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Dating a new guy
So recently, I have been dating this guy. My last boyfriend and I recently broke up too, but we're friends.
I really like this new guy. He's funny, quirky, adorable, and smart. We spent the whole day together on Saturday, and I'm seeing him today.
But I feel weird. I mean, he doesn't have a cell so we talk on yahoo and Facebook a lot. But lately he's been taking a long time to answer and when he does respond he just writes one word replies. Starting to get skeptical about this. Although he treats me very kind in person, I feel left out when we're talking through the computers. I feel like he doesn't like me. He spent so much time chasing me and flirting with me, but now, I feel like the thrill is gone for him. And another thing, he's super clingy. Always all over me when I see him, all cuddly and stuff, and I think it's cute but it's startin to get uncomfortable. Sometimes I think he just wants me for sex...
Should I be concerned? What should I say to him?
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Just be straight forward with him. If he really cares what you feel then he will be there for you and say sorryy. If you think he doesnt like you then just ask him abut itt. Just stay strong and everything will be finee. If all he wants from you is se then he definetly is not the one for you.I promise you tht you will find someone a million times better than him that will love you for every part <3
-Jacqueline Connolly
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Its hard for us to comment on this because we really don't know exactly how he's acting in person or what exactly he's saying over the computer. But the best and most important advice I can give you is to follow your gut. Its almost always right. If I followed my gut at the beginning of my first relationship (which lasted a year and a half), I could have saved myself a lot of heartache. If he's not right for you - wants you for sex, only interested when its convenient for him - its not going to work. Go with your gut and if you feel uncomfortable, break it off. Good luck hon, xoxo
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Talk to him, Express how you feel. The only true way to find out what he is in for is to test him by asking him questions. You want dirt on someone sometimes you gotta dig for it. On the other hand maybe he is just not really a computer person? Perhaps he would rather see and talk to you in person than over the internet. If he is in for sex then he would normally always talk about it, Ask for it or "hint it" if you really want to know..Then hold off on it for a while and don't rush things if he is willing to wait a little bit then your good to go but if he's pushy on the subject...Eh I don't know.
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