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So there's this boy...
He's funny, nice, adorable as all hell, and I dig him. I'm a 14 year old girl and he's around the same age but in only one of my classes. I wanna get to know him better but I'm ridiculously shy, and I don't know if he likes me back or if he's single or what. Any suggestions? I've been talking to him a little lately but the teacher is INSANE. No talking no fun etc, so yeah. What do I do? Thank you answerers.
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If you're 14, I'm guessing you're a freshman. Definitely be wary if he's a junior or a sophomore in the "in" crowd. Upperclassmen are just searching for opportunities to take advantage of freshman. Trust me, I deal with it daily - I'm a senior. I'd try and form at least an acquaintanceship with him at first. Talk with him about schoolwork before or after class, say hi, friend him on facebook, comment on a status or two, etc. After you've had a few conversations, find his number online and text him for "homework help" or to ask a question about an assignment. If his number isn't listed online, pass him a note with yours on it saying you two could work on the assignment together. Obviously, once you're talking, feel free to stray from the topic of schoolwork ;) Good luck hon! xoxo
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A good strategy is to send a trusted pal in first. It has to be a guy so he doesn't suspect anything. Hopefully you have a few close guy friends and if not get some. Having members of the opposite sex as friends can pay dividends in the future. Get your pal to talk to him. Find out if he's single, interested in someone, and all that good stuff. Then he can always introduce you. The other option is just talk to him yourself. The result may surprise you. Good luck.
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Don't be shy. Ask him for his number. or give him a short simple and sweet note saying "xxx-xxxx (yur number) hey call/txt me. lets be friends" or something simple you know? you cant be shy. be confident. I asked my boyfriend now of 2 years for his number when i first met him. i never even really talked to him i just said do you have unlimited texting? whats your number? and he gave it to me. guys dont really get shy about giving out there numbers. hope i helped. =]
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