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Still hasn't showed up... Doubt he likes me like I like him.
So if you haven't read my last post, I am dating a really nice guy. We've spoken on Facebook and we have mutual friends, but we barely knew each other until Saturday. I spent the whole day with him. I really am beginning to like him. He's very smart, funny, and quirky. I feel really happy around him. He told me he's liked me ever since he texted me from my friend's phone in December...and he said he likes me even more now since we spent the day together.
However, I sometimes feel like he doesn't like me as much as I like him. Like, I know it's early in our relationship, but I can't help but doubt. For instance, he and I barely talked yesterday. He was sweet in person, but through the computer he's rather quiet. He doesn't have a cell so it's difficult to talk unless we speak over yahoo messenger and Facebook. He goes to a different school, too.
I was supposed to meet him at the park an hour ago. I reminded him this morning and last night. He never replied. I think he's shady. He accepted my yahoo request this morning but didn't reply to any of my messages. This is bringing me down.
Help!
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hes not intrested..... and even if he was you guys wouldnt work out for more than a month
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Its pretty early in the relationship, you said he was smart, and usually smart guy are shy on the inside I think hes nervous because he feels strongly for you, go to his house talk to him reach out tell him how you feel and if he doesnt feels the same way then bump him he is not as smart as you think he is.
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Not to be mean, but you need to back off a little. Some guys are very shy and completely opposite when it comes to talking to a girl. Girls tend to be a little pushy when they like a guy, and to be honest.. that can be annoying! He might want to take things slow and not rush anything, so don't assume that he might not like you. If he didn't show up to the park, ask him what happened but don't be pushy about it or it'll turn him off. But, if he keeps ignoring and avoiding you.. he probably doesn't like you but doesn't want to let you down.
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I'm going to be honest...
Don't be annoying or he will loose interest very fast. That is not trying to be mean, It's just giving you the heads up.
Sometimes people just aren't talkative over the internet and they would rather talk in person. I'm going to guess but maybe seeing you two spend an entire day together he ran out of things to talk about online? It wasn't right for him to show up at the park, He should of showed some respect and told you he wouldn't be able to make it instead of blowing you off but maybe give him a little bit of space and see if he comes around. If he doesn't..Then maybe he lost interest.
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I think you should write him again and ask him if he forgot about the park? Over the internet its very hard to read anyone. I mean some guy or girl couldl be totally in love with you but you cant tell their expressions.
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Some people who are very talkative in person are the complete opposite threw screen to screen messaging,. From what he stated i think he does inface like you as much as you like him.
You must remember someguys aren't as forth coming as others are. and keep alot of their feelings to themselves.
As far as the not showing up at the park. Something might have come up as in friends in the hospital or something of the sorts so i wouldn't freet about it too much,. untill you talk to him and ask him what happen?
If it's a lame excuse like ops quess i forgot. then you should be mad as you DID remind him this morning.
Hope this helps!
If you have any more questions,.
Please ask :)
<3Jasmine;;
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