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I log onto facebook a message pops up saying: "A script on this page has cause Internet Explorer to run slowly. Do you want to continue running this script?" I click no and it just keeps on popping up and freezing the page. How do I get it to stop running scripts?
I use internet explorer 8
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Stop using Internet Explorer is a good start. Then download Firefox and use their Script Blocker ap. Also, using a second antivirus program such as AVAST is highly recommended as a backup to your chief antivirus program (if you have McAfee, that is just about useless in my estimation and you might want to think about Webroot).
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I'm a 16 year old girl from Israel, I love a guy ( 4 years older than me) He was my mentor in a program last year, but more as a friend, you can say,,.. we used to talk and he used to cheer me up very often, I saw some attention from him, like getting me in his group or coming over to tell me he's glad to see me , he told me about a girl he liked and he told her he did but she didn't love him back , he even asked her twice or three times but she didn't say anything, then afterwards he started telling me he doesn't want her even his friends, who became mine as well, used to tell me that he doesn't want her anymore, after the program, he wasn't my mentor anymore and we used to talk ,I saw some attention from him, my friends used to tell me he was staring at me, he once stayed up all night ust to cheer me up, and even reached its peek when he once drew a heart and put our first letters near to it in front of me and my friends, .. by then we used to talk more then we stopped suddenly and he travelled somewhere then we talked to each other again but neither of us has ever confessed and didn't mention feelings , .. what surprises me now that I discovered that one of my friends used to like him as well, but she didn't tell me all along, not even now , .. well, I reached a point where I don't know what to do, I love him so much but I'm afraid to lose him , that's why I don't know if I should tell him about my feelings towards him? should I ? I'm afraid he doesn't like me back and then our friendship will be ruined, does he love me back ? should I tell him the way I feel ?
Thank you (link)
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Welcome to being a guy! Because this sort of tension you're experiencing is what guys endure a lot. Look, just go for it! If he says he isn't interested at least you'll get some kind of resolution to this drama and you can move on. Besides, if he says no, you'll learn what it feels like when a guy asks a girl out and gets shot down. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
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I keep getting judged by my weight. I'm 12, F, and today this REALLLLLLY skinny girl compared me and my best friend.. "She's so skinny.. But like you're so big" I don't think I'm like obese or overweight, but I just hate how I look and I'm starting to think of getting anorexia.
I shouldn't loose weight just because other people want me to or other people compare me, but I want to do this for myself. I'm hopeing I get the new Wii U for Christmas so I can play Your Shape: Fitness Evolved. I know that'll help me lose weight!
Speaking of that, my brother has a Wii and I've been playing Wii Sports Resort but then yesterday he said I couldn't play it anymore.. I can bribe him, but I don't know what to do if that doesn't work.
Anyways, how do I lose weight? I want to lose like 20 pounds or maybe even 30. Well I'm sorry this is long but I'm new and yeah.. Anyways, thanks! (link)
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Just limit yourself to 1500 calories a day until you achieve your medically prescribed ideal weight. You'll lose the weight slowly, you won't feel like you're depriving yourself and you won't experience the things people do when they try to crash diet.
Also, if you have access to a swim club, join one and swim a mile or two every day. It burns fat off of every part of your body, it tapers your body and it is low impact. Plus it will improve your cardiac health.
I've lost 60 pounds on the 1500 calories a day diet despite a sedentary job and not really getting that much exercise other than walking my dog every day.
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i had a 3 days menstruation period every month..anf after 6 days my period ends, i got unprotected sex w/ my bf..could i get pregnant?? (link)
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Well, the chances aren't that great for pregnancy in that context, but it nonetheless bears operating under the rubric that anytime you have sex you can get pregnant unless you're on birth control. Good luck! I hope you didn't get caught!
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My boyfriend and I were fooling around last night, he rubbed his penis on my behind, and some sperm came out, I'm a virgin, when it was over, I quickly got my underwear on and left, I don't know if any sperm came near my vagina, and if it did, can i get pregnant? (link)
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Pretty much impossible unless he was rubbing it in your crack.
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Okay so my situation is complicated. I work in a retail environment and I have a huge crush on the supervisor of our loss prevention security department. Any relationship would kill both our jobs if anyone found out. I have no idea if this guy even likes me. Other people in my department says that he never comes around when I'm not there, but when I am...he comes around often. when he comes out of his office, he can see my department and its like he is staring at me until he has to go downstairs. he doesn'tlook like he is smiling but I can't tell if its because he has to look serious or another reason. You have to understand that I am a 21 yr old virgin everything and don'tn know what if there is anything I am missing or should be doing. I can't keep a straight face around him. (link)
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Here is what you do: quit your job, find another one and then you can date the loss prevention guy all you want. The other thing is that the loss prevention manager is in a pretty sensitive position and to date an employee puts him in a fatal conflict of interest. So either give any thought to dating him a miss or find alternate employment.
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My boyfriend, Tim, is probably one out of many guys with a caring heart and very considerate person especially to his friend. When we had first met and dating at the time, Tim had just added 2 of his buddies onto his family plan and I had told him at the time that even if they were your friends be prepare to lose some money or lose there friendship. I mean not all people are shady like that but most people can be and knowing his friends, I had no doubt that they were gonna screw him over. Fast forward to 2 years later, late on their payments, always suspending their phone lines, late payment fees, minutes and data overage fees, And now one of the buddies, bob, was planing on moving out of state so at this time the bill went up to $600. Tim had been texting, calling messaging him about the phone bill or if he wanted to cancel(canceling the phone line will be about$130) because of him moving. No response. Of course Tim does not have that kind of money to spend especially with Christmas around the corner. Anyhow, bob is already off to anothe state, leaving Tim with no answer. Tim plays cool while I'm over here tripping because his buddies can't take their responsiblity on payin the bill, the other buddy has no job either and is not paying. The only part where I was completely frustrated with Is the fact that his so call "buddy" "friend" had not respond back to any of tims messages when we know that he's been talking to his other friends. I mean not even a "sorry man I can't pay the bill, I'll pay you back ASAP" nothing!!!! I was so disappointed in his decision.
Just recently I had been on bobs Facebook and one of his status was "new number, hit me up". So at this point my bf, Tim wants to take him to court. How should he go about dealing with this situation? (link)
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Listen, these people aren't friends, they're users and should be treated as such. Sue his butt off, get your money and write the friend off.
The sad truth in this life is that the only person you can depend on to do the right thing is yourself. Never ever let your friends get their hooks into you. These are always the types that can't stand on their own two feet. Sometimes, one of the best things you can be is cold when one of your relatives or friends comes around looking for a handout. And if nobody will give them a handout then they will finally be forced to do for themselves and quit being leeches.
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Some subjects to talk to boyfriend about. (link)
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Sports, music, food, something you read, current events, something you saw on tv or You Tube, places you'd like to go in the future and why, the fiscal cliff (okay, that last one I was just snarking on).
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So me and my best friend have become so close in these last two years. We've passed friendship and have already admitted our feelings for one another. He jus recently told me he loves me for the first time. The thing about us though is that we kno so much about each other. I don't know what to talk about any more, sooo what are some good topics or things I can bring up to spark good convos. Thnx in advance (link)
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How about you talk about your lack of stuff to talk about?
I'm not being flip. What you're going through happens. Just admit to each other that you can no longer entertain each other verbally, but you can do things to solidify your relationship further by sharing common experiences (trips, reading books together, going to restaurants and concerts and other events) so that you build some memories together. You don't have to talk to enjoy each other. You just have to love being with each other even if it's frequently in dead silence while watching tv or whatever.
The other thing is that the more you think you have to talk about something the harder it is for you to actually think of what to say. So just let it happen organically.
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So my boyfriend is dealing with Depression. he's had trouble finding work for quite awhile now. He had a job for awhile but had to quit it due to the awful commute. He recently got a part time job but with the gas and parking permit he has to have, he doesn't even feel like it's worth it.
We've been together for about 2 years and 8 months now and still don't live together because he lives with his friends and hasn't been able to get a place of his own because of his work problems and I can't help atm because I'm a full time student.
I understand why he's depressed, I just dunno how to help him. It hurts me to see him like this, I wish I could help more but we're in different phases in our lives, a lot of his issues I don't know how to help him much or pull him out of.
Any ideas would be much helpful..
oh and please no one suggest him getting therapy...it doesn't do much good when you can't afford it. Thanks! (link)
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You're an awesomely nice girl for staying with this guy despite his problems. However, you don't feel like you have to save him, do you? That would make you codependent. Do you have a history of picking guys who are kind of like wounded birds? If so, you need a therapist.
However, if there is no codependency problem because you can see past his problems with depression for the underlying person he apparently is, in the short term you need to concentrate on your school work so that at least one of you emerges in a position of strength rather than both of you sinking under the weight of the guy's depression. Also, I want you to remember that whatever negative actions this guy might pull in the future, NONE of them is your fault.
So get through school and that way once you're employed you guys can build a life together from a solid foundation, something that neither of you has right now. I wish you luck. I hope he can get himself sorted out.
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My ex-boyfriend use to make me feel very secure. Always held me and took care of me when I needed it or was stressed. We also had a very romantic relationship and went out all the time. My new boyfriend isn't exactly the same. When i'm with him I love him I sware I do. Our personalities click and everything but I feel like it's at a plateau. He doesn't like spending money and is very cheap. Normally when we hang out were just at my house or his house. I just feel this empty space sometimes and miss my ex. Not to be with my ex, I just miss what we had if that makes sense? I just don't know if what i'm feeling is normal or if it's a sign to move on. (link)
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What you're doing, as so many women do, is confuse how much money he spends on you with how much love he has for you. This is the part that is exceedingly hypocritical about women: they decry guys seeing them as sex objects but yet feel they have the right to see guys as economic/security objects.
How about you loosen your purse strings and pay for a date every now and again? Or do you think you're a princess who deserves tribute every now and again? Do you want a man who sincerely loves you or do you want an entertainer?
Instead, how about you be his PARTNER and take HIM out occasionally? Fair is fair, right?
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We've been dating for 10 months and I feel like I don't treat him as good as he treats me. We're in the 8th grade, how can I be an awesome girlfriend? (link)
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Here are my tips for being an awesome girlfriend:
1. Be nice.
2. Be honest
3. Be loving (what I mean by this is give him lots of hugs, kisses, kind words when he has earned them and hold his hand a lot; at your age, sex is definitely OUT, though)
4. Take good care of yourself (be clean, dress neatly, keep your hair long)
5. Don't overthink things (guys are really simple in their thinking, so don't look for more in what they say than is actually there)
6. Remember that the most precious gift is him in your life and not any presents he might give you.
7. Love yourself enough to not tolerate anything immoral, illegal, hurtful or counterproductive.
8. Don't ever complain about him in public.
9. Guys can't read minds. So if you want something from him tell him!
10. Trust him! He night look at other girls, but as long as he doesn't touch them you're good.
11. Like pro sports, even if it is just one sport (the best ones to pick from are the three big ones, baseball, football basketball). Extra points if he likes college football and/or basketball and you do, too.
12. Help him with his homework, if necessary, but don't do it for him.
13. Remember, he is your PARTNER
14. Expect him to be faithful, truthful, honest, attentive to you without having to treat you like you're some kind of royalty or something and don't accept anything less than that.
15. Be the best you can in the classroom because two heads are better than one in life.
16. Have a sense of humor. So many women don't and see cute little jokes as personal attacks.
17. Don't personalize everything.
18. Be assertive, but don't be loud.
19. Guys feel a need to be in control of every situation. Make him feel like he's in control even though you actually are.
20. Live in the moment and be happy for the simple things in life.
21. Remember that he was raised as a boy and so doesn't think like a girl. Also, boy culture is different from girl culture. Girls bond through self disclosure, boys bond through doing stuff.
22. Boys aren't as verbal as girls (in fact, girls have, according to a recent study, much bigger vocabularies, on average, than boys). So focus more on what he does and not on what he says (unless he is being a complete douchebag or something).
23. Yes, his primary attraction to you is sexual just as you see him as a security object. Accept it.
24. Remember that your body is yours and not his. Set definite boundaries and don't retreat from them. He'll take you a lot more seriously if you have your stuff together.
25. The boy you're with now is very unlikely to be the one you will end up marrying. So always take the long view and don't get so caught up in minor teenage drama because it will mean nothing in the grand scheme of things.
By the way, you asking this question is awesome.
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21/f-I'm absolutely CRAZY about my friend who is in a relationship with a girl who lives all the way across the country. This year has been such an emotional roller coaster for me, caused by this. I feel like such a dumb bitch. My priorities have always been with my education and my close friends and family. How stupid am I to let myself get obsessed with a guy?
I've never had sex, never been in a relationship, and have never had these feelings before. At this point, I just want it to stop. If I could flip a switch that would make me disgusted every time I saw him, I would. I can't control these feelings though. I've tried to see the worst in him and be pissed off but it hasn't worked. Avoiding him is impossible because we're always together for school stuff.
I know we have such a great connection, he loves hanging out with me, and I imagine he's attracted to me. However,he and this girl have a seemingly great relationship and see each other on every holiday.
This is the first time I've had this strong a friendship with a straight guy. My sexual and emotional thoughts have been going wild lately and as a person who is usually very in control, it scares me that these feelings are so overwhelming. If we could be together, I guess this wouldn't be such an issue.
Since I've already tried to stop liking him and it hasn't worked, Ive thought of some other strategies. Maybe I should tease him sexually and see how long he could go without giving in? (this would be my first time doing something this bold). I realize he's a man and men get crazy horny and he can only have sex like every 2 months...I know it's unrealistic that we'll be together but I'd like to lose the battle with him realizing how much sex and fun he's missing out on with this woman who he shares so much in common with, not as a shy wallflower. I want to at least put him in an uncomfortable position and and maybe cause him to question things about this relationship with this girlfriend in Nevada. I'm not trying to be a bad person, but I feel like I need to do this for my own sanity; the goal, really is to get over him.
I know most girls experience these overwhelming feelings at some point; how do you deal with them? What should I do to either get this dumbass to be with me or get over him? Any same experiences/ success stories? (link)
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Not a totally uncommon thing.
The general rule of thumb when you attempt to repress something you actually want deep down is it will express itself at some point anyway. So it's better to recognize it for what it is.
There is a danger here that if you do go to bed with him that he will feel guilty about it and just all of a sudden run away from you. He may be conflicted himself about his feelings for you and for her, which isn't a good place to begin a relationship with him on. So the mature, rational thing would be to tell him to break up with her or he would end up in the friend zone.
You also have to recognize that as a maturing adult you just can't always get what you want and so far you've done a good job in not surrendering to your impulses. You'll feel better about yourself if you move on from this, but again, fully recognize that, "I think he rocks, but he is something I can't have right now, oh well."
I was in a situation vaguely analogous to the guy you're mooning over's and I thank God I made the right decision and refused the second girl's overture and stayed with my girlfriend of the time. My girlfriend was a tremendous person (and so was the girl pursuing me) even though it cost me a longstanding friendship with the second woman. I have a clear conscience and you will, too, if you just keep things with the guy as a friendship only thing.
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My prob is that i like a guy but not sure if he likes me... our parents know each other for the past 10 years... though i haven't seen him or talked to him a lot, i have just seen him twice. The only thing we do is have a couple of silly fights through social networking site. i cant tell him that i like him as im afraid what he would think of me n that the relationship between our parents n between us wud end forever. I keep on thinking of this guy n unable to concentrate on anything. Can any1 pls advice me on this ? (link)
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You guys can get together without the parents knowing. So ask the guy if he wants to go do something innocuous like have coffee or lunch, talk to each other and see if anything's there between you. If there is great! If not, at least you took the shot, so you'll have no regrets.
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i'm an 18 year old female college student. i have had a boyfriend for 2 years.
all my life, i've been straight. i have never, ever seen a girl that i found myself attracted to, except the fact that she's pretty.
however, in one of my classes of my first semester this year, there was a girl there who had me thinking otherwise. she is a biiig tomboy and has a really outgoing personality, which is opposite of me, which i think lures me to be interested in her as a person.
then, i started having sexual daydreams about her. i've had dreams about masturbating to her.
so that's where i'm confused. i think it all may be because her personality attracted me first and she was also very tomboyish... her clothes, her short hair, her voice... so i guess maybe that's what it is that gets me?
but when i think about her and i doing things, the fact that she's a girl doesn't creep me out. i just want to do it with her.
i mean, am i bicurious? or just attracted to boyish people in general... (link)
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First, don't worry about the labels. To have that kind of awakening at your age and under those circumstances is really common. Now if you do something with her you may find you want to continue doing it or you may find it really isn't your thing. Or you may admit you may be, say, 80% straight and 20% lesbian. The possibilities are myriad.
The main thing you need to remember is that your life is yours alone and, barring you doing something to hurt yourself or others, what you do with that life is nobody's business but yours. So do what you feel you need to do. You may want to tell that girl, though, if you do find yourself in private with her and things are about to get intimate that you haven't completely sorted out your feelings about your sexuality and that it would indeed be your first time. That way, she'll be alerted that this may just be a onetime thing.
So talk to the girl you like and see if there is anything between you. It could just even be you want to be like her (that is, having an outgoing personality) and it is expressing itself sexually. That happens, too. Just explore, see what happens, learn from it and move forward.
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Me:12/F
Him:14/m
Well my boyfriend fingers me and I wanted to know if its okay since I'm 12 I'm turning 13 in 7 months and it just feels so good and I don't want it to stop but if its not right then I should probably stop him. We haven't had sex yet and I'm still a virgin. I really love him and we've been together for 6 months and he's been fingering me 4 5 months he fingers me every weekend and we see each other everyday at school and I'm at his house most days and my parents don't know about us when I sleep there on the weekends they thing I'm sleeping at my friend(she lives next door to him)please don't judge me
Thanks x (link)
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There is nothing inherently wrong with you being fingered and, in fact, it is common and many, many women enjoy it. HOWEVER, when you lie to your parents you run the chance of undermining their trust in you and, once you are found out, they may take nothing you say after that seriously. Your "relationship" with the guy, such as it is, is temporary. Your relationship with your folks is forever.
By the way, I'm not bagging on you. I was a very bad boy as a teenager myself. But I am just stating reality.
Anyway, that bit of preaching aside, just make sure you take other precautions to prevent pregnancy such as keeping his penis away from your vagina. Don't even let it get close. If his penis is out your vagina is covered and when he fingers you his penis is covered, got it?
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it z been 6 months nw.. We were in a pure realationship. I hv fingered her.she had given handjobs to me. But i want to lick her out. But she is telling it is a sin according to da religion.. (link)
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Dude, rule of thumb is don't listen to religion when it comes to sex. You're talking about a Bible that was written form the fifth century A.D. and backward while the Old Testament goes even further back than that. Whatever you guys want to do sexually go for it as long as both parties consent to it and it doesn't endanger anyone.
And please add Erich Fromme's "Escape from Freedom" to your reading list because that is what obedience to religion is, antithetical to freedom.
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If a boy comes on your clitoris is there a chance of you being pregnant? (link)
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First, adviceman, you mean sperm. Semen is just the liquid medium used to carry the sperm into the vagina.
It may be possible for pregnancy to occur under the circumstance you asked about, but it would be one hell of a longshot. Was there any semen around the vaginal opening? If there was, then maybe. But if the semen was confined to the clitoris, it would be unlikely any sperm would be able to swim down to the vaginal opening without semen also being further down the region. Sperm don't react real well to air. Once inside the vagina, though, it can live for between 3-5 days, though the longer it's in there the weaker it generally becomes.
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Can you Really buy a vibrator at Walmart or Spencers Because I read you have to be 18 or older I need one but I'm not sure if I can buy one because I'm only 16 (link)
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Wal-Mart does not sell sex toys. Order it online. You'll need a credit card, though.
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What's it mean when you nut blood? (link)
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Could be as benign as bursting a capillary and as dangerous as prostate cancer. If it continues, see a doctor ASAP. If it's just a onetime thing, you're probably okay.
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