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what should i do?
well, my girlfriend is not very romantic, i am and i try to be but i can never get her to be romantic what i can do..please help
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Maybe your girlfriend doesn't see you as the type of guy she wants to be with. Maybe she see's you as just a friend, I am a girl, and I have had boyfriends who want to be romantic with me, but I only see them as friends. But if that doesn't work for you, then maybe you should sit down and talk to her about it, I'm sure she will understand. Girls like guys who are very open to how they feel, but they are also sensitive if you hurt them. So, when you sit down and talk to her, don't get angry, she will just give up and not want to talk about it any more. Tell her how you feel, and let her know that you want to be romantic. Ask her if she see's you as a friend or boyfriend, then go from there. I hope my advice has helped you,
Your hopefully friend,
LeeAnna
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the only thing you can do compermise. ask her what she likes, tell her what you like and meet half way. do things for her, that are romantic she may have come from a family that does not know how to be romantic, and you need to show her how. and then she should catch on. give a little and get a little, is the best thing. talking and communication are the best things in a relationship and right now that's the thing you both need to work on if you want this relationship to work.
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Wel, I understand where you're coming from. It sucks to be a certain way and hope that your significant other will be the same way, but unfortunately, that's not always the case. Do you love her? If you love her, then first of all, you have to see that that's who she is and she may not be able to change. Having said that, a relationship is a two-way street. It's about give and take. My advice would be to just mention casually a few times, at a good time (like after watching something romantic), "Gee, that was romantic." If she agrees, then you might follow with, "It'd be great if that kinda stuff happened in real life." Then you could do something romantic for her, like say in the next few days. Tell her it's because you were inspired, that you care about her and you feel this is a good way to tell her. This way, you're not attacking her; you're making quite clear that this is something you like and she ought to be able to pick up on this and respond in kind or at least, she'll say something to make you understand why she can't be as romantic as you. Good luck and remember - don't expect too much and you'll be pleasantly surprised.
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well my boy friend is the same way and it drives me crazy all i can tell you is to pretend to be not as romatic and shell miss it and shell be a lil more romatic then shell wonder why u stopped being you and take over then go back to your normal self Write back and tel me if it worked Signed Speedy0301 Goodluck!!**
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