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3 year age different..


Question Posted Thursday April 7 2011, 7:39 pm

hello all...lately ive given up on finding a boyfriend a stick to messing around with people. But this one guy did make a move on me. his name is Efrain; dominican, and a senior..hes a real sweetie but..theres a three year difference..we arent even supposed to be dating supposedly.
some of my friends say not to mess around with that..others say screw the law.i agree with that point of course but...what should i do?
hugs&rockets---Michelle

hes 18/m (birthday august 18) im 15/f (birthday june 25)
oh and we're still 'talking'


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Xui answered Friday April 8 2011, 2:30 am:
Guys that try to get with younger girls especially when it's a dude (17-22 or even older) are normally just trying to get in a girls pants. Younger girls who are between (13-17) are usually gullible enough to believe anything their boyfriend's tell them. I'm not trying to be offensive, I'm speaking of what reality is today.


Lets rewind on it, Why exactly is an 18 year old man trying to get with someone who is 15 years old? Perhaps, He can't get anyone his own age or for whatever reason. The fact is, 18 is an adult and sure many people say "Fuck the law" but these are the people that take a huge risk. I personally find it weird when older men look at minors, It's disturbing in my own opinion. It is up too you on what you want but likely the guy just wants to get in your pants. When I was 18, I didn't think about long terms it was a competition to who gets the most ass and that is the truth. If you don't want to be a booty call then be careful who you give yourself too.

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infatuatedxxglamour answered Friday April 8 2011, 1:14 am:
He is JUST looking for sex. Trust me. I'm a senior. Trust me. There has never been one relationship that neither I nor my friends have ever heard of that has worked out between a freshman and a senior. There's only one happy senior-freshman couple right now, and he fcks her all the time while she's a slut and wants it but is too naive to realize that that's all he's in it for. Seriously think 100 times before dating older boys, because they're immature, inconsiderate and just plain stupid. If you're just looking for a fcking, go for it! And prepared to feel dirty and used a few months later. Just speaking the truth.

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iloveyoubabyy004 answered Thursday April 7 2011, 10:12 pm:
hello(: first off thats not that big of an age diffrence there others who date people who are ten times older then they are. i think your still young so you shouldnt mess around with him only because he's going to be 19 and he's going to be going off to college soon he might not want a high schooler i think that you should find someone whos around your age even though he is around your age .. i think you should go out with him and just see where it goes i mean it wouldnt really be considered rape if you dont have sex or anything like that i would go for it but just be careful and be true to yourself.

k hope i helped.

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