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Well, I really like Music. I love Hanging out. Most of my friends don't know that I give really good advice. But I love giving advice! And advice about anything too!
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
Member Since: August 1, 2006
Answers: 46
Last Update: November 25, 2006
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What does "Kawaii" mean? (link)
it means cute in japanese

it does not have significance to "little"

its also a piano brand, but the answer your looking for is cute.


14 f .so my best friend has had this boyfriend for almost 20 months now. and i know that its great and stuff and they are really great together but i dont see much of her anymore. last summer was so fun we hung out almost everyday and then this summer she was with her b/f. i only saw her 3 times. alot had been happening with me lately and she doesnt know any of it. i told her that i needed to talk and she said okay. but then everytime i asked her to hang out she said she was hanging out with her b/f. she doesnt even try to make plans with me. i dont know what to do. i feel like im losing my best friend. he wont always be there. and when she gets hurt, she may not have a best friend to help het through it. you have to balance your friends and your b/f. but how do i get her to see that? (link)
you have to talk to her.

say something like, "I really want to hang out with you, and I was wondering if there was a time where we can plan to do something together. I havent seen you a lot lately and I really want to go somewhere or what=not"

just whatever you do, dont say anythng like "youre always with you boyfriend" that will probably make her mad.

just explain to her that you want to hang out.


OKay i have and 8th grade slide show that i got and its burned onto a cd.. its 23 minutes long..and it has music set to the slideshow... is there anyway i could save it onto my computer then upload it somewere so i can put it on myspace.... o yea please dont say youtube because the clips can only be 10 minutes long...please and thank u (link)
www.photobucket.com

make an account, these come in handy. so once u make an account, sign in and on the upload page click "Video" tab.

wait but first, you have to pop in the CD, and a little popup should come to your screan having a bunch of different icons with text next to them. look for text that says "Save" or something like that.

then make the photobucket account and upload the video. from there take the "tag" and just insert it into any section of your myspace.


hey everyone


do use know any songs like that are for friendship or like ill love you foreva kinda thing or we will be for evre lolz something like that but i dont want it to bre from any opf those punk bands or rock


plz help =]=]


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hahah this probably sounds weird but "Viva Forever" by the spice girls hahahah sorry i love that song.


your best bet is to go with "pop" girl bands.



im soo sorry this is so long :(

13/f

okay so theres this guy and during the summer we got close and even started tlking to eachother like "hey sexy" sorta thing. we even tlked on the phone once and he called me once but i couldnt answer. it always seemed like he sorta liked me because of the way he talked to me, and how when i asked him if i could trust him he said " yes you can trust me. you always can." and one time he thought i was mad at him and i told him no never he said " ok good cuz i didnt want one of the coolest girls at school to hate me." and i of course told him i could never hate him. so not too long ago me and my cousin were hanging out and being hyper when she dared me to send this to him:

I want you

Your hott

its complicated....

so i did. and i thought it was a funny little message and excited to see what he would say. but the day after i realized i should prolly delete it, just because i didnt want him to think that i LOVED HIM. so i was gonna delete it, but it was too late, and he read it. he never responded. then 4 nights after, my cousin prank called him. so the next i sent him a mssg saying how sorry i was for everything even the prank call and all he said was "its okay i get prank calls all the time.ha" but he didnt respond to the message. things were never quite the same.. and i told him that. i told him i hate how we dont tlk like we used to and he said but why? we still tlk. and i sed no not like we used ot and all he said was ohh. then i got my best friend to ask him if we were still good friends and he said yea we are. but it reallly doesnt seem like it anymore and my best friend even told me she sort of likes him which got me mad and im scared he likes her too cuz he tlks to her but i dont know what set him off so much because i said sorrry for tht message :( by the way this year hes not at the same school as me this year so i dont see him alot. but i dont know what to do anymore. i try to forget him but i cant. ive recently started tlking to him again, but its still like not at all the same. i dont know what to do. i like him ALOT. i even dream about him sometimes and think about him and every song tht comes on he pops into my head. and i want things to be like they used to but sometimes when im messaging him he just stops and doesnt reply and i really dont want tht to happen again. i want to stay in touch with him. help me pleasse :( (link)
well first of all, guys don't really like clingy-ness so that dare probably did make it a lot different. you REALLY should talk to him. I would hate to be in that situation. Just explain to him that your coisin dared you to send that message and you didnt mean it, and tell him not to be uncomfortable around you because your still friends. thats the most you should do for now, dont mention anything about liking him for a few months or so. being friends right now and becoming as good friends as before is the best thing to do.


Really, I asked many people what the definition of soul is, and everybody starts saying his own crap. Soul, is something you cant see, something you cant touch. I dont want to know what soul is not.
people will start saying that soul is your imagination, your choices, antywyas jsut say what you think. (link)
its your spirit, your inner self [not physically] its who you are and youre own identity.


What is your fav hairstyle for guys?

messy neck length skater style, punk thicked spiked style,short marine soldier style,center parted style,or long old school metal style?anyone? (link)
i like hair thats like mid neck, and flippy. hehe. longish hair is very...hot..lol. I also like messy short hair.


On the Nike commercial, what is the name of that woman? She's a tennis player. They sing that song 'She's so pretty, oh so pretty'. It goes something like that. Help? (link)
Anna Cornicova


okay well basically i have wavy hair up to my shoulders and well i have put gel but that really doesnt work because it leaves my hair crunchy and freezy. i used the garniar soft curl and its mouse but after a few hours it gets freezy. does anyone know about any products that can keep my hair curly and not freezy. thanks. (link)
herbal essences curl scrunch, or just dont brush your hair or run your fingers through it when youg et out of the shower, leave it completely the way it was when its wet and fool around with it when it dries.


okay i have a boyfriend well did and i luv hm and alll but he insults me and stuff and they kinda hurt i dumped him and went out wit another guyy tht treaats me well...but i did'nt want to be wit him so i kalled itquits i did'nt want to date nomore i want to focuse on my studies but i feel so empty inside without tht boyfriend that insults me but he keeps hurting me should i get back togther with him?
oh what should i do? (link)
I have a lot of friends with boyfriends, and in large groups i am always the 3rd wheel [just standing there watching them be all mooshy lol] and I honestly dont see anything wrong with it because I know that i dont need someone to be happy. I also have a friend who's boyfriend is mean to her, but she just stays with him and i know she is hurt inside. My best advice is to wait, you really dont need a guy to make you happy, just hang out with friends. Also get some guy friends, and just be very friendly to people. THe loss of a boyfriend should not effect your social self.


does anyone know any bands that sound like flyleaf and paramore && that have girl lead singers and are rock / alternative ? (link)
well, i have a hometown band, the lead singer is a girl and shes my friend, the band is "kill the lights" theyre really good, kinda young, but i like them. If you have myspace, www.myspace.com/killthelightsme.

If not, sorry i dont know how else I can help.

OH WAIT, the tattle tales! very good.


If ive only had mine for like 4,5 or 6 months and im 13 yrs old ..how many days should my period last.? (link)
5-7 days usually, if its longer, dont worry about it. but if its like longer then 2 weeks thats weird, haha.but that shouldnt happen.


Does putting eyeliner on your top lid, bottom lid, or both make your eyes look bigger and bolder? (link)
i have big brown eyes and i put it on top, and on bottom on top of the lashes. [color of liner - black]

IF YOU HAVE BLUE EYES: do a thin line on the top OR only the bottom, do it a dark navyu blue color.


GREEN EYES: do it the same as the brown eyes, but use a BROWN colored liner.


making your eyes look bigger and bolder, you should do it the brown eyes way. no matter what color your eyes are.

hope i helped!!!


Uhmm.i was considering using Jamster to get a free ring tone.. Does it send u texts? charges you? please telly me your past experences with it! (link)
i got a ringtone from there once and it charged a lot. and i texted for one of those things and it doesnt stop texting you, you shouldnt do it.


Alright, how do you iron on designs onto clothes and stuff like that? what if i want to iron a picture off the internet?
p.s. give me any advice on making clothes that you have (link)
To make iron on images ono a sheet, you just need to get iron on paper. you can buy it at like, wal mart. you use it like normal paper, and it comes with directions, so its easy.

if you mean making your clothes with like a sewing machine, you can get applicants at like wal mart as well.


best of luck!!


i'm having trouble deciding what to do. i either want to continue growing my hair out until it gets really long or cut it really short. i want people's opinions on which is a cuter style.
one like this:
http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz/4971/Events/4971/AshleyTisd_Cohen_9182131_400.jpg?path=pgallery&path_key=Tisdale,%20Ashley

or like this:
http://www.imdb.com/gallery/granitz/3926/Events/3926/NicoleRich_Grani_6640648_400.jpg?path=pgallery&path_key=Richie,%20Nicole

thanks!
i rate (link)
It depend on what you look like, but personally I like the nicole richie one, its very cute! and in style!

hope i helped


Soon i will be able to get a new phone and am not postive what phone i want for sure so i just wanted some thoughts and oppinons on these phones. I can either go with Verizon or Cingular.
The Razr
The Pebl
The SLVR
"Chocolate"(from verizon)
Any thoughts from people who have the phones (that are already released) would also be a great help. (link)
The Pebl seems WICKED cool!! I would love to have that!!


Hey..sorry its soo long i hope you can help im the one usually giving advice if you ever need some ask me!
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could only stay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do?HE was never liek this before and all of a sudden he was acting liek an ass. I'm confused and i think i will regret iof i break up with him but at the same time i want him to go out with his exand see how diffent it is and realize he needs me but then i feel like i'd look like an idiot if i go back with him if he comes back to me later
please hlp thanx soo much for reading this. I'm 14 and a girl.lol (link)
It sounds like you guys really need to talk..

"Communication is the glue that hold Relationships together." When he gets back, just be serious and talk to him about whats going on. If you cant express whats going on to him, then you might have some insecurity. But thats how I am too.

Tell him that you are having mixed signals from him, tell him that you love him and you need to talk to him about things. Just be calm though, because a fight is the worst thing that could happen.

If you just let things go, you will never feel the "right" way. So the best advice I ahve is to talk to him.

If you want, IM me @: Alexis72605


Is a Metropolis Cermaic flat iron good?
I need help finding sites with reviews about it.
Please don't recommend other straightners. (link)
Yes, every straightener thats a ceremic is the best you can get. It will straighten fast, and leave your hair shiny looking and prettty.

Hope I helped!
-alexis


I'm moving from a really small school to a huge public middle school (7th grade) and i am so worried about not knowing anyone. and cliques will have already been formed. Plus i have acne do you think that will lessen my chances of making friends? (link)
I don't think it wil be a big problem, you will definitely find some friends, and if they disclude you because of acne they arent real friends! So don't sweat it, i gaurentee you will find friends. =).

good luck in your new school!

-alexis [8th grade]




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