Alright, so im 15, a female, and i think i might be gay. im still 'exploring' my options, if that makes any sense. but i want to let my friends know that there is a possibility that i could be, but everytime i get close to tellin them, ill start out with something about one of my gay friends, and they are automatically grossed out. how could i hint to them that i could be, without losing their friendship, yet not being to revealing?
If you think you might be gay, then just come out
and tell your friends. If they don't understand, and if they don't want to be your friend anymore, then maybe they aren't true friends after all! I don't see why people have to hide things, or even lie to their friends, if they are truely your friends, they will understand. But if you do tell them and they end up still being your friends, DON'T HIT ON THEM! That could scare them away! Also, if you are gonna tell your friends, you should be careful because if you tell all of them, someone is bound to tell someone elso, and then pretty soon, lots more people than you told will know. But Yes, you should tell your friends, and if they don't like you after that, don't let it tear you apart, just remember, they aren't true friends if they don't except you, and you aren't a true friend if you lie to them, or don't tell the FULL truth, so be honest with them.
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There is this really nice guy who likes me and wants to go to the movies with me (he thinks I like him because I used to), but I don't really like him in that way, so how do I tell him I don't want to go to the movies and that I just want to be firends???
Thanks!!
I think you should just come out of your shell, and tell him you only see him as a friend. Say it in a friendly way. Also, why don't you go to the movies with him, and make it a group trip, bring other friends, too! It would be fun. But don't go on pretending you like him, just tell him, face-to-face, that you only like him as a friend!
Hope I helped you, hugs and kisses
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im 13/f
Well, to make a long story short..
There's this boy I've been crushing on for about a month now. I'm going to spend a week with him at his house for vacation with a whole bunch of people and i just want to know how do i let him know i like him? i really wanna go out with him but the thing is i've never really had a REAL boyfriend. and i haven't hooked up yet & i'm pretty sure he has. and if he asks if i've hu before do i say yes and lie so he'll hook up with me and think i'm experienced? or do i say the truth and say yes and see whatever happens from there? I really need to let him know how i feel but i don't wanna make it obvious, i wanna keep him guessing. he's 15. what are some ways i can play hard to get and flirt with him? PLEASE HELP! xox
Ok, Here we go, if you like him, and if you want to know if he likes you, too, then you need to tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same, and if he says no, then you guys should still be friends! If you like someone, you don't need to play hard to get, you shouldn't act like something you're not just for a guy to like you. And that brings me to when you asked my if you should lie or not. NO, you should defenetly not lie! Lying gets you NOWHERE in life, if he doesn't like you for who you are, then you don't need him! Think about this, what if you did say you have hooked up with people, he would ask you how it was, and you would lie again, and eventually if you two did go out, your relationship would just be a HUGE puddle of lie's! And you guys would most likely break up because you can't pretend for ever, beleive me, I KNOW! No guy is worth being something you're not! So be your self, tell him how you feel, and go from there, if he likes you GREAT, but if he doesn't, oh well! Don't lie to him, and be yourself and nothing more!
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how do i know if he's with me 4 sex or not
No one really has the answers to those questions. But if he is pressuring you to sleep with him, even after you already said no, multiple times before, then that might be a sign, a really big sign! Also, If he doesn't respect you, then you should find a new guy!
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Alright, well im 14 years old. And i've been with my girlfriend for awhile in which i extremely love, i've kissed her before, just little pecks on the lips and cheek, but what is the best way to have a long kiss with your girlfriend? Like, just kissing for awhile, is there a certain way that girls like guys to kiss?
Can't wait for an answer. :-)
Thanks.
If you want it to last long, then french kiss her! And you have to make it last like one minute, or so, like, girls like making out, and that's what you have to do, also, you should like, hold her in your arms while you are doing so! Hope you like my advice, im a 13/f, and that's how i like to be kissed! Thanks, hope you liked my advice.
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how do i tell my new guy friend who has a crapload of girls i like him
by saying " I like you"! duh! u need to be more specific, and give more details dumb a$$
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I need help on a guy, let's name him Bill. So Bill and I flirted for a while and it soon became a what you could call friends-with-benefits relationship (while he had a girlfriend) . After a while I told him that I really did like him, he stopped talking to me and cut off our friendship. (Apparently he didn't feel the same and I was just another girl to flirt with.) I ended up telling him i was really hurt and sent him a long paragraph telling him how i felt. he sent it to his girlfriend and she blew up at me. Let's name her Sue. Me and Sue are friends now and so are me and Bill. Bill and I are going to the same high school while Sue is not. I want to have a relationship with Bill during high school but I'm not sure if he'll still be too attracted to Sue to even consider me or if they'll still stay together. This is really long... I'll give credit to anyone who even tries. Thanks. :]
I think you should ask Bill how he feels about you, and tell him that you don't want it to ruin your friendship ( again), if he only looks at you as a friend-w-benifits kind of thing! But also tell him that if he only wants to be friends, and nothing more, then make it just that, no more friends with benifits! It makes the situation stickier, and you don't want that! Being friends with benifits only makes you want him worse! This is what I think, I think since you guys were friends with benifits, and if you really insist on still being friends with benifits, then you need to tell Sue! And don't flirt or do sexually involved things with him if he and sue are dating, find a new, SINGLE, guy! That's what works best! But if he wants to be friends with benifits, and not go out with you, I think he is playing you, kinda! So ditch this guy, and find someone who loves you and cares for you, and isn't a player!
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i've known my boyfriend since i was in eigth grade, im about to go to 11th anyways i've always known him as the guy to have girls all over him, and ive always known him as the guy to be allover other girls, he says he loves me and i believe he does he is a good guy but ibeen hurt so many times before how do i know if he says what he means
The truth is, you really never know if he means what he says, but the thing is, if you love him, you have to trust what he says, and I don't see anywhere where it says he cheated on you or lied to you, so there is really no reason not to trust him. I believe he does love you though, because if you have been with the same guy since 8th grade, he must love you. You know how guys are, they like girls, obviously! Would you rather him be a loser, and no one like him, I think you should trust your boyfriend. Really, he trusts you, so return the favor!
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my mom is sooo annoing with puberty and stuff. she acts all embarresed when i talk about it (which i hardly ever do cause since her behavior it makes me humiliated) and she reminds me of a 3 year old. I told her i had my period and she's like ok put a pad on and then for the last 2 days she has been acting all weird to me. We had like 3 pads left when i first got my first period and that was 2 days ago and i still have my period. So right now i'm on my last pad and i've been wearing it all day cause i'm way to embarresed to ask my mom if she can buy more cause then it will be awkward and the awkwardness is just beginning to wear off from when i told her i got my period. and also i'm extremely embarresed to go to the store and buy pads myself. I have no older siblings and I don't want to ask my dad to do it. Gosh PLEASE HELP HOW CAN I GET PADS??? Please I know this annoys you but: please dont tell me to ask my parents to buy some. Also please dont ask me to buy some cause when i went to cvs and bought acne wash for the first time the employee was trying to hide a smile.
I know you told me not to tell you this, but I'm gonna have to, ask your mom to buy you either pads or tampons, because without them, your gonna have horrible problems. And I think the reason your mom is acting wierd is because she is realizing that her "baby girl" is growing up, and she probably misses the old times, before you started your period. YOU NEED PADS, SO ASK YOUR MOM, SHE'LL BUY THEM FOR YOU, I PROMISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Amagine how wierd she's gonna be when you aren't using pads, when you aren't using anything!!! and if you don't want to ask your mom, then buy them yourself because the employee's job is to sell things to people, and she isn't making money if she doesn't sell them to you!!
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me and my gf broke up like 3 weeks ago but we still hang out sometimes. we were watching a movie and when it was over we started makin out and so i stopped real quick and was like, "we're still friends, okay?" and she didnt say anything so i kept kissin her but she wasnt kissing me back and she started crying so i kinda just left. we've talked since then but why was she crying??? did i do the right thing??? what should i have done if i didnt??? what do i do now???
Ok, maybe she loves you, and she wants to be with you, girls are REALLY emotional, and we don't like it when guys "play" us, it really makes us mad, sad, or even doubtful, like no one wants us. When you kissed her, she felt sad, like you were using her, so it kinda sounds like you are a player, which I hate players, so listen up, either, get your girlfriend back, or don't, but if you just want to be friends with her, then make it only that, NO KISSING, OR MESSING AROUND! Friends don't make friends sad, if you're gonna kiss her, then go out with her!!!!!
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i really need help, the other day i was really drunk and kissed another guy, and i have a bf..its completley killing me and i feel horrible..should i tell my bf, what should i do? has anyone been in this position before..thanks.
Well, Yes, you should tell your boyfriend, and mention that you were drunk, and tell him how you feel about him, obviously you care about your boyfriend, so don't let it get to you, you only kissed him, it's not like you slept with him, (or did you)? That would be another story if you slept with him. But what I'm curious about, is why were you drunk, I'm pretty sure you're underage, or why would you write an advice column?! If you didn't drink (illegally, or legally), that would of never happened, and you would be in the clear, you shouldn't drink, your lucky all that happened was that you kissed a guy, one of these times you are gonna get drunk and sleep with a guy, you are gonna get pregnant and you'll probably get a disease, too, there are so many diseases out there, you could get any of them!!! So my advice is tell your boyfriend, but STOP DRINKING!!! I know how it is, I used to drink and get into bad situations, even worse than that, (I'm 13yrs old), and I know how it is, my mom has given my this speech so many times so I know what to say, so you should seriously stop drinking, you lose all sense of judgement when you get drunk, and anything could happen! Really, drinking is a problem, maybe you should get help if it is a big problem, and if it was a one time thing, keep it that way! Thanks, and p.s. I wasn't ragging on you in this advice column, I was only trying to help you. I know what drinking can do to you!!!
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I'm 13/f and I was talking online with a friend, who he is 17. We have alot in common and stuff, so he asked me out. I was just wondering, what do you think is the maximum age difference? I really like this guy, and if he was my age, I would go out with him without question, but, is this age different ok?
Thanks in advance.
I think if it is love, there is no age limit. Just be careful, it doesn't really seem like you know
this guy, this guy could be some rapist killer sick child molester freak, so be careful! Go out with him, but bring a friend with you because he could try something that you don't want, so bring along a buddy!
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Ok, so I have been best friends with this boy since kindergarten. I recently switched schools and asked him out. I wrote him a letter telling him how I felt about him. He ended up saying no, and I was crushed. I haven't talked to him since. What should I do?
You should just put your self back together, and talk to him about it. Ask him how he feels, and why he feels that way. Maybe he just doesn't have feelings for you. He probably cares about you as a friend, but maybe that's all. Think about it this way, would you rather him go out with you, but not like you like that, and make it ruin your friendship with him, or would you rather you and him just be bestfriends like you have been for your whole life. A relationship could put your friendship in the trashcan, and why risk that. Go for a guy who you have feelings for, but not a best bud.
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So there's this guy i like and he is my neighbor. i am 13/f and he is 14/m. i am best friends with his little sister and she says he really likes me and want to ask me out. he TOLD me he liked me after he broke up with my best friend Sarah* and i told him that i liked him too but we could go out bc it might hurt sarahs feelings. its not about the likeing part i KNOW he does, he always flirts and comes over and stuff so thats not a problem. SO.... all my friends met him when he and sarah were going out and they all think he is a stalker frieak and i HAVE to agree with them bc i CANNOT let anyone know i like him scretly... please help! what should i do???
I am a 13/f, and I have had secret crushes before. I think you should just follow your heart, go out with the guy, what do you have to lose, if your friends don't accept how you feel about this guy, maybe the people you call your friends, aren't really your friends. It shouldn't matter to your friends who you date, it's your crush, not theirs! And when your friends say that he is a stalker freak, maybe you should speak up and say how you feel, they aren't good friends if they can't accept that!
Your advice columnist, (LeeAnna),
Hope you follow your heart!!!!
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I am a thirteen year old female and I have tried babysitting, petsitting, house sitting, house work, and pretty much everything. I dont have much money and I would like to start making some (I dont get allowance either) so anyways my point is, is there any jobs that I can get anywhere or do I have to be fourteen? Like can I get a job at a small shop or something?
I am also a thirteen year old girl, and I babysit. I have never tryed to work at a small shop or anything, so I don't know if you could do that, but maybe you could go around asking small shops, and whatnot how old you have to be to work for them, that's what I would do.
I hope I helped you,
LeeAnna
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well, my girlfriend is not very romantic, i am and i try to be but i can never get her to be romantic what i can do..please help
Maybe your girlfriend doesn't see you as the type of guy she wants to be with. Maybe she see's you as just a friend, I am a girl, and I have had boyfriends who want to be romantic with me, but I only see them as friends. But if that doesn't work for you, then maybe you should sit down and talk to her about it, I'm sure she will understand. Girls like guys who are very open to how they feel, but they are also sensitive if you hurt them. So, when you sit down and talk to her, don't get angry, she will just give up and not want to talk about it any more. Tell her how you feel, and let her know that you want to be romantic. Ask her if she see's you as a friend or boyfriend, then go from there. I hope my advice has helped you,
Your hopefully friend,
LeeAnna
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