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I am a thirteen year old girl, and he is a fourteen year old guy and we are both in the eighth grade (almost Freshmen)

So, my best friend and I got in a fight for the twentieth time this month it seems, but he claims it is always ME. that starts it. We are project partners for a 30 minute documentary that is due next week, and I have done ALL the work. he has gone off ice skating while I filmed, and so many other times has he blown me off. He also left me for the ENTIRE science project, which I did an A+ job on and he got credit. I calmly asked him to help in the project more, thinking that he would be cool about the situation but no. He literally YELLS at me in the hallway, and making me embarrassed in front of everyone in the hallway.

I simply asked him a question for him to help more, and he hasn't talked to me since calling me dramatic to other people. all of his friends are against me, which is practically the whole eighth grade. Should I apologize, or should I just be brave and stay like this for the last eight days of school? (link)
i think you and your bestfriend should just sit down and talk about the situation. Just ask him to help you because him not helping you is really unfair. but if he doesn't help you then you should talk to the teacher about him and tell her about him not helping you. I think that should solve the problem.


I am 19 years old and female. I decided, I don't want to have sex with just anybody but I'm talking to a guy and it always sparks the question in my head.

I want to be prepared of course but my main problem is, I have health problems. I get bacterial infections on a monthly basis and the doctors have no idea what the cause is yet. With this issue, I'm on antibiotics a lot. So much that I may become immune to them soon(thats another problem in itself) and I heard they interfere with the Pill.

I've never seen my "girl" doctor yet but I want to be prepared. Do you think she might just say, lay off Sex until i'm officially off the antibiotics? Or is there another form that the antibiotics won't interfere with?

I just want to note, I'm really not planning on having sex anytime soon but I still want to know. Just in case, situation. (link)
well if the situation arises then dont do it.


Okay here's the deal. I've been good friends with someone for a long while. Let's call this friend "Mr Red". We're fairly close and have been through quite a bit together. our friendship is still strong and tight, and we've got a lot in common, and many mutual friends.

A few months ago, I met someone, let's call her "Miss Blue", whom I am not involved with in a serious relationship. The circumstances of meeting her will be a little odd, so bear with me.

I first heard of her when Red was ranting about something she did. Apparently, Mr Red seriously dislikes her and wants nothing to do with Miss Blue. This is not new, and in fact.. the rest of the clique dislikes her as well. I've always been the person who really doesn't like to follow along with crowd decisions of that type.. since I used to be ostracized in grade school often. I remember what it feels like, so I try to give everyone a chance

When I actually met Miss Blue, it developed into an attraction, and now we're involved. Obviously, this has caused some rifts

To be clear, Miss Blue has never asked me to choose between her or them. None of the group including Mr Red has ever pressured me about my relationship with her. They accept it, and respect it, but most do not approve of it.

The biggest problem is that I am unable to include my significant other in my activities with them in most cases, since Mr Red is often around. Mr Red usually just refuses to hang out with me if she's already there, and leaves quickly if she shows up later.

Miss Blue is both hurt and upset by this behavior, and rightfully feels ostracized and left out. She feels very guilty that I need to take time out for her and away from Mr Red and the group. If I'm not caught up in something important, like just hanging out with the group, I often go see her.. which she feels guilty about me having to do.

She wants to be included, but also feels bad that I have to separate my time with her and them.

As for her and Red... she has tried multiple times to work things out with him, but he is simply stone faced about it. He's said in response every time that he doesn't believe her apologies and doesn't want to hear it. He wants her to leave him alone.

They have never been romantically involved.

My question is about how best to handle my place in this. Even with careful separation of my time between the two, she still feels terrible, and I feel like maybe I should be doing something more. (link)
ok, Mr.Red is not being a very good friend right know he shoul be supportive of you and love you no matter who you date that he doesn'y like, any way it's not his choice, so if miss red apologized then that is all that she can do because Mr.red is an A word that i refuse to use drop him, .... no dont' do that but just like make them work mr.red amd ms.blue work out their problems because it might end up either tearing you and her apart or you and him it all depends on who you love the most:0


I've never had a real best friend untill now, I've been best friends with my friend Tiffany for about 3 years and we're like sister's. For some reason I get jeloues and depressed because she hangs out with other people and doesn't invite me. But when I do that she gets mad that I ditched her or whatever.
I had a group a friends a few years ago, and they pushed me away because of what I was going threw, Now I guess I feel like she's going to do that to me. It's always in the back of my mind whenever she hangs out with other people. I can't help it either. I shut down sometimes because I get so sad about it, scared almost. What should I do? I told her how I felt already and she said she understands but she doesn't know what to do about it. There isn't much she can do though, I mean this is my fault right? (link)
No, emtional problems are not your fault peope don't decide to go through these things someitmes it's jsut thrown at them, talk to a counselor or some one because usually cases like these get worse.
(justagirl15)


My friend is feeling scared and she's really upset and crying. She wont talk to me. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? (link)
Wait unitl she finishes the crying part and ask her whats wrong,this is a really touchy subject but if you know your friend really well make her fell bad a bout not talking to you by saying stuff like "Friends are suppose to tell each othr every thing" and if you don't think that will work then maybe it's too hurtful to talk about.
(justagirl15)


Soo I was in gym one day. We were doing our dancing unit, and we were line dancing. There was this guy that was always in the front row that always looked back at me. And yes, I know it was me, because he did it in the hallway too. But I had no idea who it was. Then, I found out.. I knew the name right away. He's a junior, (I'm a freshman, by the way) one of the best athletes around.. you know.. one of them jocks. I immediately thought I had no chance with him. So I added him on facebook and talked to him one night. I was surprised.. he was soo nice!! haha and when I asked him if he even knew who I was he said "not really I think you're in my gym class though." I thought that was good.. wouldn't you? I mean he knew who I was.. that was a start. So we've been talking for the past couple of months since then. He's also been staring at me like crazy in school, which has been weird, but hey, I don't hate it. One time when we were talking I told him that I was good at soccer, and he said "I bet I'd beat you" and all of my friends completely freaked when I told them about it, 'cause they thought it was a good thing. I did too, until a few days ago. My friend was talking to him and she told him that one of her friends likes him. He kept begging for hints and stuff.. but she didn't wanna give it away just yet. So she told him that I really liked him and thought he was perfect. But she also told him that he probably wouldn't like me.. we're complete opposites. He still wanted to know. Then she told him that I wasn't in his grade and he replied, "oh so freshman" and he said he knew who it was. This is the rest of the conversation: her: so should I tell her about this or are you going to talk to her about it? him: probably not just don't say anything. her: that bad.. huh? him: no im just not looking for anyone. Then at the end of the conversation he said that he didn't even know who it was. The last thing he said was "dont want to know". So that made me upset. Obviously he knew exactly who it was and didn't want anything to do with me.. right? After all of that happened, I sent him a message that said "sorry.. thats all I can say." and he claimed he didn't know what I was talking about. So obviously he doesnt wanna talk about it, or talk to me. But he still looks at me in school. A while back, like a month ago, everytime I'd try talking to him on chat and he wouldn't say anything, he'd say that he was on his phone and he didn't get the message. I believed him, but it got old. Today I tried talking to him and he didn't say anything. Is he "on his phone"? Or is he just ignoring me like I always thought he would? (link)
tell your friend to stay out of your business, because naybe she scared him off, some boys dont like it when other girls talk to them for you make him talk to you in person
(justagirl15)


Im 17/male
I've been seeing this girl for the past few months
and all of a sudden, overnight, she transformed.
Why is this? HELP (link)
TRANSFORMED???
How what happened but if you don't like this transfromation talk to her ask her why is she acting different maybe it's something she is going thorugh at home of emotional problems, or maybe this is her way of telling you that she want's some change or diversity. Basically talk to her. if she really loves and trust you she'll tell you. (Have you been saying anything that would make her transform, like telling her that she needs bigger this and beter that???)
(justagirl15)


When I poo it feels hard to poo and there has been blood in the toilet after I have had a poo (link)
Go to a doctor;)
justagirl15


im a guy in high- school. And before you read this, im letting you know that this is a serious question.
I know you might think im weird, but me and my friends made a bet on the last NBA playoffs game. And i lost, and i bet against 3 of my guy friends. So i lost.
Now, they are making me do something....
Theres like this really hot girl in my class, shes a rich girl, spoiled, cheerleader, hot, big tits and ass, fake tan, you know how it is. Anyways, i dont even know her at all. Ive never even spoken to her, but i stare at her ass all the time.
Anyways, my friend that i lost the bet to is making me slap her in the face randomly in class when nobody is looking. Im being serious. My friend doesnt like her , from some other reason, and he wants me to slap her. Not punch her in the face or kick her or anything, but just smack her like upside the head. Or he offered for me to grab her ass when nobody is looking. Hes making me do either one since i lost the best.
The thing is, even though it sounds messed up for a friend to make me do that, i kinda WANT to do it haha.
What should i do? (link)
Well that is wrong of anyone to do, and you can always say no,"I don't care what bet I lost I'm not doing it" or make them change the bet.


I am about to buy the software but I have a feeling it is one and the same thing as Easy Click Profits give or take a few modifications. Is it my worthwhile as a source of traffic? (link)
No don't do it it's a trap:0
(justagirl15)
panicking


I'm a 14 year old girl. I've liked this guy for over a year. Last year my friend told me that he said that he might go out with me and he blushed and turned away. I've asked him out and he turned me down. He is always staring at me and sitting close to me when he can. I'm really confused and don't know what to think. If he doesn't like me, then why is he staring?
thanks(: (link)
Oh, he likes you he just does not now how to tell to exspress it, any way boys are weird and always will be but ask kim these questions and see what he says, maybe he just wants to play with your emotions or maybe he is going through something at home and doesn't wnat to be involved right now.Because that is what my boy friend what do as stupid as it is:)
(justagirl15)
perplexed


My best friend is going through a hard time with her family. Her mom is a homosexual, her father is going through a divorce with a bitch who was always mean to her. She is very protective of me and our other friend. She said that she " will enjoy every scream and every drop of blood someone spills that she causes after they try to hurt us. I've been really worried about her,and I insisted that we take her to a couseler since she won't let me help. She began cutting herself saying she "aches to see blood." She got mad at me for "thinking there was something wrong with her" but I'm just worried. She starts to go toward someone to hit them then stops. She always tries to help everyone else saying she comes last. She won't let me help, and she hates attention so why is she doing this? Whats wrong? Please help- Worried friend (link)
Ok,tell her mom and dad, I don't really care what they are going through but they need to help their child get through this because what they are going through is afecting her too, and if that does not help then telll some one else tell the school counselor or a teacher, or you r parents:)concerned
(justagirl15)


i'm a senior in high school and i have about 5 weeks left of high school.. if you don't know about senior slide, its basically when seniors slack off in school because by now they should already be committed to going to a college and there's no point in really getting good grades if you're already going to college.

Well i'm an average teenage girl and I work hard in school. My freshman and sophomore year I was on A honor roll. Junior year was B honor roll. This senior year I was on B honor roll up until now. I'm starting to slack off and I'm getting B's and C's in school but I usually got A's and B's. I know this is bad :( my parents got really mad at me for it and I know I need to get back on track and focus until school is officially over. But I can't help it! I can't wait to end high school! The weather is finally turning nice outside and it seems like school isn't my first priority anymore. I have a boyfriend and i'm involved with sports. Whenever I tell myself to focus on school and study, I always forget and just put off studying for later and think going outside to hang out is better. I know its bad for me but I just can't help it! I'd much rather go shopping over the weekend than work on a project. I guess I just need some motivation and a jump start.

Does anyone have any advice on how i can pull myself together for the next few weeks, stop procrastinating and stop senior slide?? please help!! (link)
well. try to take your mind off of the other things and buckle down, to do your work and make school your first and top priority you wouldn't do senior slide and slack off of your responsibility as a girlfriend or in your sports so don't do it in school, sorry to sound all mother like but thats what I think and please dont take any of this into offense:)(justagirl15)


Im a teenage boy, and i always wanted to know why girls dont seem as horny as we do. Maybe it is just me, but i go to highschool filled with hot girls everywhere and it drives me nuts. But the girls dont seem that way towards guys. They seem like they dont even think about boys or sex at all, but why is it that us guys always are more horny? (link)
Okay, girls don really show you how they feel because you know we are a little smarter, and guys you know you guys dont really have a choice as to show how you feel, but any way if you like a girl just ask her on a date, try it out.


Hi.
Okay my amazing boyfriend has been away on a hockey tournament that is down the other end of the country. (Oh I live in New Zealand. He is down in Dunedin in the South Island and i'm in the Waikato area in the North Island).Anyways he has been away for 7 day and is coming home in 2 days. I want to do something to show him how much I missed him and really love him. He means everything yo me =).
Sorry it's kinda long.
Please help!
thanks =) (link)
Well it depends on what you two like to do together, you could go on a special date like on the beach or something if it's not too cold, or maybe just chill and spend some time eiht each other, I am sure that just being with you will make him happy:)(justagirl15)


Sooo, I met this guy a few months ago, my guy best friend's best friend. He and I weren't the best of friends, but I recently started to like him. my friend tried hooking us up, yesterday we watched a movie and my friend and his girlfriend took the couch so I was stuck with this guy on his water bed. Well we laid kinda far apart but by the end of the movie we were cuddling. We were play fighting and he was tickling me and it was just very butterfly filled. haha, but he took me home and I opened the car door and said goodnight then I just turned around and kissed him out of the blue. I did a rotten thing today and read my other friend's texts. And in them the boy was talking about how much I made him smile and he was the only girl he wanted (he is/was kind of a whore) and he was talking about how last night he hadn't been happy in so long and he still has the flutters. We've been flirting around and such for about a week now, and I have this superstition, every guy has asked me out on a happy holiday and has ended up screwing me over. So I kind of want us to get together on Friday. (I know it is stupid....Don't tease me haha) But how do I ask him out or get him to ask me out. We both agreed that we were going to take things slow, but you can still do that as an official couple right? (link)
I think that you two should make your status know because well if your not his girlfriend and he's now your boyfriend then you might as well just be friends and friends can do what ever they want to do including dating other people.so I would say that you need to do what you said you were going to do:)(justagirl15)


19 f
i know this is probably a stupid question but bare with me im so desperate haha.
okay so a couple of hours ago i was at tacobell with 2 of my best male friends. i saw this really cute guy there and he kept starring at me. i was so shy and im guessing that he thought maybe one of the guys was my boyfriend.when i went to the bathroom he went also and i really wanted to talk to him but i just couldnt get the courage too. oh btw he was there fixing something i think he was a costruction worker he was about 23 years old/white male. and when i was leaving he was starring at me as if he wanted to say something to me but couldnt, since he was working. when i left i saw him looking threw the mirror glass. and i was so sad cause i didnt get to say anything. i guess my stupid question is how can i find this guy. i know i dont know his name or anything. but hey its worth a try. i tried posting it on craigslist in the missed connection section so hopefully he sees it. any other ideas? any other websites like that? ahh i wish i could find him :( i doubt ill ever see him again.. and i bet hes thinking the same. really wish destiny could help me out a little right now. (link)
Go to taco bell alot and if you two were meant to be together then fate will do its job.


okay so I am in a stong long distance relationship and have been for avlbout a year now. I love him and I would like to say that I trust him. But yesterday at one AM of all times a girl from his past texted him " cashually " asking what he was doing so he answered saying the usual nm how r u. Now she has responded.... I am ... Annoyed aggravated.... Angry. I mean its not like I can exactly tell him who he can and can't talk to. Help!!! (link)
You have every right to be upset, he is not making this situation easy for you and he should not be CASUALLY talking to another girl and the fact that he said the usual means that they have already been talking for a while.


What do i wear to an interview at hooters ?

I'm a seventeen year old girl and I have an interview at hooters tomorrow for a hostess position.

I have absolutely no idea what to wear. Its going to be 50 degrees tomorrow if that helpss

(link)
Wear a sexy v-neck sweater, nice and warm, and some nice jeans, and high healed boots.


whats the first sign of pregnancy besides a missed period? (link)
vomiting,breast tenderness, cravings, changing emotions, and of course missed period.Or just go to a doctor,or get a pregnancy test . Then you'll know for usre.




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