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Okay so my 60 year old aunt immigrated here (Canada) about...one year ago? And her English is so bad and she slurs and her voice wavers and sounds like she's going to cry when she speaks her think accented English and it annoyed the hell out of me (and still does) but I've learned to keep my mouth shut and only make a face at her when I'm in my own room by myself thinking about her, because she's likely going through some worse things than I am.
And just like me, she's recently keen on getting her G2 (crazy, I know) and I finished long ago but I know that she's probably been having a rough time because the teachers in the driving school I was in was probably not patient for someone like her and the teens there are terrible! Unlike them who were forced by their parents to go to get a lower tax fee or something, she's actually there to learn and I know that things must be hard for her but I don't know what to do. This isn't exactly the best city and the teens are absolutely rude and ignorant and I don't know EXACTLY what's it's been like for her but I just know that it probably hasn't been good and I can't get the feeling out of my head and I don't know how to stop thinking about it.
When she first came I was honestly waiting her to just live here until she passes away, but that's the bitchiest thing for me to say and I honestly don't think like this for any other older population, just her because she's a family member and I really hate my family. But then I realized that 60 is probably a long way to go til 100 and that she's gotta at least do some things she wants to.
Am I a bitch for thinking that she shouldn't be driving in her age (she can't even do the homework from driving school and asks me to help her, which is like doing it for her since I can't speak our…language that isn't English. But it's kind of confusing when you look at the book and you don’t know exactly what the instructions are since the teacher isn't here to tell me what to do. But the teacher actually told her to go home and get ME to help her with it!) or is she able to? She even has walking problems and her legs always camps up and she's always dizzy and she's slower than me! Is it really safe for her to drive? And is there anything that can be done to prevent…sneering from other teens due to the circumstances of exactly who she is? Sometimes you have quizzes at the end of class on the overhead and I'm usually the one who holds people back a minute longer because I really read through the words, but she wouldn't understand some of the words and even has a English translating dictionary and the teacher cannot put the next slide until she's done so I can only imagine how rude and anxious those teens would be.
Sorry I'm ranting. (link)
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it seems to me that your embarressed to have your 60 yr grandma to be in your driving school and i agree teen are ignorant and rude but you shouldnt care what other people think and your find when you talk think and act for yourself you may even have follows and i dnt think its bitchy and you understand her feelings as well i think your right she shouldnt be driving really at her age exspecially with her medical problems have yuvmentioned this to her if not you need to do so... i hope i helped
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How old do you have to be to buy tampons? (link)
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nooo hun yu can buy tampans at any age =)
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he’s going to be a senior next year, and she’s starting her freshman year of college in mid august. this guy knows i liked him, and he kinda strung me along for a few months before dating her. what im trying to ask do you think their relationship will last long? she’s also running in college, and its a D1 school so it’d be hard for them to see each other. though the school is only an hour away. im not trying to be immature, when he told me they were dating i genuinely wished him the best. im just plain curious. i don't know what to do. he was literally begging me to still be friends with him. (link)
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well the fact hat hes dating her and not you should tell you something? if you want to be a friend be a friend but your playing with fire ..good luck hope i helped
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14/f .
so i have a boyfriend .
he's seventeen .
we've been dating since 101209 .
so almost four months , or around there .
his mom lovesme & my parents love him too ,
his mom & my parents are like best friends , so were like one big family..
but i really don't know how much i love him .
i mean , thats horrible to say .
but i wanna be single sometimes ,
we've broken up before and he turns everything on me , and sometimes cries .
then i feel horrible , and pretty much get forced to go back out with him .
my parents get upset with me , and tell me that i'm lossing someone who loves me,
and yada yada yada .
but worse , all of his upperclassman friends get mad at me ? cause of what we did .
i wish he could respect the fact i kinda wanna be friends .
ugh , i dunno what to do.
help ? any advice would be appreciated (:
thanks guys . (link)
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BABI DO YOU you dont have to make anybody happy but your self if your not feeling him your doing the right thing yu want to be friends i know its hard but your own person hell get over it you know its unhealthy to be in a relationship that yu dont want to be hope i helped
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From the time we met I had my eyes on you
This feeling I have is so brand new
I love the way you hold me and kiss me sweet
You make me smile every time we meet
I love your blue eyes
I love your smile
Each minute with you is worth the while
You give me something to look forward to each and every day
I can no longer linger what I must say
You need to know how much I care for you
How much you mean to me
You are unlike any guy I’ve met
I love your quirky personality
I feel safe when im with you
You arms around me like a shield
I can’t explain this feeling that came upon me
But it feels so real
You help me forget all my problems
When im with you they seem to vanish
You’ve taken me out of darkness and lifted my spirits
And for that I can’t thank you enough
You bring joy to my life
Got rid of my strife
You are more wonderful then words can express
You help me get rid of my stress
Thank you for being so amazing
For lighting up my days
I’m so lucky to have a guy like you
Someone so loving and someone so true
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i think its a really cute and hell love it :)
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so how do you make your self throw up?
fingers dont work. dont worry, im not planning on do it. i dont know anybody that is doing it but im in health class and thats our topic. yeah, i know, its weird but i need infooo. i rate 5 for all(: (link)
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mmmm ihope you dnt do it but fingers deffinetly work you just got to shove them down your throat far enough ad over eating and sometimes not eating at all ad deff something nasty enough to make you puke hope i helped good luck
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idk what to do. i feel like im losing myself like who i worked so hard to become. i was really happy, outgoing, and just things were all around great for me. now i feel more hesitant and lazy but mostly depressed.. it sucks. also it seems like im really only happy when im with my boyfriend but i only get to see him like 3 times a week max. please help! idk what to do but i have to do somthing! (link)
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mmmmm has any thing happened latley to make you feel depressed? if i were you i would go see a doctor because thats never healthy do you have a lot of stress or anxiety because this could also cause yu to be depressed goodluck i hope i helped
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My boyfriend and I have been dating 3 years, and I am now being home schooled, He goesd to the same church and all but how can I se him more, I really love him and cant stop tihnking about him, any ideas please help (link)
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sooo whats the big deal he doesnt know where you live???????? and if he does than you should be able to see eachother more and if yu really love eachother you could make it work sorry need more info but i hope ihelped
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Every time I make out with a girl I get a boner. is it normal to get a boner when making out with a girl? I get so embarrassed but she seems to like it when it happens so why is this!
13/m I feel like I need a learners permit for this thing! LOL! (link)
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lol your to cute and its perfectly normal to get a boner silly so no worries there and most females do like it it means where turing you on witch is always a plus :) hope i helped
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Me and this boy have been talking for not to long ,less than a month.We talk at school a lot and hangout on the weekends.Yesterday we only talked at school and he said he would call/text me later and he didn't. But he kissed me at school,so im assuming he does like me.Today,he called me and we chilled right after school for a few hours and he kissed me ,held my hand ..that kinda stuff while we were hanging out.When i had to go home,he told me he would text me or call me later and help me with the homework we had.he never did! I don't really text him first very often but i don't want to seem annoying.Maybe he is just taking it really slow and doesn't want to be obsessed? What do you think! (link)
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honestly hun i think you need to be the man here and find out whts up you know ask him what he wants you dnt have go move fast but you do want to be on the same page. if your to shy to do that than go along with the flow treat him the way he treats you good luck
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im sorry if its a little long its a long story but i would apreciate it if u guys read the whole thing. ok so about a month ago i met a really cute 20 yea old guy. he asked me to hang out alot of times but i wasnt able to. this saturday night i was able to and we met up at his house. i asked my sister (whose 20 yrs old also) to take me. so she took me and i was at his house just talking we did makeout like once and by the time i got home i was already totally hooked on this guy. he seemed like a good guy. so sunday rolled around and he asked me to hang out and i brought my sister and cousins. we went bowling then to a cafe. i was really nervous and never spoke muh but i noticed him and my sister spoke alot and my ousin even told her that he might like her. in the end the date was horrible me and him barely spoke i got mad and didnt even bother speaking to him. when i got home i felt bad and called him he said it was ok and i thanked hm for paying for bowling and the dinner. so the next day (morning) my sister told me that she didnt trust him at all, he looked like a player and he had 80 something unread messages on his phone. he was also really paranoid about it and didnt want anyone seeing it. i found that weird and knew i couldnt trust. ok so monday my sister goes out says its with her friends and i stay home. i texted the guy (nate) and called him he didnt answer. my sister gets home with a hickey. i asked her where she got it from she said it was her ex. which they still talk and im pretty sure she still has feelings for him.(her ex).next day one of nates friends whose very nice called me and said did you know where your sister was last night? i asked her she said it wasnt what i was thinking. she said her and my cousin (whose 24) made a plan to see if they can trust him. she said he had texted her that night and asked her to hang out and she said she went to see how far he would go. and that she was only trying to protect me.she said to forgive her and that they went to watch a movie as friends and he invited her inside then tap kissed her and started giving her a hickey she said she got mad and left. and my older cousin (whose very protective of me) said not to tell me anything becuase they wanted to tell me together about nate. heres what i dont understand. that night she told me to lets make a plan but i said NO becuase i didnt want to find out atleast not now if he was a player. they went behind my back and did this trick yes offcourse im never talking to him again but what do i do about her? everytime i look at her i see them making out. thats not right she knew how much i liked him.i knew he couldnt be trusted and yes it hurts becuase i really liked him but i am more hurt becuase of my sister. she said she was only trying to protect her and to forgive her she didnt mean for it to go that far but once he was so close she couldnt stop. she admitted to being wrong and asked for forgiveness. i cant. i dont find it in my heart right now to forgiv her i feel betryaed, eventhough she said she was trying to help me. i was sos tupid i was the one trying to help me get rid of that hickey so my parents dont see it. i have t admitt when she got home she started crying, and was paranoid. i dotn know why she did this she was my best friend and was always there for me. i didnt want to know if he was a player atelast not now, and not this way. i cant stop crying all i can think about is them making out. and her hickey. this wasmonday night and that hickey is still there and she said it was like a 3 sec thing and she knew she was doing wrong and left. but she is a little dark skin that hickey wouldve nevr been that bad, if it was 3secs would it have? should i forgive her? i feel so desperate betrayed i spoke to my cousin she said that they were only trying to help me. i can get that image out o my head though. im crying as im typing this sorry i just needed to let it all out. please help? (link)
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okay first off shes dead wrong if he texted her that night isnt it proving that hes playing games and your sister was wrong and in my opoin did it because maybe out of jeleousy and anger because your younger but eighter way she is your sister and blood is thicker than water i wouldnt trust her throu shes your sister forgive her and make her earn your respect and trust back.
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So heres the dealio...I want to get fingered my friend did and said it was amazing? so uhm like i wanna do it with a older guy.no strings attached i am not a relationship girl at all i mean im not planning on sex just yet but i do wanna do some sort of sexual stuff? what do i do? and i am not going to finger myself so dont mention it? mm? help hah i sound like a immature little 10 yr old im not tho ahh (link)
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first off your only 10 i would wait on that and be carefull how you lead people on older or not you may not want sex but they do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and getting fingered isnt always good depending on who does it. and when it does happen you dnt rele do nothing maybe just move your hips but hun pls dnt try to grow to fast its not that yur immature your curious but be carefull pls remeber curiosty killed the cat
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I am 14/f and my bf is 16/m. We were both in a relationship, we both broke up around the same time, and we started dating axpromiately three months after the break ups. So there was a gap. But the exes are whats causing some problems. His ex... Lets call her S and well call my boyfriend B. Alright so before I even knew B or liked him or anything, I've hated S. I reeeally don't want to go in to the details of why all that hatred is there but yeah... And my ex, isn't exactly important except that he really screwed me up. He was sixteen while we were dating and I was fourteen. After about a month he tried to have sex with me. I told him no, I wasn't ready, I'm too young. And he broke up with me. He told me that he was only dating me because he liked making out with me andd he thought it would be easy to get in my pants. I was heart broken. To know that someone only wants to use you for something like that and then drop you just makes you feel like shit, and I told myself I would never get involved with a boy like that again. So when I met B I was so happy. He's a good boy, really. We've been dating for like four months. And we haven't gone past making out. Well... the other night I got taken a little off guard when he told me that he had gone preeetty far with S. Not sex, but third base things that I am NOT ready for. I was so shocked... and really upset even though I had no right to be. They were dating and I didn't even like him like that then. I don't know why I got so upset. Some of it has to do with my hatred of S and it honestly makes me sick to know that B would do something like that with her. I love B and it actually makes me stomach hurt to think about it. But I also think most of it has to do with the fact that I don't want things expected from me. And I was scared. Here B had gone with this experineced pretty and willing girl and I... I felt like a little kid. I didn't KNOW that B had this experience. I talked to B about this and he told me I was beautiful and smart and that I actually cared about HIM and his personality which S never had. That I was more than he could want and he if he could take back what he did with her he would have never done it in the first place. That it was stupid of him. And he told me that I don't have to do those things with him. That he values being with me more than anything. That should make me feel better right? Well it did... Until I realized that Iiiii am the problem here. HE might not expect me to do those things but in my mind I raise this bar that I think I have to meet. HE might not compare me to her, but I do. I'm scared it will turn out like my ex. That he could leave me because I'm not ready for the things he is... B said he would never do that. I believe him. I trust him. But why do I still feel like crap? And why am I doing all this damage to myself? Why can't I think the same way B does? And what if I ammmm ready for those things??? Help? (link)
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okay first off hun your ex is an asshole just like most guys alot of guys you will find as you get older only want sex but B seems to generally care about you and you shouldn't hold his past against him im sure you did stuff with your ex maybe not sex but stuff and gurl save the drama hun who gives a hoot any more bout your ex or S you are your own person and he screwed up thats what makes him trash not you Its normal to feel like crap but dont let him bring you down you are your own women dnt let him have that power over yu LIVE AND LEARN your hearts going to be broken plenty of times but it sounds like you have a good relationship with B so why let haters bring you down i know it hurts i had it done to me but we all survive and just be alittle causious you know hun and B on the other hand is WILLING to wait soooooooooooooo make him wait lol untill your ready and your know when your ready dnt be pressured to do anything you dont want and DONT ever feel like it s your fault ever hope i helped good luck
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sometimes i do (what i think are) annoying things to guys(such as talking to them a lot and touching their hair and texting them a lot)
how do i stop doing these things, because frankly they annoy me, too...haha.
also, how do you know when a guy thinks your annoying?
thank youu.
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ha ha ha someones flirty lol do you but trust me if a guy found you annoying he would most likley let you and how do you stop just stop when you get the urge to touch learn to control it like twiddle with your thumbs or find something to keep occupied and instead of touching their hair play with your own witch is another way of flirting lol hope i helped good luck
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Im 15, Ima virgin. Im also a girl, ha. But I was wondering how does sex feel for the first time? Like it hurts? Or feels good? And what kind of feel good? Im not thinking about doing it, i was just wondering! THANKS(: (link)
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SEX DOES HURT the first time and after maybe haveing sex 2 or 3 times after that sex could feel great if you have the right guy or sometimes is nothing speical lol hope i helped
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So I am a lesbian and my gf told me about 2 months ago that her roomate was the first girl she slept with. My gf got into a bind and her roomate took her in and helping her until she gets her own place. They had sex 10 years ago and its always been on the downlow sometimes I am confused because her roomate is very bossy and rude and makes her watch her kids 24/7. My gf says that was like a one night stand no feeling she dont want her nothing like that. It is hard to think otherwise when they live together but are like best friends and her roomate is like a mom cuz she took her in cuz her mom kicked her out. Well new years I got upset and said something to her roomates sister who didnt know my gf got upset said she felt betrayed and said she will get her ass kicked is her roomates sister says something. What should I do and believe? (link)
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ok hun honestly its alittle confusing but if you trust her than why worry trust is the main importance of any relationship and no never ask anyone else if you have any thing say it her or else drama will start if you love talk to her and if there is no reason not to trust than dont keep accusing or else she may just do it again hun buttttttttttttt granted you are right idk if i would feel comfy about my gf liven with some one who she already had sex with sooooooooooooo if you cant trust her than end it but eighter way instead of talking to her sister deff have a little sit down i hope i helped good luck
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15/f
So I'm going out with this guy since the beginning of November. He cares about me alot and its crazy. I do like him. But the thing is, when he first asked me out. I liked another guy but still decided to give my boyfriend a chance. I still like the other guy, alot. He's one of my friends so he's harder to get over. He likes me too but he doesn't know how I feel about him. He's definitely not happy about me getting another boyfriend and tells me about it. I don't let his opinion change what I do. It's just, I still have feelings for him but I still like my boyfriend. It's not easy to forget about him because I talk to him every week. We see each other like 3 or 4 times a week and I'm friends with his sister so I see him way more.
I don't really know what to do. I haven't mentioned any of this to anyone except one friend. She thinks the guy I'm dating now is better for me. I totally agree because he treats me so good but you know, there is always something about your guy friends. I've liked him for about a year so this one isn't gonna be quick to get over.
What should I do? Thanks (link)
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well honey you need to decide who you like and i dnt mean to sound brutal but its the truth your playing with fire your going to wind up causing more drama than needed your young there be plenty of other guys but remeber hun make your choice before it all blows up in your face i hope i helped and remeber you make your bed you lie in it you know you cant have the cake and eat it to lol good luck
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Hey, ok well this is sort of extremley embarassing and I never thought Id find myself asking this question but here goes..
Im 16/f and I noticed with my previous boyfriend whenever he em fingered me it really hurt I thought it was just him at the time being rough so I said nothing and just pretended to enjoy it,afterwards I noticed specks of blood (by the way this was the first time id been fingered by a guy) the second time was ok but still a bit uncomfortable. Anyway me and that guy split a while back.Im now with a new guy nearly 3months in a few days. So tonight was the first night we kinda messed around and it was sore again when he fingered me and yet again the specks of blood. Now Im really freaked out because I know its me..whats wrong with me? its supposed to be enjoyable I dont want to have to pretend all the time and feel discomfort but god how awkward would it be bringing it up with him? I dont want to make him feel bad and Ive noo idea how to even say it oh like btw your sort of hurting me?
Im now so worried that when I decide I want to have sex it will really hurt..well I know it does the first time but you know after that this is really getting to me and I dont know what to do I feel so stupid for asking this question but I am worried..I want it to be fun for me to and not have to dread it the whole time..is it something that will pass and Il get used to or what?
Please someone help :(
itd be much aprciated thank you
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dont feel stupid hun okay so so how many fingers do they use if your a virgin than they should only be using 1 finger when they use to there stretching you out and make sure there hands are clean and nails arent to long and hey hun if hes hurting you make sure you let him know its your body how is he suppose to know guide him tell him to go slower and use less pressure i hope i helped good luck
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I will try to make this sound easy to understand
I have been best friends with this girl (Kelsey) since I was 11 years old and I am 26 now. Kelsey started dating this guy (Tim) 6 years ago. A few months ago Kelsey started lying to me telling me that I was a control freak and when I asked who told her this she hesitated and told me someone who hardly knows me said it. (I know for a fact it was her boyfriend Tim because of out all these years Kelsey never said such a thing about me) anyway it began as that then little by little she kept on lying to me more and more about little things. I stopped speaking to Kelsey for a month, Then I slowly began to speak to her again trusting her a little at a time and the first time I spoke to her again since our arguement she spilled news on me that she was pregnant. I was angry but I tried not to show it I just congratulated her and walked away. Now during this time the reason why I was angry with her is..
1. Kelsey lives at home with her mother who is raising 3 kids and divorced
2. Kelsey is not married
3. Kelsey also can't save money because of her spending habits
A few days later I confronted Kelsey with my feelings that I felt we had gone our seperate ways in life and I as well as her decided to end our friendship. (I was fed up wit her lies and the pregnancy didn't help either) It has been a good 3 months since I last spoke to her and during this time Kelsey had a miscarriage and lost the baby. My mother ran into her recently and she asked about me and wanted my mother to tell me she was asking about me which gives off the impression she wants to continue to talk again. Also if we were she would never hear the end of it from her boyfriend Tim who is not found of me and tells her bad things about me as I witnessed on countless occassions. As he is one of the main reasons we are no longer friends anymore because she has chosen to believe his hurtful words than to try and fix our friendship. Whenever I confronted her about what he said to her she was always defensive or lied about him saying such a thing.
Question:
I'm confused to why she would ask about me if we both agreed to not talk. Do you think I should give her another chance?...How can I trust that she won't let Tim ruin our friendship? (link)
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hes the thing you both are in the wrong you have no reason nor right to judge her you guys been friends for a long time and she cares about you shes going through a hard time but she needs to step up to the plate and be a friends never let a guy take you from your freinds if u want to countiue talking to her do so but make sure she knows that tim doesnt come first and remeber your there to be her friend through thick and thin not to run when things get tuff if you guys want this to work make sure your on the same page
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i went to the doctor and got a pap smear and my doctor said i have a yeast infection, but i have never had any itching or bad discharge or anything that seemed unusual...im very confused by this (link)
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every women has a yeast infection i actually just got over one and i had itching thou but if you dont want to go to the doctor drink lots of crannberry juice and eat yogart i did that for like 3days or so and it was gone
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