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trapped relationship , help !
14/f .
so i have a boyfriend .
he's seventeen .
we've been dating since 101209 .
so almost four months , or around there .
his mom lovesme & my parents love him too ,
his mom & my parents are like best friends , so were like one big family..
but i really don't know how much i love him .
i mean , thats horrible to say .
but i wanna be single sometimes ,
we've broken up before and he turns everything on me , and sometimes cries .
then i feel horrible , and pretty much get forced to go back out with him .
my parents get upset with me , and tell me that i'm lossing someone who loves me,
and yada yada yada .
but worse , all of his upperclassman friends get mad at me ? cause of what we did .
i wish he could respect the fact i kinda wanna be friends .
ugh , i dunno what to do.
help ? any advice would be appreciated (:
thanks guys .
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BABI DO YOU you dont have to make anybody happy but your self if your not feeling him your doing the right thing yu want to be friends i know its hard but your own person hell get over it you know its unhealthy to be in a relationship that yu dont want to be hope i helped
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No one can force you to date them against your will.
You are giving in to him. Sure, break ups are hard and it's never nice to cause someone pain, but it's still your job to stand up for what you want. He is going to keep trying to be a dick and drag you back, and you are going to have to accept that.
Your families will eventually understand, you are both quite young afterall. They are wrong to be pressuring you to be in a relationship at fourteen.
You can't control what his friends think or do, only know they were going to take his side no matter what and demonize you. That is just life. If he isn't mature and sensible enough to deal with a break up respectfully, of course his friends wont be.
If you don't want to be with him, then don't.
Frankly, you probably can't be friends after you break up. He's already proven that he isn't capable of a respectful break up. So, steal yourself. You can't let other people tell you who you are supposed to love.
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