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Second chance?
I need help on a guy, let's name him Bill. So Bill and I flirted for a while and it soon became a what you could call friends-with-benefits relationship (while he had a girlfriend) . After a while I told him that I really did like him, he stopped talking to me and cut off our friendship. (Apparently he didn't feel the same and I was just another girl to flirt with.) I ended up telling him i was really hurt and sent him a long paragraph telling him how i felt. he sent it to his girlfriend and she blew up at me. Let's name her Sue. Me and Sue are friends now and so are me and Bill. Bill and I are going to the same high school while Sue is not. I want to have a relationship with Bill during high school but I'm not sure if he'll still be too attracted to Sue to even consider me or if they'll still stay together. This is really long... I'll give credit to anyone who even tries. Thanks. :]
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well... idk what i would do if i was in this situation, but i think i would just wait and see if they still have their fling during the school year and if they do then i dont think i would say anything until the fling stops, but if they arent going to have their fling then i think i would talk to him about and see how it works... i hope a helped some... GOOD LUCK!
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Ok it sounds like Bill is just playing you. Whether or not he is with Sue it sounds like he would cheat on you anyways. I understand that you really like him though and I think you should ask yourself the question how important is Sue's friendship to you? It sounds like he also ratted you out to Sue before as well so if you wanted to keep her friendship I would drop this.
Also you said you were friends with benefits, this means that you were fu*k friends, if this is not what you meant do you mean you were friends who flirted and kissed a bit? I am unclear as to how close you were???
Hope this helps a bit. I tried.
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The worst thing you can do is try to get to Bill, if you and Sue are friends, I would just give them time and see if they last. If they do, then it wasn't meant to be. I mean, at least your friends with Bill and not just "admiring for afar." But, if Bill and Sue do break up, then you should ask Sue if its okay to try to get Bill.
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The guy is using you and you need to wake up and see that. Showing the girlfriend the letter is the same as laughing at you behind your back. He took what you were willing to give so long as it was benefiting him. Soon as you showed some interest he bails on you. Ran to the girlfriend in case you got mad and started to talk.
Find a guy who likes you. This one is a loser. :)
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I think you should ask Bill how he feels about you, and tell him that you don't want it to ruin your friendship ( again), if he only looks at you as a friend-w-benifits kind of thing! But also tell him that if he only wants to be friends, and nothing more, then make it just that, no more friends with benifits! It makes the situation stickier, and you don't want that! Being friends with benifits only makes you want him worse! This is what I think, I think since you guys were friends with benifits, and if you really insist on still being friends with benifits, then you need to tell Sue! And don't flirt or do sexually involved things with him if he and sue are dating, find a new, SINGLE, guy! That's what works best! But if he wants to be friends with benifits, and not go out with you, I think he is playing you, kinda! So ditch this guy, and find someone who loves you and cares for you, and isn't a player!
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well, this is hard. I'm kinda confused about you wanting a guy who cheats on his girlfriends. I would say, dont try to get a relationship with him, move on to another guy and stay out of complicated relationship triangles.
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If you really like him then take the risk,plus you too will go to the same school,which is a big advantage to gain that interest again,and go for it.Do what you feel is the right thing to do,if it doesn't go the way you wanted at least you tried,he'll regret it one day because you were that girl who cared about him,and liked him the most.
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