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never had a boyfriend
ok 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend or kiss or anything. i don't know whats wrong with me. all my friends have had boyfriends but no, not me. im not ugly or anything like not to be conceited or anything but alot of people had told me i was cute and pretty. and i also have like alot of friends and they all say they love mt personality. i just don't get it. any answers to why i never had a boyfriend or how to get them to know im interested?
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nothing is rong with you there are LOTS of 14year old girls who have never had a boyfriend or kiss so dont worry about that your not like some loser or anything i bet half the people who say they have had there first kiss r lying
but to let the guys know you are intersted make shure you flirt more like when you say something be alittle more perky or just like touch there arm when u taalk to them try not to overdo it tho and dont be shy go over to some guy and be like we should hang out as a little hint
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Im 15 and Ive never had a boyfriend. Some of the most beautiful girls dont have boyfriends..its not all about looks! And I know it sounds cliche, but good things take time to make it seem more worth while. When youre 14, youre in high school and the guys are really immature. MOST want sex and sexual acts just to say they did it to all their friends. Therefore they go for the easiest girls who will give it to them without emotional attatchment or hassle at all. Those guys are lazy. Also, high school relationships are stupid to me. Dont get yourself hooked on TV shows like Boy Meets world where Cory and Topanga are perfect and stay together forever OR the Notebook blah blah..Wait till college or even after that to find a boyfriend. It will mean more. And the guys will be so much more mature. Maybe the guys your hanging out with just arent meant for you. Dont worry..youre only 14. Thats not ABNORMAL to not have been kissed. So, be patient and try to find something else that makes you happy. A talent or a hobby. Do something worthwhile or help people in need. And remember you dont need a guy to make you happy! Stay gorgeous and fabulous and just flirt. Live it up because youre single! Its not THAT bad :] Its fun - look at it that way.
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Lots of people your age haven't had their first first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get their first kiss when they're 12; others when they're 13 and some even only have their first kiss when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss, yet. You're only 14, hun. You have tons of time for boyfriends and kisses, believe me. But, I promise you in time, you'll find that special guy and you'll get your first kiss. You just have to give it some time. For now, enjoy being a teenage girl and having fun with your friends; you only live once.
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You shouldn't feel the need to be pressured just because everyone else has a boyfriend. However, if you really want to get noticed, you have to put yourself out there. AND....do this around people you truely like...and not just the general population of guys or every guy you see (or specific group like the popular kids and so forth), otherwise you could end up with the best looking guy in the school, but he treats you like crap. Just give signs and flirt with the person(s) that you're interested in. Once then, find common interests with the guy and hang out with him a lot to see what he's like before you start dating him.
I hope that helps.
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just be... flirtatious. say youre tired and put your head on their shoulder. they think those little things are adorable.
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I was in your same situation when I was younger. I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 14. I remember spending tons of my time trying to figure out why nobody liked me. Like you, I had friends, wore brand-name clothes, and when I walked into a room, a lot of guys stared. The only flaw that I saw in myself was that I didn't hang out with the "popular" crowd, although I saw popular guys check me out. (Not to brag, just saying.) And yet, I hadn't even been asked out. Sure, *some* guys flirted with me, but nobody ever even hinted at asking me out on a date. My conclusion: the type of guys that would ask me out on a date (average to just-below-popular guys) didn't have enough courage to ask out girls yet. Just like I didn't have enough courage to ask out guys. Wait a little while, and soon a lucky guy will come along and fall in love with you. Besides, the best guys are the ones you have to wait for.
Good luck, and take care.
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well,first of all mabey your not taking any risks and putting yourself out there.... relationships only happen if people stand out and make themselves noticiable .. mabey you should gain up courage and ask out a guy you might like.
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"Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground, that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think that there is something wrong with them, when in reality, they are amazing. That is why we just have to be a little patient and the right boy, the one who takes a chance to find the good, right apple will come someday."
This quote is totally true. There is TOTALLY nothing wrong with you...the truth is, dating at your age doesn't even matter that much. I mean, yes it matters, but in the long run, who you meet when you're 14 is not who you're gonna marry anyway, so just don't stress about it! you've got tons of years ahead of you, just focus on school and your friends, and pretty soon you'll meet a guy who's crazy about you. I promise, as long as you're patient, it'll happen, and when it does it'll be better than any little thing that could ever happen when you were a preteen.
As for your friends, just tell them you have other priorities, and if they don't think you're worried and desperate, they'll actually respect you a lot more than you'd think.
I hope that made sense and helped! good luck, just don't worry too much.
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I'm 14 years old too. And all these years, I've been thinking the same thing. And just one week ago, this guy asked me out and I really like him. No, there is nothing wrong with you. I'm sure there have been many guys that liked you that were just too afraid to tell you. I'm sure this is what everyone tells you(I never believed people when they told me this) but don't worry about it. Eventually you will find someone. And the way to get them interested? You just have to be youself. I know that last year I really liked this guy and i was always so quiet around and he didnt like me, but the guy that asked me out, I just said and did whatever i usually did, cuz i didnt really like him until later. and he likes me. so yeah. basically just be yourself, and dont worry! I hope i helped:D
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