about

i'm just an ordinary tennage girl. about 5'2 or 5'3 and i love chillin' with my bFfs! i love to talk and i am so boy crazy! i love to play soccer, which is also my fave. sport, and i love singing. soccer if fa sho' the best sport ever! i love my best friend ever, alli and my cell phone! =] l0l !

advice

ok 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend or kiss or anything. i don't know whats wrong with me. all my friends have had boyfriends but no, not me. im not ugly or anything like not to be conceited or anything but alot of people had told me i was cute and pretty. and i also have like alot of friends and they all say they love mt personality. i just don't get it. any answers to why i never had a boyfriend or how to get them to know im interested?

well,first of all mabey your not taking any risks and putting yourself out there.... relationships only happen if people stand out and make themselves noticiable .. mabey you should gain up courage and ask out a guy you might like.

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Just recently I moved to a different school. But this scool is has so meny guys and most of thoese guy like . But there is this guy that I really looking at. And I notice he's trying to get my attention . what schould I do

well, if he is trying to get your attention and you are checking him out and you kinda like him too, then try to get his attention with your amazing moves. then, one day when your walking in the halls and you see him, accidentally drop your books in front of him and say, will you help me? and if he doest, hes just a douche, but if he does help you, then simply say thanks and slip him a piece of paper with your number on it!

good luck! and i hope it works out for you!

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Ok, I'm a bit confused. Are condoms 90% effective or 98%?? And are they very easy to break?

Thankyou!!!!

condoms are only 97% effective and they can break easily

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How do I get a guy to notice me ?

to get a guy to notice you, try talking to him more and get to know him. look attractive when you talk to him too! wave your hair and twirl it too. if he wears, abercrombie or holister, you wear it too.

when your around this boy, talk about things that he likes to do (and make sure he knows what your talking about). dont stare at him or obsess over him because that just makes him think your weird.

if that doesnt work, ask me for more advice and i'll give you more! =]]

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how do I get this cute & th grader to notice me

okay. to get a guy to notice you, wear the same brands of clothes he does. for example, if he wears abercrombie, you wear abercrombie too. and whenever your around him, talk about things he likes with a friend. (and make sure he knows what your talking about!) and if he still doesnt notice you, have a friend ask him questions about you. for example, have your friend go up to him and say, do you know my friend , and whatever your name is? and if the boy says yes, then have your friend ask, well what do you think of her.

if that doesnt work, ask me for more advice and i'll help you!

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Hey well i have a huge problem! I have this ex- and he keeps calling me and asking me back out. i keep telling him i dont know or i'll think about it and then the next day or every 10 minutes hes calls and asks if i thought about it. It gets so annoying! Please help ME!!!

ok.. well what you should do is if you dont want to go back out with him then just tell him when he calls, "look! i dont like you anymore and i dont want to go out with you again! now, we can still be friends and talk to each other on the phone, but if you keep calling me and annoying me, i'll block your phone number! and i'll never talk to you again!" and if that doesnt work then just give him the silent treatment and dont answer his calls. turn the ringer volume down on your phone and if you parents answer the phone and he asks for you, tell your parents to say to him that your out with your NEW boyfriend. that will most likely get him to leave you alone. hope this helped!

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okay i live with my mom only && i`m an only child . but sometimes she dopesnt trust me . and i really wanna hang out with this boy i like and my friend will be there with me of course but i dont know how to ask her ! but i think she will let me if she knows my friend is with me bc i wouldnt hang oiut with him alone . any suggestions on how to ask her?? asnwer quick thanks

well, what i do when i wanna ask my mom a question and i dont like wanna ask her in person, what i do is write the question in like a letter form on a piece of paper and then stick it on her pillow. then she normally answers my verbally the next day. i hope this helped!

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my bestfriend lets call her kate she's like so kool.but i don't think i trust her because she's starting to talk to my crush alot and flirting with him and not even knowing she's flirting! and i've talked to her about it and she says that she'll try to back off but she hasn't i told her she could talk to him but just not flirt with him and she's done this to me before and i've dealt with it. she's told me she's liked the same guy i like after i tell her i like him!!!!! it kind of gets mad...no it really gets me mad!! and she acts like good bestfriend and all, but in this case i hate her!!!! pease help me out with this problem....

ok.. wow .. i know EXACTLY what your going through. well, basically just whenever this girl goes up to your crush and tries to talk to him, go with her and stand there while she talks to him and then that way you can make sure she doesnt flirt with him. and if they tell you to go away, say "no i dont have to. girl, you dont own him or me and cant make me do anything i dont wanna do!" and if he tells you to go away, just be like "too bad boy! you dont own me! and i can do whatever i want!".. i hope this helped!

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I like this guy and he likes me. We kind have thing with eachother. The problem is everytime my bestfriend finds out we hang out she gets mad and we end up in an argument. This is the second time now. It kills me to fight with her but i love this guy. What do I do...do i go for the guy and risk losing her as a friend??

Female age 15

ok, heres the thing. boyfriends and boys will come and go, but friends are forever. and unless you expect this relationship going really far , to the point of marriage at a later time, the forget him and stay friends with the girl. or all 3 of you could sit down and talk to him and discuss this situation. i hope this was helpful for you!

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i get pimples on my chin. gross i know. but they are like under the skin and hurt like a bitch. is it best to just leave them alone. or should i get the crap out of them quickly. and what can i do so i stop getting them. i dont get pimples anywhere else.

this is a great question to ask. i have acne too and i know what your going through. what you should do is just not pick at it and wash it twice a day , morning and night , regularly. you also might want to order proactive because just in case you might start getting pimples other places on your face, this will help it, and your chin too. if you dont want to get the proactive, you could go to the storre and buy an over-the-counter acne cleanser (clean & clear, neutrogena, etc.) when you wash your chin, dont scrub it. just gently rub the cream over it and then gently rinse. the rougher you are on your chin, the more the pimples will stick out. and throughout the day, it may be tempting, but dont touch it because even if you may have just washed your hands, there is still dirt on the that could get to the pimples and make them worse if you touch your pimples. i hope i helped!

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I just got braces three days ago [I had them before when I was in second grade] However, I'm in intense pain! I can't eat anything, even soft foods like soft taco's hurt like crazy, and pasta! I'm on Tylenol, I ice my mouth several times a day, I use the bite plate they gave me, and I put on Orajel. But it still hurts so bad, What should I do?

well, if your in a lot of pain, just try not to think about it and make sure you take lots of medicine to help keep down the pain. the more you think about something, the bigger of a deal it seems to be. if you dont think about your pain and try to do something else that you really enjoy, then maybe that might take your mind off of it for a while. and with the eating, just try gushy things, like jell-o or pudding; things like that. i hope i helped a little! =]

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