Member Since: May 3, 2011
Answers: 1053
Last Update: December 12, 2012
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Thank you for a different outlook. You are right, everyone's different. It's impossible to get along with everyone. Thanks for the helpful, yet entertaining advice, man. xD!
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Hahaha, comedic and helpful. Thank you. ;D
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I found most of what you said to be common sense, but the other stuff was fairly helpful. Second paragraph made a good point and I find your very last sentance helpful. Thanks
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That's what I've been doing, focusing on school so I can help us later. I just love him and don't like seeing him sad, but I know that all I can do is be there for him and be supportive. Thanks for the advice!
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I take care of my man usuall everyday when on my period. It was the fact of the situation at the time if u read my message! I am not self centered he gets taken care of more than I do! And I DONT care if he masturbates or watches porn I just cared at this specific moment when we were arguing and he showed me no respect. Before you bash u should know the details. And I know men see women as sex objects im not stupid!!! But its how he treats me at other times of the relationship that makes me feel this way. I do treat him VERY good. I screw him everday usually more than once! I buy him trucks and whatever he wants, cook, clean do everything for him so dont say I need to find another guy and treat him good i give all of myself to whoever I am with and deserve it in return!
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You're right it's their space, definitely need my own. I appreciate the input!
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Thank you! I felt in my gut I should have given him a fake number, for some reason... Glad someone can relate. xD! Thank you for your reassurance and your time! MUCH appreciated! :DDD
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that didn't really answer my question but thanks for your input anyways!
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He is majoring in one of the hardest subjects there is and has to maintain a strict GPA at one of the best schools in the state- so we see eachother when we can which is usually every other week. It's a lot more than most couples our age do, and driving there two-three times a week would be unrealistic because there is always bridge traffic and both of us have to concentrate on school right now. I love him and I want what's best for him- "absence makes the heart grow horny" may be true for some people but it just makes the time I see him all the better. I was only using his words when I said "slutty" by the way- I wasn't there. And I never said I was insecure about anything including myself. I just said I was frustrated.
Thanks anyways.
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Thank you for the wonderful feedback.
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Thank you, I totally agree with you. My sweet baby boy was born on October 18th and his name is Matthew David. I'm very glad I named him Matthew and as you said, I feel I'd regret it if I didn't. :)
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Wow. You guys are taking this question to a whole new level LOL You are not the only one, believe me, but I am far from a barbie doll. Trust me. hahaha I just like shoes and I DON'T want to torture myself to wear them, that's the whole point. That's why I want to know if there is an insole that these women are wearing or if they are just getting immune to pain. If that is the case then I am going to have to pass on the taller shoes.
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Thanks, sorry it took so long to get back to you. Thank you for your advice.
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Thank-you so much! I get really depressed cause I have slot of people telling me that I gained a lot even that im fat so it deff brings my self esteem down! What kinds of foods do u eat? And what time do u stop eating. Do u exercise ? Tthat really is great that you have lost 50 pounds! Gives me motivation! Only bad thing is that im always hungry!
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Okay thanx for the advice u helped me alot
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Thanks so much for your answer.I have some feedback though, since I posted my question I've eliminated the possibility that he is playing me off against my friend... That leaves secretly wanting to get into my pants or just really wanting to be friends. Either which way, I've accepted that whatever it is, its unique and I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts.
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I actually studied psychology. I hope u had fun writing that
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best advice EVER! he was already having sex with with three girls beside his wife! THANK YOU!
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Thank you sir for taking the time to answer my question.
Akshay Anurag
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Ya sadly true I really don't get it if your both still teens, but laws are laws Thanks:)
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Hey thanks!(: Thats so true and thats cool I didn't know that the thing you put at the beggining(: So Thanks!!:D
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Good to know that I till have it. Thanks
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that's probably the best advice i've ever got. but asking him out might be the issue. but thanks for the advice anyways :)
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You re definitely the voice of reason!! thank you for clearing it up and giving me words of wisdom, i will remember that when talking to guys!! Oh btw, he is 38 and he i think some teenagers are more sensible to talk to than him! hahaha I should just learn to trust and its his fault if he lies etc, at least i know i am telling the truth and i didnt take advantage of anyone!!
have a great day! thank you for the time!!!
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Thanks but I already know that I can choose to be with whomever. It's not my religion holding me back, it's myself and my decisions. I'm not afraid to be with someone outside of my culture because if I truly wanted to fight for it, I would. You completely ignored my question, hence your low rating.
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All good points. Thank you for the advice. :)
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Thank you. But, I will say that feelings like this sometimes don't wear off at all. We are going to Sweetheart's though. :)
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Thank you1 Very interesting advice as I compare it to the other advice I got. I love your liberal-minded spirit toward BDSM and erotica, Voice of Reason. Extremely refreshing! You didn't condemn me or her nor bash us. You didn't mistreat or disrespect me like some have here. Yes, I do admit to being a subbie who does love to obey his mistress, especially since she is much younger than I! I did love your joke. It makes for great foreplay!
So I think what you are saying is: If I schedule a meeting time with her to talk about everything on my mind, then that will allow her all the erotic time she wants to keep her hand over my mouth whenever she likes in public--for as long as she likes! And I can enjoy her hand without the feeling that I would like to talk. Do I read you right? I love it!!! Best advice anyone has yet given me! Lisa will love this too! You understand this so well! I think I love you! Really.
May I please ask a follow-up question contained in my initial query, since you are so refreshing? You seem to be one who feels that displaying an erotic fetish in public is okay, if I read you right. So, with that in mind, is it okay for Lisa's girlfriends to also copycat her and put THEIR erotic hands over my mouth whenever they wish in public, one girl at a time? Is that too kinky or liberal or unethica/immoral? If Lisa is fine with it, if the girls are fine with it, if I am fine with it? Is it "cheating" on Lisa to share erotic intimacy with them via their hands? It's EXTREMELY erotic for me to have a young woman's hand over my mouth to restrict my ability to speak. I love being controlled, dominated, and disciplined by very young women and teenage girls. What is your honest opinion?
You made my week and my month. You ARE the Voice of Reason. I think I just found the advice columnist of the year. I AM IN LOVE NOW!!!
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thank you so much, your advice really does make me feel a million times better
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That is a complete lie none of them were "unavilable to me emotionally" I have made my ex cry many times. I didn't get into my first actual relationship until I was in college, because I knew I was MATURE to handle it..not some highschool petty relationship. and you're acting as if I slept around with every guy..and again I am almost 22, I lost my virginity at a mature age of 19..not whoring around at 15-16 years old..I know better than what guys think. Not every guy wants sex okay. I know my way around how guys think and what to feel, I know I am pretty mature on how to handle men. I guess you failed to realize I said I was iffty on the guy that was 11 years older than I am.. (CLEARLY STATING I KNEW BETTER!). You didn't even answer what I stated, you decided to attack me as if I am some little 14 year old girl letting evey guy in my pants.
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thanks for your opinion and it does makes sense too. i appreciate that. she gets me confuse. earlier she was triyng to catch my attention? i don't know but everytime i turn around she's most of the time around me. trying to make an excuse work... am not sure if it's just me. i don't know what's running on her mind. it scares me sometimes because not that i know of that somebody had done this to me before. i mean being bold. i get attracted to women too but i hide it and i think i had been good with it. what get me is that i really feel like she's pissed when i start talking to men (in a friendly way). i don't know... if she's turn off and not interested, why is she doing what she's doing now?
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he was a virgin so thats not possible but thank you.
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I like your advice, I would like to take some classes, however ,I don't really have the time, money or transportation to do school right now, however once I get a better paying job and can afford a car I'll probably take this into consideration
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Thank you so much for this advice, it really opened my eyes, thanks again!
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I wasn't"holding sex hostage from him" He agreed to it because He thought I'd break, I only tried to schedule dates on our anniversaries, he'd schedule things then fall through on them, and he forced me to meet everyone in his family including nieces and cousins yet he refused to meet mine.
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Listen, I don't want him anymore. I'm saying that if he wants to come to me, then that's his choice. And by the way, I DON'T need counseling.
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Thank you for your input, but this time I am positive. I have learned to protect myself because I am on my way to becoming a cop too!
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I'm definitely not psycho or needy at all I'll tell you that. I'm just still hurt and can't seem to not be. That really didn't help but thanks anyways.
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Thanks! You gave me really solid advice =D
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we're best friends. this was like a month ago, and we're still as close as ever. you need to really double think sometimes.
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It was helpful coming from a mans point of view. Thanks
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Thank you so much! Yes you are completely correct that is what i want to weigh and after reading this i got on a diet and already weight 194 pounds after three weeks by cutting the fat and exercising!
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You're making a huge assumption saying I want to be a loner. I do have friends, but most are away on vacation and the others are on the same kind of schedule. The reason I asked the question in the first place is that I have a job coming up for which I need to be awake rather early in the morning. I wanted to fix my sleep schedule before I absolutely had to.
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*Rating changed by L2 moderator*
Wow u really suck at giving advice dick hole
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Well thank you for insulting my whole family. People have different opinions. You let your opinion get in the way of your answer. I only asked if anyone knew where a place would do it. Not if it was slutty. or screamed i'll give you a blow job/
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Okay and I think your right. Religion just never made alot of sense to me. But I still kinda wish that I could pray about something and feel a whole lot better about it like Christians do. I dont know. Sometimes I believe sometimes I dont. Its just confusing But Thank you, your advice makes the most sense. :)
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The question didn't say anything about being "needy or panic" it was listed under Etiquette. Only rating low, not because it was a bad answer, it wasn't even an answer to the question.
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actually stanford isn't the only school lol. i go to school in florida, and i think all state schools here have that policy. you are so right. i should not let him paralyze my life. i was so afriaid to report him because the worst they could do is give him a fine or something. he didn't rape me, so their not going to take him to prison. and i thought his revenge might be worst. but, you are right. i must live my life and he does it again, i will not hesiate to report. thanks for your answer.. you were a great help! xoxo
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Thank you! (: i think i'm going to do that!
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thanks...i do love him but i'm just super stressed and i guess i feel like this cause he's the only part of my life i can just leave.
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Number one. i slept with my ex back then. we had broken up and one drunken night i called and shit happened. my current boyfriend was studying in singapore.
Number two. i give too much space to guys, he says. ok whenever someone talks to my im extra friendly. i talk a lot. and this makes my boyfriend feel i have more fun with other guys n not him. i even used to talk to guys who had a crush one me. why wud i do that!
he fell for me, not for any physical thing. he was so totallly shy to make any moves on him. he treated so fuckin wel! but i took advantage of that. amd here i am facing the consequences. i deserve it. but im tryn to make things better. i really dono how to go abt making him trust me again. itll take some time.. after i posted my previous question, the next day he tell me he's gonna gimme another chance but i shudnt screw it up. we went for a movie n all had fun yday. loads. but im worried deep inside where id screw it up. noone has ever loved me like he did. noone treated me so special. its hard to trust guys these days. but him, he's one special guy. it's me who has changed him like this. into a monster.
hope i can change him back into the loving and caring guy, who used to make sure i was comfortable and then think abt himself. he was the perfect guy i had always wanted.. wat the hell do i do to change him back!!?
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okay I am a female. I am the step mother. and the child lives with him grandparents whom are letting him get away with this please re read my quiestion more carefully.
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You sound bitter, but here's a good rating to make you feel better about your failed relationships :)
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they actually thanked me. and btw no one in school did bash me, they all said i did the right thing.
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good news? i LOVED your advice. bad news? apparently, x burned out so many of the receptors in my brain, i couldn't understand the philosophy in your advice until i got mind-blowingly-stoned. XD but yeah, once i read it, i understood the entire quality of it and its given me a new perspective on things. so thank you :)
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Thanks, but you never addressed whether his reasons for not being with now are valid or if it is all a load of crap?
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He's the only guy I'd like to be with. so ;/
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I value your opinion, thank you for being honest!
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I finally did it and said hi to him on facebook. Then he went and told all his friends the next day, now i'm not so sure what to do anymore, thanks for the advice though :)
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Great advice. So you know i did drop that girlfriend immeadiately after she did it.
For tanner we didnt talk at all yesterday but today he was flirtier then ever. Touching me constantly. Letting me where his class ring. Putting his desk right next to mine and we talked all class. The only reason i say about the downward slide with her is they are shopping for rings to get married after she goes to college. Thank you for your advice. I appreciate it
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Thanks! I'll keep your advice in mind when I talk to my dad. Im still grounded and Dad is still mad at me but when he calms down i'll talk to him. Thank You soo much! And I love what you said about my brother. HAHA!
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Her parents got divorced when we were young, and her father has abused her emotionaly and physicaly. I forgot to tell you all that... But thanks for the advice. ^.^ were like- best friends again! ^.^
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The infections are hopefully being taken care of with my Family doctor. Thanks for the clarification on the pill!
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I moved to nc! Thanx you are absolutely right
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so, i was mad, yes i wanted to make him jelous. took me a little while to get over it. yes im almost an aduilt. of course i wanted payback, i felt betrayed. no i didnt think we were going to last and get married? i never even said anything like that? and yes i know its only a highschool romance. now FIRST i dont need you to call me a psycho. i wanted advice, not someone to tell me off. i just needed a little time to get over it, which i am now.
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Best answer ever on my relationship . You're so right .
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Thank you for the advice! It is very helpful.
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