im a guy in high- school. And before you read this, im letting you know that this is a serious question.
I know you might think im weird, but me and my friends made a bet on the last NBA playoffs game. And i lost, and i bet against 3 of my guy friends. So i lost.
Now, they are making me do something....
Theres like this really hot girl in my class, shes a rich girl, spoiled, cheerleader, hot, big tits and ass, fake tan, you know how it is. Anyways, i dont even know her at all. Ive never even spoken to her, but i stare at her ass all the time.
Anyways, my friend that i lost the bet to is making me slap her in the face randomly in class when nobody is looking. Im being serious. My friend doesnt like her , from some other reason, and he wants me to slap her. Not punch her in the face or kick her or anything, but just smack her like upside the head. Or he offered for me to grab her ass when nobody is looking. Hes making me do either one since i lost the best.
The thing is, even though it sounds messed up for a friend to make me do that, i kinda WANT to do it haha.
What should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lovealways1221 answered Monday May 23 2011, 5:55 pm: ugh ok first of all... if you EVER want a girl to respect you again, don't call her hot. don't say she's got "big tits and ass" thats immature. I know that if I ever heard a guy say that to me, I would slap THEM. Because to me, thats insulting.. even if you say it in the most sincere way and mean it from the bottom of your heart.. i would get so pissed off. Most girls want guys to say they're beautiful. So if you ever want a girl to respect you, you have to respect them and watch how you talk to them....
if you wanna slap her, go ahead and do it. hey, its your reputation. If you wanna be known as the guy who slaps girls in the face, and treats them like shit.. go ahead. do it and tell me what happens. I can gauruntee you that girls won't look at you like some kind of hero..
VoiceofReason answered Tuesday May 17 2011, 3:36 am: Dude, that is, at the very least, assault and conspiracy to commit assault and will get you a seat in a local jail cell and will also probably get your family sued. You will get expelled from school, too. A conviction here could sabotage your job prospects and even cause you to be refused entrance into certain colleges. The grabbing the ass could also be prosecuted as a sexual assault and result in sex offender registration. Forget about getting a job ever.
Look, dude, your high school friends ultimately don't mean jack. Once you graduate, everyone scatters on the four winds. Moreover, you are the only person who can live your life. So take control of it and tell your buddies to get bent. Don't allow them to browbeat you into screwing your life up. Do what will bring you the greatest happiness and not a rap sheet.
I can't blame you for wanting to humiliate the stuck up bitch, but ultimately she has nothing to do with you and the sooner you start minding your own business the better. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
lovelysmile answered Monday May 16 2011, 5:19 pm: ok has much as your friend may not like this girl, you shouldn't do what he wants do but is scared to do im not saying thta is worng becuz its very WRONG !!!!!!! tht can get you in alot of trouble.... so ya im not making the decision for but i just telling you tht u have two paths right and wrong
Razhie answered Monday May 16 2011, 4:34 pm: That's not a joke, it's abuse. Plain and simple, they expect you to physically assault this girl. Not only is that a crime - it's morally abhorrent behaviour. Since you intend to do it in school, they might decide just to suspend you, rather than call the cops, but let’s be honest, if you did this on the street the cops would come knocking on your door.
You should grow the hell up and find better friends. Yours are immature assholes who are lacking basic human dignity.
None of this ‘boys will be boys’ lame-ass excuses - Not all boys will be abusive little fuckers who think randomly hitting people unprovoked is funny. What you are considering is not okay in any imaginable way. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Monday May 16 2011, 3:15 pm: Both can get you arrested, expelled or suspended, at the very least.
Schools these days have a "no tolerance" policy. That means that any assault is going to be punished, no matter how mild.
Grabbing her butt would qualify as sexual assault, and if she decides to press charges, you could be charged as a sex offender. I know it sounds crazy, but it's true.
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