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Should I make the first move?
I'm a 16 year old girl from Israel, I love a guy ( 4 years older than me) He was my mentor in a program last year, but more as a friend, you can say,,.. we used to talk and he used to cheer me up very often, I saw some attention from him, like getting me in his group or coming over to tell me he's glad to see me , he told me about a girl he liked and he told her he did but she didn't love him back , he even asked her twice or three times but she didn't say anything, then afterwards he started telling me he doesn't want her even his friends, who became mine as well, used to tell me that he doesn't want her anymore, after the program, he wasn't my mentor anymore and we used to talk ,I saw some attention from him, my friends used to tell me he was staring at me, he once stayed up all night ust to cheer me up, and even reached its peek when he once drew a heart and put our first letters near to it in front of me and my friends, .. by then we used to talk more then we stopped suddenly and he travelled somewhere then we talked to each other again but neither of us has ever confessed and didn't mention feelings , .. what surprises me now that I discovered that one of my friends used to like him as well, but she didn't tell me all along, not even now , .. well, I reached a point where I don't know what to do, I love him so much but I'm afraid to lose him , that's why I don't know if I should tell him about my feelings towards him? should I ? I'm afraid he doesn't like me back and then our friendship will be ruined, does he love me back ? should I tell him the way I feel ?
Thank you
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Welcome to being a guy! Because this sort of tension you're experiencing is what guys endure a lot. Look, just go for it! If he says he isn't interested at least you'll get some kind of resolution to this drama and you can move on. Besides, if he says no, you'll learn what it feels like when a guy asks a girl out and gets shot down. Nothing ventured, nothing gained!
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