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Losing a friend over a boy
I like this guy and he likes me. We kind have thing with eachother. The problem is everytime my bestfriend finds out we hang out she gets mad and we end up in an argument. This is the second time now. It kills me to fight with her but i love this guy. What do I do...do i go for the guy and risk losing her as a friend??
Female age 15
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well I would be confused too...but talk to her.you can tell her that you really like him but she keeps getting in the way.she should be happy for you to have a future boyfriend.or mabe she is just jealous.just talk to her the only way to sort things out is through communication.but I don't know I am confused too....sorry I couldn't help in this situation it is just to compicated.
--sam I am
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if you want you can introduce her to a guy and tell her if she would like to go on a double date with you and your guy.
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Honestly in my opinion id totally forget about the guy.He will never be there for you as much as a freind and you might even end up breaking up with him and that way youll lose your freind AND boyfreind.Forget about him and stay with your freind,noobosyd worth making you lose your freind Youre still going to meet pleanty of guys in your life and true freinds get harder to find as the years pass.
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ok, heres the thing. boyfriends and boys will come and go, but friends are forever. and unless you expect this relationship going really far , to the point of marriage at a later time, the forget him and stay friends with the girl. or all 3 of you could sit down and talk to him and discuss this situation. i hope this was helpful for you!
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Does she like him too?
Or is he just not her type of guy for you.
Talk to her, tell her you really like this guy, but you do want her approvale. My best friend is dating a guy I personally don't like, we faught in the begingging. But after I while, I realized how special he was to her, now I just accept the fact that their dating. <3
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personally i was in this same situtation((sp))...and i am not best friends with my bff any more casue i went for the guy...but me and her are still friends...but doing what i did ..i was able to get 10 x's as many firneds as i did....mayeb give youa dn ger somespace apart for sometime..thats what i did and we end up for the better...she made new friens and so did i and she became less jelious and we never fight any more
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Well, if you're friend isn't supporting you hanging out with this guy, is she really a friend? And maybe she likes the guy. Talk to her, ask her if she likes him. Sometimes the best you can do is talk, and sometimes thats the worst thing you can do.
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Go for the guy since the girl isn't a good friend to you because she's always getting angry at you.And a real friend will be supportive and lookout for you.As well be there in the good times and the bad times.Another thing is love may only come once but you can always make a new friend.
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what happened to chicks before dicks?
bros before hos?
Good, because that has nothing to do with this.
If you're happy with this boy
then your friend should like to see you happy
& accept this.
She sounds jealous to me.
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Well I've been in this thing alot. the thing is if your friend is a real friend she should understand, but the reason she is uppset is because she thinks that you are growing up before her. So just explain to her that you aren't maturing faster and she should understand and understand one think NEVER LOSE THE GUY.
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