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How to Break Up
I've been daring my boyfriend for almost 9 months. He's madly inlove with me and a few months ago pressured me into saying "I love you too". We say it daily but I know I don't mean it. The thing is I'm in high school and I feel like I shouldn't be tied down to one person. I just know we aren't right for each other but I DO like him. I Know he'll never break up with me. Atlases not any time soon. Our families are different, he is rude to me severly sometimes, he has no desire for planning for his future, nothing about us is the same. What do I say that sounds not so much like an excuse?
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You make the breakup clean and easy, like peeling off a band-aid. You tell him that you just don't think you two are good for each other anymore, and that you have your future to think about. THis is not an excuse, it's a legit reason. Tell me how it works out!
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I think you need to sit him down and tell him you guys are breaking up because that is what you actually want. You are effectively friends masquerading as lovers. And you're right, someone your age should be exploring and tying herself down (same goes for college, btw).
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Tell him preciselly what you said in your post.
Don't tell him extra crap like "You'll meet somebody great" or and of that crap PLEASE. If you do, listen very carefully... you might just hear me puke, all the way from Africa xD
If you really DO like him and have any sort of respect for him, tell him in person. If you don't, send him a e-mail or sms.
It's hard I know, best of luck.
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You deserve to be happy. You should just tell him. It's much easier if you tell him through email or text message.
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If you truly don't want to date him anymore than you should break up with him.It wouldn't be nice to continue leading him on.But make sure you let him down lightly,you don't want to hurt him to bad.
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