it z been 6 months nw.. We were in a pure realationship. I hv fingered her.she had given handjobs to me. But i want to lick her out. But she is telling it is a sin according to da religion..
mercury answered Friday November 16 2012, 4:54 pm: Well,then sex would be a mortal sin. And what about a blowjob?Is that a sin too? Then,we're all sinners. Get rid of all those religious ties when thinking about having sex and enjoy:) [ mercury's advice column | Ask mercury A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Friday November 16 2012, 1:50 pm: Going down on her is oral sex, and oral sex is considered sex. It is a sin in her religion to have sex outside of marriage, I'm assuming, so you need to respect her beliefs and not push it. [ laynemayhem's advice column | Ask laynemayhem A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Friday November 16 2012, 10:55 am: If its a sin I would say about 90% of the worlds population are committing this sin. Oral sex is a very pleasant form of foreplay or an alternative to actual intercourse for young people. While I am not a biblical scholar I have never heard of oral sex being considered a sin.
What I would caution you about is not to force your girl into allowing you to do something she is not comfortable with. This would include having her give you oral sex.
When it comes to sex both participants must be consenting or it is a no go. If one partner is not consenting and is forced to do something they do not want to do it is rape. Either one of you regardless of your age can be charged with rape and sexual harassment when trying to or forcing someone to do something sexual they do not wish to do.
So while I do not believe oral sex is a sin; she does. That means until she feels differently stick to what she will allow and do not force her or harass her to do more then she is comfortable with. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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