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Love of my life
So me and my best friend have become so close in these last two years. We've passed friendship and have already admitted our feelings for one another. He jus recently told me he loves me for the first time. The thing about us though is that we kno so much about each other. I don't know what to talk about any more, sooo what are some good topics or things I can bring up to spark good convos. Thnx in advance
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How about you talk about your lack of stuff to talk about?
I'm not being flip. What you're going through happens. Just admit to each other that you can no longer entertain each other verbally, but you can do things to solidify your relationship further by sharing common experiences (trips, reading books together, going to restaurants and concerts and other events) so that you build some memories together. You don't have to talk to enjoy each other. You just have to love being with each other even if it's frequently in dead silence while watching tv or whatever.
The other thing is that the more you think you have to talk about something the harder it is for you to actually think of what to say. So just let it happen organically.
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My husband and I were best friends before we were anything else. And yes we did run out of things to talk about from time to time. But I hear that if your close friends to start you have a better chance of a lasting relationship. Spending time with each other is good but not every minute has to be filled with talk. But when you are at a lot for words ask about him. Ask him about his day. Also talk about things you both want to do in the future. I find odd conversation starters to use with my husband and friends all the time. Like "If you had a million dollars right now what would you buy where would you go what would you do with it." Its kind of fun talking about what if's. And if all else fails just hold his hand and tell him that you love him.
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