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im a guy in high- school. And before you read this, im letting you know that this is a serious question.
I know you might think im weird, but me and my friends made a bet on the last NBA playoffs game. And i lost, and i bet against 3 of my guy friends. So i lost.
Now, they are making me do something....
Theres like this really hot girl in my class, shes a rich girl, spoiled, cheerleader, hot, big tits and ass, fake tan, you know how it is. Anyways, i dont even know her at all. Ive never even spoken to her, but i stare at her ass all the time.
Anyways, my friend that i lost the bet to is making me slap her in the face randomly in class when nobody is looking. Im being serious. My friend doesnt like her , from some other reason, and he wants me to slap her. Not punch her in the face or kick her or anything, but just smack her like upside the head. Or he offered for me to grab her ass when nobody is looking. Hes making me do either one since i lost the best.
The thing is, even though it sounds messed up for a friend to make me do that, i kinda WANT to do it haha.
What should i do? (link)
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You should seriously try to explain to her what's going on. If she's cool with it, (you never know) then go for it:) tell me how it works out
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So my so called best friend has been telling her boyfriend everything that I've been telling her, And I've told her a lot. We've been friends for about two years and they have been in a really bad relationship for over a year now.
Now i found out because her boyfriend yelled at me and messaged me all the things he could use against me. It didn't really matter to me because it just doesn't bother me. Only thing that does bug me is that I thought i could trust her and i clearly couldn't. She has lied about a lot of other things to, I can't even begin to tell you how much she has lied and how busted she is.
Right now I am not speaking to her, when she knows someone is mad at her she ignores them like THEY did something wrong. When I was there for her from the start. So it's just..I don't even know. (link)
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that really wasn't a question, i think you just needed to rant and that's what a lot of people need so i'd say just listen to what the best part of you wants you to do. Talk to her about it.
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Ok people... im Female, 13 and im telling you all now that im not crazy... Could i Be a vampire?? I like the taste of blood, have a dark ring around my iris, can see in the dark well, extremely good sense of hearing, can feel peoples energey (can tell if someone is near even when i cant see and can pick up on their emotions or how they're feeling... Its like hummidity sometimes too), Love the dark, have animal like insticts especialy when i go into fight or flight mode, and have fangs..... What do you guys think????? (no im not a cannibal) (link)
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You most definitely can't be a vampire. Because their made up. Lots of people like the taste of blood, it's not that wierd. Try sleeping more and the ring around your iris should go away. Everyone can see in the dark. You're hearing i'm sure isn't as phenominal as you think, as humans we hear a lot of things we think we shouldn't be able to. Lots of people can feel peoples presence and their feelings are usually written on their face. It's not wierd that you like the dark i do too. Everybody acts like an animal at some point when they're attempting to defend themselves. I have no idea what flight mode means because you definitely can't fly. (jumping off things doesn't count smart one) You're teeth may need braces, but it definitely doesn't mean you're a vampire. So stop thinking that you are some sort of fairy tale creature and live your life.
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I need to find a dress for a 8th grade tropical dance but the trick is that i also have to wear this dress to my graduation. I am a very hefty girl and I hate to wear dresses because of my size and PLEASE do critize me about my weight. I want the dress to be flowy and not tight. Any suggestions would be very appreciated. (link)
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For a "hefty" girl as you put it *ehem stop being so negative your beautiful* i would say that you should go for a dress that has all over ruching. If you don't know what that is it's like those dresses that have lots of ruffly type sort of ugh this is hard to describe. They're almost like ruffles but tighter- tell me how this works out
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I am a teenage girl: 5'3, blond hair, and pale.
I just want to know which stores in malls sell clothes that teenage guys consider "hot" what type of things would I buy from the store/stores. (link)
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let's see here, Charlotte Russe has some amazing jewelry, Wet Seal is always amazing at hot clothes, but you don't want to appear like a slut, cause no one wants that okay? Hmmm...Charming Charlies is one of my absolute favorites for accesories, and as far as other stores like hollister, abercrombie and fitch, aeropostale, it just all works together. Also try a papaya's if you have those, and francesca's
tell me how it works out
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There is a casual dance coming up and I don't know what to wear. I want to wear something that will get me attention from the guy I like.
Should I dress girlie or t-shirt and jeans.
I need to know what to wear to be noticed as hot, but not a slut. I am a 13 year old girl so I don't want to wear anything to revealing. (link)
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wear a nice flowy shirt with your favorite jeans, a dangly necklace, and your favorite shoes. Dress girly and make sure you're hair won't frizz up in the heat. TELL ME HOW IT WORKS OUT
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My freshman year in college I got pregnant and end up having an abortion. I don't really have any regrets about the abortion because I felt it was the right choice for me. When I told the guy about it he agreed with the abortion so there wasn't really any hesitation, but anyone, me and this guy were not dating and I chose not to ever have anything to do with him, such as cutting all ties and communication with this guy. Two years have passed and I'm old enough to realize that it was silly to not speak to him when I see him occasionally. I've also realized I need closure because we've never spoke about what happen and I feel like I just need to have a conversation with him about it. I don't hate the guy or anything, I see it as the past and to move on in the future. So recently we've been talking to each other but haven't gotten the chance to talk face to face. I feel like I'm stirring up my past, and I have these feelings for him but I'm telling myself I shouldn't! First off, he only texts me when he has the time or want me to come by late after hours and I just don't like that, especially the after 10pm text (booty call). So we're suppose to get together this weekend but I'm not sure if I should or not!?? Help!! Need advice! (link)
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Let him know you aren't the girl you used to be, and that you're not going to do the same things you used to. You should go, and have a good time, with your clothes ON. Tell me how it works out
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I am a thirteen year old girl, and he is a fourteen year old guy and we are both in the eighth grade (almost Freshmen)
So, my best friend and I got in a fight for the twentieth time this month it seems, but he claims it is always ME. that starts it. We are project partners for a 30 minute documentary that is due next week, and I have done ALL the work. he has gone off ice skating while I filmed, and so many other times has he blown me off. He also left me for the ENTIRE science project, which I did an A+ job on and he got credit. I calmly asked him to help in the project more, thinking that he would be cool about the situation but no. He literally YELLS at me in the hallway, and making me embarrassed in front of everyone in the hallway.
I simply asked him a question for him to help more, and he hasn't talked to me since calling me dramatic to other people. all of his friends are against me, which is practically the whole eighth grade. Should I apologize, or should I just be brave and stay like this for the last eight days of school? (link)
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You shouldn't have to apologize for his mistakes. Just wait it out and hopefully he'll come around- tell me how it works out!
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I'm talking to a guy who is a little bit older than me, and I am astonished. He and I live in totally different states, but I feel like we have a good connection. He's really playful and goofy and immature, just like me, and he always makes me laugh and has such a sweet, romantic side. I really think I'm beginning to like him a lot. He has told me he likes me a lot and whenever I get scared or insecure of screwing up he assures me to relax.
I just recently got my phone service cut off and a few days ago it got turned back on. We didn't talk for a couple days, and he has said he's been busy, but still texts me back. I took that as a sign to text him. But today he told me I don't understand how busy he is and I got pissy and he told me he doesn't appreciate my passive aggressiveness and if I can't handle him being busy, then he doesn't know what to say. I realize what I did wrong. I got upset for all the wrong reasons because he has a less laidback life than I do and I can't accept that he has other things besides me. I apologized but he never answered. I really feel like I screwed us up. I feel like I made him mad and he'll remember it and not want to talk. I just like him so much I don't know what to do with myself! He's a really amazing guy and it overwhelms me that I could get such a sweet sexy guy. I plan on sending him an apology later on before I go to bed, but now I just feel so upset because this all my fault. Any advice? (link)
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My advice would be to just text him and tell him your sorry, if that doesn't work you can call, and if all else fails go to him and tell him. Nothing like an old fashioned movie ending to get a guy back. Tell me how it works out
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I've been daring my boyfriend for almost 9 months. He's madly inlove with me and a few months ago pressured me into saying "I love you too". We say it daily but I know I don't mean it. The thing is I'm in high school and I feel like I shouldn't be tied down to one person. I just know we aren't right for each other but I DO like him. I Know he'll never break up with me. Atlases not any time soon. Our families are different, he is rude to me severly sometimes, he has no desire for planning for his future, nothing about us is the same. What do I say that sounds not so much like an excuse? (link)
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You make the breakup clean and easy, like peeling off a band-aid. You tell him that you just don't think you two are good for each other anymore, and that you have your future to think about. THis is not an excuse, it's a legit reason. Tell me how it works out!
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I've been dating this guy for close to a year and two months. Currently we are broke up because all we do is fight constantly over anything possible. I know in my mind, its 100% best to move on, we both know it, but we both can't. We love each other so much and we can't stand the thought of being with someone else.
He really isn't all that great of a boyfriend because he doesn't treat me the way he should. It literally is all about him, we do what he wants. He never does anything for me either, he doesn't try or anything to make me feel appreciated or nothing. He says if we get back together, he will try and make everything right again.. But I've heard all that before.
Our relationship use to be GREAT. Last summer was probably the best months of my life that I have ever had. He was amazing and our love couldn't have been stronger, but when school started back our relationship took a turn and now at this point in time, its hit rock bottom.
I want to let him go, but its so hard because we were close bestfriends for over a year before we got together. We were each others first partner. We were in love before we even got together. I don't know what happen to us.
If we were to end it, what if I never get happy and I'll be alone? Like what if I was making the wrong decision? I don't know if I could handle seeing him with someone else. I also want to know how soon after a break up, would you date somebody else?
Thanks. (link)
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If you do end it, you won't be alone for the rest of your life. I know it feels like it, but it just doesn't happen. You have your whole life ahead of you, and this guy isn't the only one out there. You aren't making the wrong decision to walk away from a bad relationship, when a relationship dies, sometimes the feelings from when it was alive still exist, but we just don't know how to put them away too. After a breakup, it's suitable to wait a week to let yourself get over it, any sooner and you will only want to compare the new lover to the old.
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On here, with my friends, and to my fam, iv talked about discharge. The white stuff that u get in ur undies. I know it's normal but I'm scared mines not. I get clear discharge. I asked my friends if they were just calling it white but it was clear but they said it was white. I'm afraid that I'm sick. Please help (link)
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It's totally normal. They say white you say clear, all normal. Don't worry i was so confused about this for so long too, but ya it's nothing to worry about.
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My mom gets really angry really easily. I'm her only daughter and i'm 16 and she treats me like i'm disposable.
Like today she found out that I missed school because the power went out and screwed up my alarm clock last night.
I told her what happened and she refused to believe me and made up all sorts of crazy delusions in her head about what she thinks really happened. She started screaming and cussing me out and telling me that she's going to call social services and have them come take me away because she hates me so much and that she thinks i'm a complete failure.
Every time anything go's the least bit wrong she go's nuts. She makes up scenarios in her head that never actually happened and lets them build her anger up.
Every single day she explodes about something and always takes it out on me.
She thinks she's the perfect parent though and whenever shes around anybody else she acts positively angelic.
I'm always being accused of something and I never get a say in the matter. If I try to explain myself she slaps me and tells me to shut up.
Yet she'll go on an on about how I abuse her trust and how she's the perfect parent and that I don't deserve her.
I really think she hates me.
She always insults me and belittles everything I do. Nothing is ever good enough for her and every day I come home from school to a pissed off mother who stresses me out the point i've thought about calling DCF.
She's even gotten angry to the point she pushed me down the stairs and hit me with a pan.
I'm in all honors classes with A's and B's and i've never been to the discipline office for anything.
I don't know why she thinks i'm such a horrible monster but she does and it drives me crazy.
What can I do about her?
I can't live with my dad because he lives in a really tiny 1 bedroom apartment with 13 cats and a 12 hour job. He barely has enough money for himself and his pets so he wouldn't be able to take care of me.
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You're mom is abusive. I know that may be a little hard to accept, but that isn't a normal relationship and you shouldn't have to deal with it. Go to your school's counselor.
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Sorry this is long...hope you like novels :P
I was going out with her for 9 months but it was the slowest relationship ever! We enjoyed each other’s company but we were so shy. We hardly ever went on dates and never got very far, it was a bit pathetic really. By the time we got to the point where we could have had a normal, awesome relationship she’d lost interest and we broke up a couple of months ago. Of course we said “we’ll still be friends” but that’s always just the nicest way of saying “I want to break up with you”. Stupidly I took this to mean that we both just wanted a break (that’s how I felt anyway) so it was pretty heart wrenching when she got a new boyfriend about a month ago. I’ve spent the last 2 months trying to get over her, forget her etc but I can’t seem to do it. I spend every moment at home trying to convince myself that it’s over, it’s for the best and I don’t love her anymore etc but as soon as I see her again at school that all goes out the window. I’m always daydreaming about her coming back to me or about how I could have done things better and stuff and then I realize how pathetic it is that I’m still doing this after 2 months, snap out of it and get really angry with myself. Then 10 minutes later I’m doing it again, it’s tearing me apart and becomes a huge distraction (I’m meant to be doing an art assignment right now :P) I love her but I guess I have 2 options:
a) use advice from you guys to move on (realistic)or
b) use advice from you guys to get her back (desired)
Thanks soo much :)
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If the girl has a boyfriend then there is just no way right now. Try being the best friend you can be, but don't tell her you still like her now. When and if they break up, then you do the sweetest thing ever, the thing every girl dreams about. You show up at her house that night with flowers, and tell her that you love her, and you're sorry it took you this long to figure that out. That you need her and want her, and she doesn't have to make her mind up now, but you just needed to say it.
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in 6th and 7th grade this guy would follow me home and stand out side my house it turns out he goes to my school so i told the principle and she didn't do anything but she told me that he was bipolar and that he would eventually stop it kinda did but now when im walking my dog i always always see him and in the hallways he gives me this creepy smirk and watches me all the time what should i do i know she said it would stop but its been 3 darn years and its fudging scary (link)
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Confront him. IN SCHOOL NOT ALONE. Odds are if he hasn't done anything in 3 years, he won't, but talking to him about it creeping you out should put an end to the madness.
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Is it a sin to sleep naked with the one you love? (link)
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If you are married, no. If you aren't yes.
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how can i lose weight without losing my butt completely and tone it as well? i understand that exercising will cause me to lose some of my "booty", but i want something where i can lose weight fast without losing too much of my rear end. thank you! (link)
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Try exercises that focus on your torso up, though this will mean that you will get absolutely no weightloss from the legs, so it's sort of give and take.
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How can i make myself unsearchable on facebook? I'm applying for jobs and I don't want them to be able to find me on facebook. Thanks! (link)
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their is absolutely no way to make yourself unsearchable on facebook. You could delete your account and that will work, or you could just go online and delete anything that you wouldn't want them to see, which shouldn't be on their to begin with but hey it happens to the best of us.
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Theres this one spoiled biznatch in my class who text all the time, and she looks lilke miss queen B when she is texting, and it bothers me.
What do i do (link)
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I'm not really sure what you're asking. Why does it bother you or what do you do. So i'll answer both. It probably bothers you because you're jealous. It's a natural feeling, but try understanding that she just might want to text? You don't do anything about it except ignore it like other people i'm sure do.
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So I have had darkish brown hair since forever. For the past two years I have been adding blonde highlights to my hair. There is a lot of them so it makes my hair seem lighter. Lately I have been hating the way it looks with blonde in it. So, I have decided to dye my hair back to its original color. I am wondering how this will affect my hair? i have never "dyed" my hair before, and I was thinking it might make my hair different. So is there any bad side affects that could happen to my hair because of dying it? (link)
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No, the only difference is that it will never be the exact same color as it originally was :/ but other than that as long as you get it done at a good hair salon you should be perfectly fine
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