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my guy and another guy
15/f
So I'm going out with this guy since the beginning of November. He cares about me alot and its crazy. I do like him. But the thing is, when he first asked me out. I liked another guy but still decided to give my boyfriend a chance. I still like the other guy, alot. He's one of my friends so he's harder to get over. He likes me too but he doesn't know how I feel about him. He's definitely not happy about me getting another boyfriend and tells me about it. I don't let his opinion change what I do. It's just, I still have feelings for him but I still like my boyfriend. It's not easy to forget about him because I talk to him every week. We see each other like 3 or 4 times a week and I'm friends with his sister so I see him way more.
I don't really know what to do. I haven't mentioned any of this to anyone except one friend. She thinks the guy I'm dating now is better for me. I totally agree because he treats me so good but you know, there is always something about your guy friends. I've liked him for about a year so this one isn't gonna be quick to get over.
What should I do? Thanks
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well honey you need to decide who you like and i dnt mean to sound brutal but its the truth your playing with fire your going to wind up causing more drama than needed your young there be plenty of other guys but remeber hun make your choice before it all blows up in your face i hope i helped and remeber you make your bed you lie in it you know you cant have the cake and eat it to lol good luck
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Hey there okay i can really relate to to this in a big way.
Its like you love your bf but this other guy just has that something you cant resist and youve got alot of history and what not.
From what youve said I can see you love your friend and you only care about your bf.
you need to look at both characters,is your friend a good guy?would he ever hurt you? is he the player type?would he treat you right?
if no to all of them I would highly start to consider the fact that you may be with the wrong person theres no point fooling yourself into staying in a relationship with someone when your heart is elsewhere and your truely not`100/% in it I know its hard and nobody likes getting hurt or being the one to do it but you cant help who you fall for its not fair on you or your bf.
so I would say in that case end it and follow your heart and true feelings.
If your doubting some of those questions and arent sure if the other guy is good for you well dont throw away what you have with your bf stick to your guns and do your best to bury your feelings dont see him as much.
Its a risky situaton but honestly you already know the answer in your heart.
with the guy I really liked while with my bf he was sort of a player type and at one stage I was considering taking the risk but I didnt and Im so glad I didnt.
but everyones different and this guy may be totally different and the choice is completely yours but I hope I helped give a little insight into it.
good luck and much <3
Jess
16/f
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