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Suggest me cute names for my boyfriend

honey bear, boo, baby boy,

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I'm a 14 year old freshman that just started high school. I have a crush that I really liked since the beginning of this school year but now he has a girlfriend. I need help getting over this depressing state that I am having right now. Please give me some advice to feel better, I would really appreciate it.

baby girl you got your whole life a head of you your only 14 you should really be focusing on your school work the right guy will come around soon enough.

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is there a name for it when you drink and get horny

yes its called being drunk

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How to get rid of pimples?

well first off if they are big enough pop them .. but you can also use tooth paste .. you should also wash your face everyday with a warm rag.

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One day i was going to skool and i saw a guy that i liked and my friends were asking me who i liked and i said his name and most of them seem like they were serious so they went up to his table and ask him out for me and he said yes so i dated him for 2 days then his ex-girlfriend came in the relationship and i was angry forthe day he broke up with me just for a girl that was my bf and she knew that i was datin him so i got angry at her so when i hear his name around i get sad cause i miss him. So i want you answer should i still be mad at my bf? or not? :(

no you should not be mad because you knew tht was your best friends ex so you should have never dated him

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I wash myself "down there" twice a day, the same times I wash my face and brush my teeth in the morning and at night. I make sure that I've dried myself completely, and everything. I don't understand how I could have this smell even though I clean myself twice a day. It makes me very self - conscious and I get nervous that others can smell it. There are certain stretches and things in gym at school that I can't do because of it. Someone please help me.

Any suggestions?

i suggest that you use baby powder ... but it sound to me like you have a bacterial infection. its normal so dont worry it happends to all females and you should not use body wash to wash down there because it throws off you ph balance

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Friend has gotten a cell with unlimited free texting and has asked me to send her a text message. Can I do this from my computer using Windows xp and FireFox and if so, what steps do I follow?

yeah jus go too www.pinger.com and jus sign up it will give you a fake number when you text someone you can choose the number tht you would like to use. hope i helped.

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My sister say they wish they hadnt lost there virginty why is that..?
Also, i was wondering wht do u have to do to be prepared for sex like wht do i have to do so hes not discusted or something like im not sexauly active but i want to know if i ever decide that im ready..?

Some people say they wish they didn't lose their virginity because its sacred its something that you can never get back and once you have sex for the first time the first person who you have sex with you will be emotionally attached to them because they were your first. As far as preparing for sex just beware of the consequences that come with sex, and be emotionally ready . as far as him being disgusted just make sure your clean, shave, and stay calm and relax if you tense up then it will hurt more.
kk hope i helped :)

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What is excatly a handjob like i knew before and i forgot and when people talk about it i dont want to feel stupied and ask them and be like u dont know what a handjob is i thought u did and everything please help me..?

a handjob is when i guy ejaculates himself meaning jacking off to hisself for pleasure.

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what are things i should write on my babysitting fyler?

you should write your name how old you are your good qualities, your phone number, the age group that you want to babysitt the time and days that your willing to babysit and something catchy that might catch people's eye like something saying why they should come to you. oh and say the things or activities that your invoved in if your in any

kk hope i helped

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Okay so my boyfriend and I were the perfect couple always g0ot along and the odd time had arguments. Now, he's been acting really differently towards me as if he loves me less and it's freaking me out. I think it might have something to do with that he found out I danced with someone at a party a long time ago but yeah:( I need help I really want too be with him but is that what's best? thank you so much :) btw, I'm 15 and he's 16

if i were you i would ask him whats wrong and tell him how you feel tell him that you feel as though he's being a little distant. if he found out about you dancing with another guy along time ago then i dont think that would really bother him because that was a while ago

kk hope i helped

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Hi, I was wondering if anyone had any ideas for baby shower games? I've tried looking on google but there really isn't any that appeals to me. Thanks..

i was just at a shower and we played a fun game. The guests were divided into two teams. Each player had a balloon. Each player had to blow up the balloon and put it under her shirt like a belly, and then the next player went. When everyone on the team, they went down the line and popped the balloon. The team to be done first wins!

Put items in brown paper bags and pass them around with a number on each of them and see if people can figure each one out. (ex. baby bottle, pacifier, baby shampoo, diaper rash cream, baby lotion, rattle, teeting ring)


have people try different types of baby food either by smell or taste.

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So my boyfriend broke up with me today. He was really stuttering along trying to get his words out there and I just knew he was gonna end it by the way he was talking and stuff. So I just took it expectantly. And we went on our ways.

Later he texted me and after a while I decided to text back because I was unsure if I should but I decided I needed closure and to find out what happened.


This is how it went:
Him: 'I'm so sorry. I hope we can still be friends. I just need some time"
Me: "Alright, and you really think that "just being friends' will work or are you just saying that as a popular breakup line? You can tell me the truth, I want to know."
Him: "I have feelings for you still. I just need some time. And if things don't work out I'd like to still have you as a friend." (NOTE: It made me happy to hear this because I feel the same way. But by the way he said that can I assume he wants to try dating again sometime down the line?)
Me: "I agree with you on that. The last thing I want is for you to just be out of my life just like that. But what do you mean when you say 'I just need time' Like you want to hang out with your friends more? You like someone else? Just explain to me why. I can handle it."
Him: "I have to much on my mind with me getting a job right now. All my friends want to hang out. And it's just to much. I have to get it all figured out."
Me: "And that's the honest truth?"
Him: "Yeah pretty much."
Me: "Alright, then I can live with that. Do what you gotta do, I get it."
Him: "I'm sorry"
Me: "It's alright."
Him: "I feel so bad."
Me: "I'm not gonna say I'm completely fine with this but I understand and you shouldn't worry about it too much."
Him: "I'm just as upset as you are. Believe it or not."
Me: "If you say so, it is a little difficult to believe though."
Him: "I am a lot actually."
Me: "I'm sorry to hear that."
Him: "Thanks. I hope you're fine too."
Me: "I will be."

And that's the end of it. I feel a lot better after talking to him about this. Do you think I handled it well? And do you think he is being honest and genuine?

I want to be friends with him. And how can I assure myself that tomorrow at school when I see him it won't be awkward and we can still talk. What are some things I can ask him?

i think you handled it well most people would have just told him off or said something stupid that would end their relationship and friendship, you wanted to figure out the real reason why he broke up with you and you got it. Yeah it might be a little acward at first just because you guys had a relationship and now your only friends but think about it maybe over time you guys can get back together and make things better because he can learn how to manage hanging with friends, work and having time to spend with you if you decide to work things out

kk hope i helped

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I have fallen in love with someone who doesnt feel the same. when he's infront of me he's like the sweetest person in the world, everyone who knows us are always saying what a good couple we'd make, people already think we're dating! however, when he isn't around me, say we dont see eachother for a bit he'd completely ignore me. well, ive fallen in love with him now and i cant get him out my head. he is not interestd as i told him how i feel, he told me staight up hes not interested and he has a girl. but i dont understand why he gets jelous when i talk to other boys though. he still stays with me all day at work, we have a laugh, he just doesnt want a relationship. he stares at me, touches me, jokes about and shows he cares but i really dont understand it. please give me some advice to get over him?

Female 18

i think that he may see you as a good friend someone who he can talk to and that he doesnt want you talking to other boys because he could see you as a sister and he doesnt want to see you get hurt . Maybe you feel in love with him because of how he makes you feel, but if he has a girlfriend and is not intrested then maybe you should back off find things that make you keep your mind off of him dont hang out with him as much because the more you hang out then the more attached you might get. Find someone new keep your opitions open dont focus on him
kk hope i helped.

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Name key (fake names):
Me: Annabeth
Boyfriend: Jaysyn

I'm 16, a sophomore in high school. My boyfriend, Jaysyn, is a senior, 18. He's really sweet, and it didn't take me long to fall head over heels for him. I met him last year when I was a freshmen and he was a junior, and we started dating one month later. He was always very sweet and understanding about the whole sex thing: he wanted it, but every time I tried, I told him the truth--I'm no where near being ready for that, even if I might want it. Every time I said so, he was really sweet, saying he understood and wouldn't dream of making me do anything I wasn't ready to do. Lately, he's been going back on that promise. He's been getting kind of physical about it, too. Pushing me and shoving me and stuff; a couple of months ago we were at his house watching TV in his room because he gets free movies on his XBox through netflix, and he started kissing my neck and touching my leg and stuff. He was getting really touchy, and pushed his hand away and told me to stop, and he got really mad and he raised his hand as if he was going to hit me, but instead he just pushed me away from him, and I almost fell off the couch. I left when he did that and I went home. He called me five times an hour all night after that, and almost ten times the next day. Since then, he's been getting more violently, and touchy feely and rough, and when I deny him sex he gets really pissed. Last night I got up to leave and he grabbed my arm so hard I thought my wrist would break. Then he pushed me and I fell into the table--my knees are bruised. He called me a whore and a tease and told me I was being a bitch, and I left. This morning we had a date, and I didn't expect or want to go on the date after last night, but he showed up at my house right on time. I told him to go away and started to close the door, but he forced his way into the house and apologized for last night and got my oat from the closet and we went out and actually had a good time. He was really sweet, and he acted as though last night never happened. What do I do?

girl your in a sticky situation, but if i were you i would leave he sounds like he's violate dont let anyone ver hurt you ! you deserve better why would you let him do those things to you if he loves you then he wouldnt hurt you and thats what he's doing he hurting you. so what you love him he doesnt respect you and if he doesnt respect you then your just going to lose respect for yourself and dont do that because I'm pretty sure your a pretty girl. ALL guys want are sex not all but most and i think that if you dont give it up to him then he'll just hurt you more by getting it from someone else. leave him alone he's a senior pretty soon he'll be off to college

kk hope i helped

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its my husbands and i anniversary but i think ima get my period how do i avoid getting my period?

you can't it comes when it come :P sucks

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hello all...lately ive given up on finding a boyfriend a stick to messing around with people. But this one guy did make a move on me. his name is Efrain; dominican, and a senior..hes a real sweetie but..theres a three year difference..we arent even supposed to be dating supposedly.
some of my friends say not to mess around with that..others say screw the law.i agree with that point of course but...what should i do?
hugs&rockets---Michelle

hes 18/m (birthday august 18) im 15/f (birthday june 25)
oh and we're still 'talking'

hello(: first off thats not that big of an age diffrence there others who date people who are ten times older then they are. i think your still young so you shouldnt mess around with him only because he's going to be 19 and he's going to be going off to college soon he might not want a high schooler i think that you should find someone whos around your age even though he is around your age .. i think you should go out with him and just see where it goes i mean it wouldnt really be considered rape if you dont have sex or anything like that i would go for it but just be careful and be true to yourself.

k hope i helped.

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This kid keeps bothering me. hes my ex boyfriend. ever since i broke up with him, hes been a jerk. my best friend and i do it back when he does it.... he totaly dezerves it. Today my best friend told him something, and he told the teacher. The teacher suggested we should go to the gguidence coulcelors office. Im afraid that we could get in trouble. What should we say to persuade someone that it wasent our falt, because it wasnt?

Just don't be nervous because if you are then your going to end up getting yourself into trouble i don't think that you should have did the same thing that he did to you because thats just showing that your on the same level that he is on you want to be better then him so i would just leave him alone completly if he's being a jerk then thats him he will get he deserves in the future as for the meeting i would just tell her/him that your ex keeps bothering you and i starting things about you.

kk hope i hepled

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I'm not really sure if i put this in the correct category, but anyways. I am 16 years old and ever since i was about 11 i used cutting as a way to take control of stuff that is happening in my life. It has been used from the death of loved ones,boyfriend issues, friendship issues, school problems, cancer of my youngest brother and even sometimes when i get too happy. I always hide the cuts, and usually cut over scars that i already have made. A close friend of mine was recently sent to a special hospital for cutting and that made me realize that i have a BIG problem. I just didn't know what else to do so PLEASE help me!

listen don't cut yourself your just hurting yourself and the others around you no one deserves to cut themselves life bring your stress and a lot of problems yeah but it only makes you strong i don't know you but I LOVE YOU:) who ever you are lol i love everyone and i think that you should find other things do then to just cut yourself try writing listening to music playing outside taking long walks ANYTHING that will keep your mind off of hurting yourself you don't want to end up like your friend i think that you should talk to someone more in depth of the reasons why you do it because it cant be only because of problems something else must have went on... i use to cut myself to a while ago but then i stopped now i wear a rubber band around my wrist and when i have to urge to cut myself i just pull on the rubber band it doesnt really hurt as much as cutting yourself... the pain will go away but the scares are always there...

i hope i helped . i love youu :) keep me posted.

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hi !
i'm starting to like this guy, and i think that he might like me back too...its just that i don't want to get my hopes too high and get my feelings hurt again..
anyways.. the only thing we do is say hi whenever we pass by each other and thats about it.
but i really want to get to know him and be his friend first. The only problem to this is that i don't really know how to start off a conversation with him, cause whenever we say hi.. we just move on after that...i don't want to look like a weirdo..
Help Me ???

lol i've been in your postion many of times first off you have to just be open and pick up your confidence :) if your confident about yourself then it will help you get courage in order to start a real converstaion with him. maybe you should start of small you know like ask him how was his day or something or tell him a joke just say hey want to hear a joke and then say what did the blanket say when it fell off the bed ? aww shheett. haa i know it sounds lame but trust me thats how i made all my friendships i just come off as goffy just try being yourself and dont freak out stay calm he's only a guy:) and if he likes you back then your good so start
TALKING! k hope i helped keep me posted:)

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