entire night, always trying to dance with me the whole time. After that we never talked (which, not to be mean, but I was kind of glad about). However apparently his friend got my number from facebook & left me some message, then he called me back to apologize. Then I just went on facebook & under "Status" for his friend it says he is helping the boy try to get a girl. Obviously this is me, since the message was about some date. Basically now I want to know how to turn down this boy without hurting him, in a respectful manner. I honestly do not want to date him, but I am sort of a sensitive person, so I do not want to be mean myself. How do I go about saying no if he does call for a date? (female, 17 years old). (link)
we all know that when it comes to dating that sometimes we have to be harsh sometimes personally i would tell them im sorry but i have a boyfriend. if you use this excuse do not ever implie that it could happen. if thats not true then say im not wanting in a relationship right now and on this one you have to say it like your heart has been broken and you coud go with the popular no thank you.your just not my type that always works for me. Well i hope i have helped. write me and tell me if it helped. Signed Speedy0301 Goodluck !**


Tomorrow I'm dying my hair for the first time. I am soooo nervous because everybody knows me as the girl who has the pretty, long, hair. I felt I had to do a major change in my life so this is what I chose. I'm cutting my hair way shorter and then going to like a local drug store, and buying dye and then I'm coming home and dying it! I want to know if this is a good decision or not. Like half my friends are like go for it! and then the other half are like... please don't do it! I personally felt I needed to do this for myself. I want to go for a natural look and stick to the similar color but I want people to be able to notice I dyed it and it's a BIG change. Is this right, or should I not do it? By the way I'm 14/f. (link)
i think its a great idea. change is good most of the time. if it turns out looking great and a big change occurs just dont worry . aslong as its a color that helps you still say i me and noone else its good just dont let it say if you dont like my hair you dont like me. Hope it helps and your hair looks awsome. Write me and tell me how it looks. Signed Speedy0301 goodluck!!**




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