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Ex/New Boyfriend Issues
19/f
My ex-boyfriend use to make me feel very secure. Always held me and took care of me when I needed it or was stressed. We also had a very romantic relationship and went out all the time. My new boyfriend isn't exactly the same. When i'm with him I love him I sware I do. Our personalities click and everything but I feel like it's at a plateau. He doesn't like spending money and is very cheap. Normally when we hang out were just at my house or his house. I just feel this empty space sometimes and miss my ex. Not to be with my ex, I just miss what we had if that makes sense? I just don't know if what i'm feeling is normal or if it's a sign to move on.
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What you're doing, as so many women do, is confuse how much money he spends on you with how much love he has for you. This is the part that is exceedingly hypocritical about women: they decry guys seeing them as sex objects but yet feel they have the right to see guys as economic/security objects.
How about you loosen your purse strings and pay for a date every now and again? Or do you think you're a princess who deserves tribute every now and again? Do you want a man who sincerely loves you or do you want an entertainer?
Instead, how about you be his PARTNER and take HIM out occasionally? Fair is fair, right?
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I can understand how your feeling.
Honestly,it might be a sign saying you should move on.It seems like your comparing your current boyfriend to your ex boyfriend,which is possibly causing these feelings.If your comparing the two it might also be a sign that you miss your ex boyfriend.
You should give yourself some time free from the both of them,then see who you like better.It might seem stupid but ry making a pro and con list for the both of them.
You might just miss the things you and your ex boyfriend did.But you also have to remember that their two different guys.Your current boyfriend might not like going out,he might be more comfortable just chilling at home.And if that's true,then you have to respect these feeling.
Hope it helps.
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