Question Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 11:36 am
My prob is that i like a guy but not sure if he likes me... our parents know each other for the past 10 years... though i haven't seen him or talked to him a lot, i have just seen him twice. The only thing we do is have a couple of silly fights through social networking site. i cant tell him that i like him as im afraid what he would think of me n that the relationship between our parents n between us wud end forever. I keep on thinking of this guy n unable to concentrate on anything. Can any1 pls advice me on this ?
Additional info, added Thursday January 3 2013, 3:46 am: Few days after this i decided to open up and told him that i like him. But to my surprise he was very harsh on me n said right now he has no time to think abt all this and also said this has never been his area of interest. He said he behaved freely not with such an intention. i knew that his intentions were not this. Now my prob is in case he or his parents come home how am i supposed to face them..? Though i have asked him to keep this between us. He dint allow me to speak further and told me to put an end to this topic. Infact even this has never been my area of interest n this was the first guy. Now i feel i should have kept this within me. Could you please advice me on this?? And alsp... should i wait for him?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? VoiceofReason answered Wednesday December 12 2012, 8:23 am: You guys can get together without the parents knowing. So ask the guy if he wants to go do something innocuous like have coffee or lunch, talk to each other and see if anything's there between you. If there is great! If not, at least you took the shot, so you'll have no regrets. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
babymoby answered Monday December 10 2012, 1:20 am: You should tell him how you feel about him.I know your worried about affecting the relationship you already have with not just him but also his parents. The truth is your most likely to grow older and regret that you didn't tell him your feelings about him than if you did. The worst I could see happening is he doesnt like you back and things are a little awkward for a while but theyll go back to normal. i strongly encourage you to tell him your feelings. [ babymoby's advice column | Ask babymoby A Question ]
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