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A approriate place to make love with your boyfriend
I need advice! please help im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20yrs of age and I we want to make love but I dont want to have it on my house or at his place because of parents we want total privacy and I was wondering in a motel but dont want him to pay or neither do I for just making love should we still go? I dont know what to do...please help
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I agree that the motel is the best option.
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A hotel room honestly might be your best bet. I understand not wanting to pay just to have sex, but it's probably the only way you can be guaranteed total privacy. If you look, you can probably find a pretty cheap room somewhere--if you're only getting a room for lovemaking purposes, you don't really need the Hilton or anything.
Other options: you could wait till his parents or yours aren't home, and do it in one of your homes then. That could add the pressure of trying to get done before they come home, though, which could dampen the experience. There's also always the classic sex in the backseat/on the hood of a car, but...I'm not sure I'd recommend that one. It can be hard to find an abandoned place, it can be cramped in the backseat, and it can be pretty risky as far as getting caught goes.
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My boyfriend and I had the same problem, though not for sex, just for general intimacy when our houses were off-limits. The motel would likely be your best bet. Whatever you do, do NOT have sex in your car! Even if it is spacious and you think an area is remote, you don't want to chance being caught. My boyfriend and I had just finished making out in his car and we were just about the leave the deserted lot where we were parked when a freaking cop came and checked our IDs. That's what you get for living in a small town when the police force has nothing to do, I suppose. We weren't loitering or anything, they were just checking to make sure there was no rape and we were both over the legal age. It was seriously mega embarrassing, I was taken out of the car and questioned by a middle-aged man. Ugh. Anyway, don't risk getting caught, choose a motel :)
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