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can i give a sdt to myself if i have never had it before? (link)
no


I'm not sure if I should ask my pastor about my concerns regarding inner healing in the church, or if it would hurt him. I feel that this type of pop psychology should be left out of the church. Should I go to him about it or leave it alone? (link)
def ask him it will mean a lot and you should never have doubts in Faith its no good. talk to him soon!!!


HELP!My 16 yo son had 4 boys MUCH LARGER than him come to my house to beat him up. Luckily he wasn't home. They told him on the bus that's why they showed up. Now he won't ride the bus, doesn't want me to confront them or the parents. He said their finally leaving him alone (I don't know if he's telling me everything), and if I do it will get much worse. One boy who was a friend did this already and fought with him. It was put on the internet and he was mocked at school. I found this all out much after the fact. Now these boys want to fight him because my son called one of them fat playing online a wargame talking smack to eachother. These friends came over and I told me to have my son call him like they wanted to hang out. I am outraged and need to know if this has happened to anyone outthere and what action is the best. Leave it alone because it's dying down? Go meet them and let them know it's not tolerated and have things get worse? Call the cops and have things get worse? HELP!!!!!! My son is very thin and these boys are huge compared to him. What do I do? (link)
ok so i am 16 also and i have found that (since i am not exactly popular), it doesnt matter what others think of you. i am Christian and am put out just because of that, so i have been physically harmed because of it. besides lifting A LOT what he could do is make sure he doesn't react to what they are doing. another thing he can do is make sure another (larger) friend is there with him. even if this friend is not as large as the other kids pushing your son around, it is helpful because i am 160 pounds and i know that it is possible to make a 300 lbs football player think twice. there is strength in numbers also if alone and no friend is around just make sure that a teacher is there. because chances are the kids are not as serious as they seem and if a teacher is there they will wait till later, the key is that there will not be a later. most of all i would say that it is important that those kids do not get what they want from your son, FEAR! so make sure that they do not get that reaction. praying for ya! God Bless


What is the most painless way to commit suicide?....The only thought that provides any degree of solace to me is death. I do not want to live anymore, there is no other way to end the pain. I tried paracetamol in my 20`s (am in 30`s now) and they just pumped my stomach. I fell in love with a married woman (yes I know there was no future) but I just don`t wanna live as the memories are killing me. The memories and love wont go away, despite the fact that she cheated on me. So anyway I have high BP and am being monitored for my heart rate regularly by my Dcotor. I have not taken my prescrption for some time and thank goodness my BP level has risen again but this is not working. I have taken to smoking a shisha pipe as well, so my health is pretty bad right now but it`s taking too long. The thought of death is the only comfort available to me, dpoes anyone understand this? Please just recommend an easy an painless way to die as I am a complete an utter coward, have no career prospects and have no ambition. I am not mentally ill but just want to die. I pray to God every night to take me but thts not working either, so anyone got any advice on the most painless way to commit to kill myself? (link)
ok so i have been in your exact situation before, i have felt the same. i would recommend that you find a good friend that you trust. i had a terrible time and confided in one friend, now i have to say that i confided in a girl because they seem to understand a little bit better, though a guy is just as good if they can sympathize with you well. but at the same time i would just make sure that they dont become complacent with what u are facing, they need to challenge you in it and make you grow. i noticed that you were relying on God to take you away from this life, well if you think about it: if God has the ability to take you or keep you here, doesnt He have the power to help you? well i would say go to the bible and see what He has to say to you. The bible is not just a rule book it is God's love letter to us. God has made you and Knows you better than even you do and Jesus had every temptation that we have ever encountered so God knows your pain. let Him help you, and i promise that He will, not to say that He'll give you a good life because life is not fair but the power that rose Jesus from the grave is in a believer, that my good friend is the Holy Spirit, He has the power to help you day by day but reliance on substance, as you know, cannot fill that hole that you have in your heart, ONLY GOD CAN!!! hope this helps and please go to ur local church and talk to a pastor that can help you understand what to do from here.




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