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past one night stand?
So I am a lesbian and my gf told me about 2 months ago that her roomate was the first girl she slept with. My gf got into a bind and her roomate took her in and helping her until she gets her own place. They had sex 10 years ago and its always been on the downlow sometimes I am confused because her roomate is very bossy and rude and makes her watch her kids 24/7. My gf says that was like a one night stand no feeling she dont want her nothing like that. It is hard to think otherwise when they live together but are like best friends and her roomate is like a mom cuz she took her in cuz her mom kicked her out. Well new years I got upset and said something to her roomates sister who didnt know my gf got upset said she felt betrayed and said she will get her ass kicked is her roomates sister says something. What should I do and believe?
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ok hun honestly its alittle confusing but if you trust her than why worry trust is the main importance of any relationship and no never ask anyone else if you have any thing say it her or else drama will start if you love talk to her and if there is no reason not to trust than dont keep accusing or else she may just do it again hun buttttttttttttt granted you are right idk if i would feel comfy about my gf liven with some one who she already had sex with sooooooooooooo if you cant trust her than end it but eighter way instead of talking to her sister deff have a little sit down i hope i helped good luck
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Your "girl friend" is living with another woman with whom she has previously had sex and appears to be stringing you along and not being honest with you.
You should not have said anything to the roommate's sister since you did not know whether or not the roommate had told her sister about having had sex with her ten years before. The fact that you are upset about your girlfriend and her roommate having been former lovers is something you should be talking about with your girlfriend. Not her roommate's sister.
Since your girlfriend is "best friends" with her roommate, takes care of her roommate's kids, and is like a daughter to her roommate, there does not seem to be much "room" left for you. If there is a way to create a healthy boundary here then I cannot think of it.
Time for you to be moving on!
Viniya
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