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Asking a boy out/getting him to ask me out
Sooo, I met this guy a few months ago, my guy best friend's best friend. He and I weren't the best of friends, but I recently started to like him. my friend tried hooking us up, yesterday we watched a movie and my friend and his girlfriend took the couch so I was stuck with this guy on his water bed. Well we laid kinda far apart but by the end of the movie we were cuddling. We were play fighting and he was tickling me and it was just very butterfly filled. haha, but he took me home and I opened the car door and said goodnight then I just turned around and kissed him out of the blue. I did a rotten thing today and read my other friend's texts. And in them the boy was talking about how much I made him smile and he was the only girl he wanted (he is/was kind of a whore) and he was talking about how last night he hadn't been happy in so long and he still has the flutters. We've been flirting around and such for about a week now, and I have this superstition, every guy has asked me out on a happy holiday and has ended up screwing me over. So I kind of want us to get together on Friday. (I know it is stupid....Don't tease me haha) But how do I ask him out or get him to ask me out. We both agreed that we were going to take things slow, but you can still do that as an official couple right?
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I think that you two should make your status know because well if your not his girlfriend and he's now your boyfriend then you might as well just be friends and friends can do what ever they want to do including dating other people.so I would say that you need to do what you said you were going to do:)(justagirl15)
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Of course you can still take things slow as a couple, but I wouldn't recommend it.
When you're in a relationship, you want to be close and completely comfortable with that person. You want to trust them totally and have them trust you back. And even if you do want to take it slow, knowing that you're his girlfriend and he's your boyfriend can make it easy for you two to speed things up (a little too fast).
You've only known him for a few months and I'm not sure how many dates you've been on, but if this is one of the first then I would definitely set up a few more before making commitments. Hanging out alone together is really important before getting into a relationship too, having friends around can make awkward situations like dates seem more comfortable than they really are.
I would suggest more dates and getting to know each other, then when you feel like the time is right to ask him out.
But you know what, it's your choice! If you feel like you both can take it slow while in a relationship, then go ahead and ask him out. If you feel like it's the right decision, then do it.
Oh, and the age thing isn't such a big deal as long as you are careful and a little cautious about getting into a relationship.
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