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College, change
I met my boyfriend my freshman year of highschool, he was a junior at the time. We have been together about a year, ive never been this close to a guy before, I even went as far as losing IT to him. But the thing is, Hes graduating this year and im moving away to another city for my last two years of highschool. I also dont feel very attracted to him anymore..something changed. I still care a lot about him I have a lot of great memories but...I dont feel the same and I wish I did. Any advice? PS. Im 15 and hes 19
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Just like how time changes and people change. Feelings also change.
Age difference could play a rule on how you maturing and how he's maturing.
It's completely normal.
Also, you still caring about him is pretty much expected because of few reasons, but I'm going to mention the following:
1) when you lose IT to somebody you have that emotionally attached thing that happens.
2) you have been together for a whole year.
3)most probably your first love.
Just be honest and straightforward with him and take a break to see how you going to feel away from him and if afterwards you still feel like you want to break it off then you shall.
Good luck :]
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Definitely break it off. It needs to happen. If your feelings are waning, the relationship can never ask between him being at college and you moving away. You know this, you just want assurance that you're doing the right thing. And trust me hon, you are. Its gonna be hard, no doubt, because he's probably your first love, and you're probably going to hurt, but you're going to move on and it's going to make you stronger. It will be good for you. I just broke up with my first love, I was with him for a year and a half, and it was hard but its coming up on a month and I'm doing fine. Its okay to let go.
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You need to be very aware that because of your HUGE Age difference.
*DEPENDING ON WHERE YOU LIVE!!*
There is a Law police Towards Statitary rape because you are under the age of 16.
I would make sure to check the age Restrictions in your area just to make sure he won't be charged or what not,.
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That being said. Because you two are of such a big age difference,. It might be that you two are just going in different directions in your life,. therefore are drifting away.
I Would openly talk to him about how you are feeling and see how he is feeling. The distance might just be a sign. Showing that you two are better friends then Boyfriend and girlfriend.
Hope this helps!
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask :)
<3Jasmine;;
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