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hi,
k so theres this guy that i really like, and before i liked him my cousin had this thing for him too. It started off her liking him, i kinda liked him back then but then i stepped away because she called dibs first. When she finally got over him, i started to notice him again, and then it started out me and him saying hi to each other whenever we passed by each other, and then we started to talk to each other conversationally. i told my cousin that i kinda liked him, and she said that she was fine with that and that she was totally over him anyways. But today when he said that he would sponser me to a dance, she started to get pissed off and then she started crying. since then i tried to talk to her, but she wouldn't listen to me and then she would run away from me. What should i do ??!?!?!!
Give her time. She's obviously hurt. She probably didn't want to seem like a b!tch and say that she wasn't okay with you liking him... its not like you can un-like him. She probably thought nothing would come of you liking him, and then it would be harmless for her. Now that something came of you liking him, though, she must feel jealousy that nothing ever happened between her and him and wants what you have.
Just tell her that you're really sorry, you had no idea that she would get upset, and leave it alone until she is ready to speak with you again.
And if you can gracefully back out of the dance with this guy, try to do so. Explain the circumstances without embarrassing your cousin and apologize for the reverse. Then make him off-limits for a while.
Good luck hon. xoxo
im about to get the iphone 4, and im wanting to get the otterbox defender case. i have a few questions about it.
-how well does it protect against water damage?
-how well does it protect the phone when you drop it?
-i've heard that it has a built in screen protector for the front and the little apple on the back. is this true? how well does it work?
can anyone tell me if they have dropped it and it has worked?
i wanna know all the pros and cons too.
thanks!
The Otterbox is THE best case for your iPhone. Its the most expensive, too, but its well worth it. Its entirely covered in heavy plastic, except for the screen, and then has a soft gel covering over that.
Water damage: I wouldn't put in a shower, lol, but its definitely okay being out in the rain for a few minutes. You'd have to soak through the heavy plastic in order for the phone to get wet, which is a difficult task (unless submerged in water, of course). Also, I think the gel covering is water resistant: if a droplet of water gets on it, it just smears off then dissolves.
Protection from dropping: Best possible, out of all cases. I did some heavy duty browsing, because I was one of those people who dropped their case-less phone (but flirted with AT&T men to get another, free phone, such a win ;) and wanted to make sure this wouldn't happen again. Trust me, there's no way the screen could get damaged if you dropped this phone from a normal height. The plastic creates a heightened ridge so the screen is untouched if dropped (unless the surface its dropped upon is oddly pointed/sharp).
Screen protector: Just a little thicker than a normal screen cover. It doesn't really a protector though, due to what I just described.
Apple on back: there's just a break in the plastic to showcase the apple symbol, its the only uncovered part of the phone aside from the screen. Not an issue at all though.
Cons: Slightly clunky, but not nearly so much so as the Droid - so big. So not really a big deal. Just a lot thicker than the normal coverings, but I've never found a problem with it.
Also, the gel coverings only come in black, nothing fun or interesting.
Pros: Everything else! You'll never have to worry about a broken phone :)
Hope I helped, enjoy the Otterbox... xoxo
Name key (fake names):
Me: Annabeth
Boyfriend: Jaysyn
I'm 16, a sophomore in high school. My boyfriend, Jaysyn, is a senior, 18. He's really sweet, and it didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. I met him last year when I was a freshmen and he was a junior, and we started dating one month later. He was always very sweet and understanding about the whole sex thing: he wanted it, but every time I tried, I told him the truth--I'm no where near being ready for that, even if I might want it. Every time I said so, he was really sweet, saying he understood and wouldn't dream of making me do anything I wasn't ready to do. Lately, he's been going back on that promise. He's been getting kind of physical about it, too. Pushing me and shoving me and stuff; a couple of months ago we were at his house watching TV in his room because he gets free movies on his XBox through netflix, and he started kissing my neck and touching my leg and stuff. He was getting really touchy, and pushed his hand away and told me to stop, and he got really mad and he raised his hand as if he was going to hit me, but instead he just pushed me away from him, and I almost fell off the couch. I left when he did that and I went home. He called me five times an hour all night after that, and almost ten times the next day. Since then, he's been getting more violently, and touchy feely and rough, and when I deny him sex he gets really pissed. Last night I got up to leave and he grabbed my arm so hard I thought my wrist would break. Then he pushed me and I fell into the table--my knees are bruised. He called me a whore and a tease and told me I was being a bitch, and I left. This morning we had a date, and I didn't expect or want to go on the date after last night, but he showed up at my house right on time. I told him to go away and started to close the door, but he forced his way into the house and apologized for last night and got my oat from the closet and we went out and actually had a good time. He was really sweet, and he acted as though last night never happened. What do I do?
I completely completely completely agree with the last answerer! Never ever be in a relationship with someone who pressures you to have sex, no matter how many good times you may have in the in between moments. Its not like its ever going to stop unless you stop the relationship. And the relationship just isn't worth it. End it with him as soon as you can honey, for your own safety.
Recently my girlfriend of 2 years told me that she wanted to take a break. We are in a long distance relationship and I live in Japan and she lives in America. I always thought we were a solid couple and I still love her a lot. I talked to her on the phone today and told her all of my feelings. She said that the reason she wants to take a break is because she only has 1 month left of college studying abroad in America before she comes back to Japan to study, and wants to spend time with friends there before she has to return to school in Japan. I'm really confused because she said she loves me and stuff but that she just feels conflicted because she wants to spend time talking to me and also doing things with her friends and that she doesn't have time for both. I have told her we could talk maybe only once a week to give her space but we did that for a couple weeks and now she says that since we never talk she feels like she doesn't know me anymore!
I'm working in Japan so I figured I will see her in a month, which makes me so surprised that she would break up with me a month before we will see each other again. Maybe it is true that she just wants to have more time with friends and stuff but I get the feeling she likes another guy.
I just feel so heart broken. We are both in our early 20's and this is my first big break up. I'm still very much in love with her and I have told her all this but I don't think she feels the same anymore. I wanna know if anyone has advice on how or what to do to get her back? Should I give her lots of space for a couple weeks or so? Should I still send her messages occasionally or is it better if I just stop talking to her?
Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.
I think you should just let her do her thing. If you love her, you want what's best for her. And if she says a break is what's best, a break is what's best. This is just a guess, but she might just be unsure of if she wants a relationship with you still. A break would be helpful - the time apart would give her time to either miss you or realize that she doesn't want you in her life anymore. The once a week thing probably just makes her still feel committed and tied down, yet separated from you. How is she during your once a week talks? Is there lots of smiling, laughing, and eye contact (if you Skype)? Or is it mostly you talking, not lots of excitement, short answers, mundane questions? That should give you a hint as to what she wants.
I feel bad for you man. I really do. I just went through my first serious break-up-- I was with my ex for a year and a half, he wanted to marry me. I feel like I did to him what your girlfriend is doing to you. I realized I had no future with my ex and then once I found another guy who treated me like I should be treated, it was very easy to cut ties. I'm not saying that's what your girlfriend is doing, but it seems like she's definitely hanging on the "should I be with him / should I not" edge.
Do you have plans in the near future to live in the same country? I know she's coming back to Japan to study, but will you two be actually living in the same country for an extended period of time? If not, you may just want to call off the relationship yourself. Youth is for the living-- no matter how amazing this girl is, its not worth the heartache to have a distressing, long-distance relationship. A break definitely sounds right for both of you.
Good luck kid, I hope everything works out for you.
So recently, I have been dating this guy. My last boyfriend and I recently broke up too, but we're friends.
I really like this new guy. He's funny, quirky, adorable, and smart. We spent the whole day together on Saturday, and I'm seeing him today.
But I feel weird. I mean, he doesn't have a cell so we talk on yahoo and Facebook a lot. But lately he's been taking a long time to answer and when he does respond he just writes one word replies. Starting to get skeptical about this. Although he treats me very kind in person, I feel left out when we're talking through the computers. I feel like he doesn't like me. He spent so much time chasing me and flirting with me, but now, I feel like the thrill is gone for him. And another thing, he's super clingy. Always all over me when I see him, all cuddly and stuff, and I think it's cute but it's startin to get uncomfortable. Sometimes I think he just wants me for sex...
Should I be concerned? What should I say to him?
Its hard for us to comment on this because we really don't know exactly how he's acting in person or what exactly he's saying over the computer. But the best and most important advice I can give you is to follow your gut. Its almost always right. If I followed my gut at the beginning of my first relationship (which lasted a year and a half), I could have saved myself a lot of heartache. If he's not right for you - wants you for sex, only interested when its convenient for him - its not going to work. Go with your gut and if you feel uncomfortable, break it off. Good luck hon, xoxo
I met my boyfriend my freshman year of highschool, he was a junior at the time. We have been together about a year, ive never been this close to a guy before, I even went as far as losing IT to him. But the thing is, Hes graduating this year and im moving away to another city for my last two years of highschool. I also dont feel very attracted to him anymore..something changed. I still care a lot about him I have a lot of great memories but...I dont feel the same and I wish I did. Any advice? PS. Im 15 and hes 19
Definitely break it off. It needs to happen. If your feelings are waning, the relationship can never ask between him being at college and you moving away. You know this, you just want assurance that you're doing the right thing. And trust me hon, you are. Its gonna be hard, no doubt, because he's probably your first love, and you're probably going to hurt, but you're going to move on and it's going to make you stronger. It will be good for you. I just broke up with my first love, I was with him for a year and a half, and it was hard but its coming up on a month and I'm doing fine. Its okay to let go.
hello all...lately ive given up on finding a boyfriend a stick to messing around with people. But this one guy did make a move on me. his name is Efrain; dominican, and a senior..hes a real sweetie but..theres a three year difference..we arent even supposed to be dating supposedly.
some of my friends say not to mess around with that..others say screw the law.i agree with that point of course but...what should i do?
hugs&rockets---Michelle
hes 18/m (birthday august 18) im 15/f (birthday june 25)
oh and we're still 'talking'
He is JUST looking for sex. Trust me. I'm a senior. Trust me. There has never been one relationship that neither I nor my friends have ever heard of that has worked out between a freshman and a senior. There's only one happy senior-freshman couple right now, and he fcks her all the time while she's a slut and wants it but is too naive to realize that that's all he's in it for. Seriously think 100 times before dating older boys, because they're immature, inconsiderate and just plain stupid. If you're just looking for a fcking, go for it! And prepared to feel dirty and used a few months later. Just speaking the truth.
I'm fifteen, a girl, and a sophomore. This guy is sixteen, a junior. Ever since my freshman year we've been REALLY close friends. We share almost everything with eachother, and we both help eachother get into relationships (like wingman stuff ya know?? haha) but were also there to help with the aftermaths. We've both gone through really bad breakups and helped eachother through by just talking and being there for a shoulder to cry on... well for me to cry on haha. Also, since we've been friends we've aaaalways flirted with eachother. Like, just joking around though. Cept I do sit in his lap or snuggle with him sometimes but we've been doing that since forever. The thing is, recently I feel more for him... We've both been single for a while. And through out our friendship we never really texted. We'd call eachother when we needed to talk or wanted to chill or something. And we still do that, but since about winter break we've been texting every single day. And I've always felt close to him so I can't tell if these feelings are just friendship or more, but I really do think they're more. It's just so confusing. He's really protective of me about other guys and I get really jealous with him about other girls but could that just be that we're such good friends...? I really don't know! I don't want to ruin our friendship, but it kills me to think of him with anyone but me... HELP! SIDE NOTE: During all of this my ex boyfriend has been trying to get me back, but that's a very long story as to why I CANNOT do that. Just trust me. Do you think maybe that's why I've been clinging to my best friend?? It doesn't feel like it but my friends have pointed that out...
Sometime when you're hanging out at each other's houses, flirting or cuddling, I'd just ask him point blank -- "I don't know if I'm pulling this out of the blue or not, but sometimes I feel like you want us to be something more than friends... do you?" If he looks hesitant or scared, feel free to answer, "Because sometimes, I do." I think taking a chance on love can definitely be worth it, especially when you're so close already. There's nothing you can learn about him which you can hate, because you know essentially everything already. Worst comes to worst, a break up between you two would mean temporary awkwardness and avoidance. Trying out a relationship wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing, but definitely talk to him first and see what he thinks about it. Good luck hon :)
I am 21 and my boyfriend who I have been with for 3 years now is moving interstate coz he got offered a job. He will be about 12 hours driving away and we already had a year apart when he was traveling overseas last year. It is so hard on us and I don't think I can do this again since he will be away for 3 years and by then we will be 24 and that is a massive part of our lives if we don't end up staying together anyway. I always thought we would end up married and having babies in a few years time. He is leaving in a month and I love him so so much like he loves me but I can't wait around for 3 years for him. It's just too hard. When do I tell him and what do I say? I don't want to break up with him but I think I'll have to I have no choice. I don't want him to not go because I will break up with him either. I have no idea what to say. It's our 3 year anniversary in 10 days as well :( please help me.
You are still young; 24 is still too young to get married and have babies, don't you agree?
If I were you, I'd end the relationship. Stay in contact after he leaves, definitely remain friends, but allow each other to date. You both deserve happiness. And if you each find someone better in your time apart, then good for you - because that odd one out at the time has someone better for them coming in the near future, also. If you're both single after three years' time, you can reconnect and try to pick up where you left off.
Don't waste your youth on such a long-distance relationship, hon. Live life.
18/M
A few hours ago i was talking to my girlfriend (Lets call her Torrie)
Well we were talking and she asked me if i wanted to take a break because i seem bored with our relationship and that i might need some "Room", but in reality i'm just busy. I mean yes i kind of am bored but the reason behind that is we never see eachother anymore, she's still in school and i have work. She is about to be done with school and things might change then but i still have fears i will be bored, but who wouldn't after a relationship lasting for over three years right?
But i was hoping to get some advice on whiles on this "Break" If i should pursue other woman?
But if i did i have a feeling i would feel guilty
and maybe fear she would see other guys. Or maybe she has ulterior motives? She knows that i'm not going to be in a relationship with someone that does drugs, maybe she thinks this is her chance to?
I don't know, i would love some advice on this... Thank you in advance for all of your help.
The biggest thing a relationship should be doing is making you happy. If you aren't happy, something isn't working. Are you happy but bored? Or at least content? If that's a no, I would definitely recommend a break. I believe that the only way breaks can work is if both parties agree to stay faithful to one another during the break. Imagine if one of you slept with another person while on the break but the other didn't, and you wanted to reconvene with the relationship afterward? Messy.
Taking a break would let you get many things into perspective. If you miss her, if simple things remind you of her-- you should get her back pronto, man. If not... maybe its time to let her go. You're still young, and the clock isn't ticking very fast. Enjoy life before it gets too serious.
so im a 16m. First to start off this is regarding a girl. So weve been just talking during a class and we seem to get along she hanged out with me a couple of times. Then one of those times she asked me for my number but for whatever reason i was in a bad mood and kind of said something like i dont have a number. So just the other day we were talking and we just had a conversation and she mentioned something and then hessitated to tell me then she said something about some kid she liked in the class. So i was kind of just thinking to my self wtf. So i was thinking should i like ask her to do something this weekend or go to this party im going to or something or should i just kind of let it go and just be friends kind of thing. I dont really know i feal as if ive had alot of missed opportunities because im a really moodie person and just sometimes everibody seems to annoy me why? I dont know. Please tell me what i should and or shouldnt do.
She obviously thinks you don't like her because of the signals you're emitting. If you just asked her out to the party without an explanation, you'd confuse her so much and she wouldn't know whether you were going as friends or as dates. Saying something like, "Hey, I'm sorry, I've been really out of it lately... would you be up to giving me a second chance? There's a party this weekend I'd like to take you to...". Let her know that you were sending out bad signals and no, it was not just her misinterpreting you. And next time, don't screw up! If you like a girl, let her know and never show disinterest when she shows she likes you!
Hey! I just went out to get Jolen yesterday to hopefully use it on my underarms. However, I'm very, very light. I messed up on my anderarms one day and went too high up so I was just thinking about using that, would that be okay to use it there? Also, how does it make the hair? I have brownish hair so would it make it white? Clear? Would someone be able to post a pictire of their arm to see how the hair turns out?
Lol the hair turns pale, not like old person white but maybe a real real light blond? Test a small patch on your arm first to see how you react, if after 48 hours you like the result and haven't formed an adverse reaction (you shouldn't) continue to use it wherever else you want it.
I really don't understand what you're saying about "messing up [your] underarms" though... if you shaved too much, why would you want to bleach? What would there be to bleach if there's no hair there? lol...
Good luck nonetheless :)
He's funny, nice, adorable as all hell, and I dig him. I'm a 14 year old girl and he's around the same age but in only one of my classes. I wanna get to know him better but I'm ridiculously shy, and I don't know if he likes me back or if he's single or what. Any suggestions? I've been talking to him a little lately but the teacher is INSANE. No talking no fun etc, so yeah. What do I do? Thank you answerers.
If you're 14, I'm guessing you're a freshman. Definitely be wary if he's a junior or a sophomore in the "in" crowd. Upperclassmen are just searching for opportunities to take advantage of freshman. Trust me, I deal with it daily - I'm a senior. I'd try and form at least an acquaintanceship with him at first. Talk with him about schoolwork before or after class, say hi, friend him on facebook, comment on a status or two, etc. After you've had a few conversations, find his number online and text him for "homework help" or to ask a question about an assignment. If his number isn't listed online, pass him a note with yours on it saying you two could work on the assignment together. Obviously, once you're talking, feel free to stray from the topic of schoolwork ;) Good luck hon! xoxo
I feel like i losing my bestfriend of 3 years. She's the closest I've felt to someone EVER. I get very insecure about losing her a lot and I try not to let it bother me but when shes always commenting on this other girls facebook statuss and photos and it gets to me because she doesn't do that to my stuff anymore. I practically have to force her to text me and even then she barely says anything. Whenever she needs help figuring guys out or something she's texting me or calling me. When I need help from her about that sort of stuff shell never text back or she won't answer her phone. Calling back hours or days later sayin her phone ws messing up. But when it like Friday comes when I'm allowed to go over she always tells me I'm coming over. Then were perfectly fine. As soon as I leave its back to the same old same old no texting, etc. She also uses the excuse that she doesn't really text a lot or she never has her phone but when were together she ALWAYS has her phone and is always texting.
I love this girl with all my heart and I know she loves me too. When I tell her how I feel she's just always like I never want to lose you your my bestfriend and sister and nothing will ever change that.
I just don't always feel like that's true. Losing her is NOT an option. I refuse to walk out on her llike so many have before.
Please, any advice?
Friends drift apart. Its horrid but it happens. I lost my best friend of 3 years too. We talked 24/7 and then it just faded then I brought it up and it turned into an argument and things were never the same after that. She turned into a drip who likes to make fun of me now. Whatever.
I suggest that you don't force texting her during the schoolweek. In fact, let her miss you a little. Only text her if its necessary during the school week; after a few weeks, she may start texting you more. If she doesn't, she (a) either feels like she spends enough time with you on Friday nights and feels like she doesn't need to text you as much as her other friends, or (b) just doesn't want to have that close of a friendship anymore. Both options are tough - for (a), you're wondering why she has time to comment on her other friends' Facebooks but not yours, publicly snubbing you. For (b), you feel neglected and alone. Its hard. I know. I've been there. A lot of girls have. You'll get over it with time though, and grow to be stronger.
Although you may feel the need to address it with your friend, it may only drive her away more. I'd strongly advise against it. And definitely do not send off a quick "why don't you ever text me anymore?!" text when you're angry. She'll feel defensive and will avoid you.
Just coast for now hon. Its tough, but try to rely on family and other friends for now. Or form other friends. They may not come all of a sudden, but they'll come eventually.
Best wishes. xoxo
me adn my boy have been together for almost a year. we've done 3 hr long distance for half our relationship due to college. he's a good boyfriend, but he def doesnt know how to be romantic, or do things to show he cares. he hsa only come to visit me 2 times, ive gone home to see him so many times. i have to force him to take off work and plan tocome v isit me, i have to tell him to do certain things like to tell me he loves me and misses me since were doing long distance. when were together in person were perfect. i have 100000% trust for him, and we're best friends. but he doesnt make the efforts. everyone that knows us knows hes a sweet guy just not good with realtionships or expressing himself or being romantic. he was not any different in his other relationships, and its just how hes been from the start.
im not sure what to do... i wonder sometimes if breaking up with him would hit him in the face and realize things, but then again it might not. when we're together we're amazing but thats only once a month for at most a week, he's just not doing good with keeping me happy doing long distance, ive told him, he just doesn't get it.
Do you think you deserve more than that? Once a month? I do. I think any girl deserves more than that.
That said, 3 hours is quite the distance. And college is expensive, so consider if he really, really needs the money from the job - i.e. if his parents aren't backing him up financially.
My boyfriend is exactly the same way - except he has no excuse, he lives 20 minutes away. We only see each other one night a week. Even in the summertime, when we're both off from school. I must note that I'm fighting from typing in the past tense because my intentions are to break up with him in the near future. Its not working. My boyfriend tells me he loves me all the time but he is just not good at expressing his love. He never even calls, unless I prompt it. He's also a sweet guy. But he's just not good at relationships. And its not working.
If it just isn't working, its not worth it. The relationship itself needs to be good, not just the person who you're in it with. If he's not putting in as much effort as you are, you're going to grow agitated with him and become resentful. And it will build up until you just can't stand him. Not now, but soon. Like it did for me. Either address it with him or end the relationship. Its just not worth it hon.
Best wishes, xoxo
I need advice! please help im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20yrs of age and I we want to make love but I dont want to have it on my house or at his place because of parents we want total privacy and I was wondering in a motel but dont want him to pay or neither do I for just making love should we still go? I dont know what to do...please help
My boyfriend and I had the same problem, though not for sex, just for general intimacy when our houses were off-limits. The motel would likely be your best bet. Whatever you do, do NOT have sex in your car! Even if it is spacious and you think an area is remote, you don't want to chance being caught. My boyfriend and I had just finished making out in his car and we were just about the leave the deserted lot where we were parked when a freaking cop came and checked our IDs. That's what you get for living in a small town when the police force has nothing to do, I suppose. We weren't loitering or anything, they were just checking to make sure there was no rape and we were both over the legal age. It was seriously mega embarrassing, I was taken out of the car and questioned by a middle-aged man. Ugh. Anyway, don't risk getting caught, choose a motel :)
14/f
i've never had a boyfriend
(so ive never kissed anyone or done anything like that)
i have commitment issues...as in im really scared of a realtionship. i REALLY dont know what to do about it...i mean ill be SO excited because i know that a certain guy likes me, and i get really happy when there talking to me (ive been asked out enough to recognize the "asking out" conversation...) and then they ask me out....and my heart skips a beat and i tell them what i always say: maybe...i have to think about it. and then end up saying no or just letting it fade away without ever giving them an answer
it really kills me because i would do anything for a boyfriend...but apparently i just cant handle the commitment...i like the freedom im flirting with a bunch of guys without worrying about cheating.
i guess subconsciously i sort of believe once im in a relationship thered be NO way out. also, since im a perfectionist, i notice little flaws in the boys that ask me out, which does NOT work for me
i know i probably sound incredibly shallow and probably bipolar but i cant really help it...its just very confusing and i dont know how to get over my fears.
thanks for any help you have :)
You're basically living my life. At least, up until a few months ago.
Whenever a guy would start to like me, I subconsciously became a bitch to them to get them to stop liking me. Not because I couldn't handle commitment, though, because I had trust issues. I was convinced that any guy who I would start to like would let me down and leave me out in the cold. Because, if I was 13, they probably would have, us being so young. So I avoided relationships totally. It wasn't necessarily a bad thing, I avoided a hell of a lot of heartbreak. But because I was doing this subconsciously -- I only realized I was doing this a while back -- I thought it was some other massive flaw of mine that made all guys stray away from me, not just the few that started to like me that I was rude to.
But really, that was my heart telling me I wasn't ready for a boyfriend. Until I overcame my trust issues on my own, without anyone's help, I wouldn't be able to be a good girlfriend and handle being in a healthy relationship. Until you overcome your commitment issues, you won't be able to, either.
It doesn't come all at once. The more you think you've overcome it, you haven't. The steps you realize you're taking are baby steps. The biggest steps are the ones you don't even realize and you look back weeks or months later and say, wow, I wouldn't have been able to do that a year ago.
When the time is right and the right guy asks you out, you won't even hesitate with a "maybe later". You will yes him to death, or at least you'll want to.
I never let a guy get close to me. I don't even have many good guy friends. But I swear, God was on my side when one day, a short while after my 16th birthday, this boy and I met out of fate. He made the first few moves, and that made me trust him. Everything about him was trustworthy. I felt like I could put my life in his hands and he would return it unscathed. We've been dating ever since. One day you'll meet a guy that breaks your defenses just like my guy broke mine.
God bless hon, I hope I helped :)
errm this may be a weird question [:
but i really wanna turn on this guy who sits next to me in one class.
what are some gestures that turns guys on?
like i dont mean stuff to say but things i can do, not to him but like ways to sit etc.
haha thankies(:
This works if he sits beside you... stretch with your arms in front of you and bring them over your head and arch your back, its hot for girls and guys. Just don't use this if the dude is in front of you at all, it will just make your general front look large, haha.
Also, have your head tilted the slightest bit down but your eyes looking up when you're looking at the teacher or whatever. Then when he looks at you, you can meet his glance with the classic "come hither" look (lmao).
Hope I helped hon :)
I really don't understand why I'm still single. I'm 16, and a Junior in High School. I've never had a boyfriend, a first kiss, and I'm waiting to have sex until im older. And I've always been told by everyone that I'm very beautiful. It's just so weird that I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe it's because I'm quite shy in classes and stuff? I know of many guy's who have liked me throughout my years in school..but, they never asked me out. Friends say it's because I intimidate them? Which I don't get at all. I'm a very nice and kind girl. But, I know I could probably learn to be more outgoing. I don't know..I just don't have much to say in class because I'd rather listen to the teacher. I mean, I'm a junior, and I'd like to graduate next year..so I try and keep my grades up. Don't get me wrong though, I'm extemely social when it comes to lunch, gym, and certain classes that are full of my friends. Even outside of school I'm very social. But, I always have this shyness..even around my friends =/. I don't know why..I just do. I just wish I knew why I don't have a boyfriend! Almost everyone has a boyfriend. I know a lot of guy's respect me because I'm not the "slutty" type of girl, and I don't plan on changing who I am just to get a guy to want to be with me. I'm very happy with who I am. I just don't know what I'm doing wrong?
Any advice on this will be greatly appreciatted. Thankyou!
I used to be in the same position as you at the time that you asked this question-- same age, year, demeanor, behaviors, everything. Everything you described fit me. What will most likely happen sooner than later is, you'll meet a guy who you previously had little or no connection to at lunch, gym, or outside of school through a mutual friend or school event who will get to know the real you away from the shyness. If I was you, I wouldn't believe me right now. If someone told me I'd be in a relationship last August, I would've laughed. But it happened to me and it'll happen to you, and when it does, it will be beautiful because its natural and unrushed. Don't actively seek a relationship and it will come to you, its just the way fate works :)
God bless, love.
Hello, I'm a 19 year old female and I am wondering when breasts are supposed to stop growing. I am currently a 32A; however, my mother is a 42C and all the other women in my family have pretty decent sized breasts. I know that breast growth is partly hereditary, so I'm just wondering what gives? Thanks all in advance :)
Genetics can only go so far, hon. If you've had your period for more than five years, you're pretty much done. There is a chance that you may slip into one of the half-sizes (by Playtex I think? haha) before you turn 21, but it is very unlikely. If you've had your period for less than 5 years, though, there is hope, haha. If you've had it for less than 3, then there's definitely hope in reaching a B cup.