Ok, so im 15/f and im having issues with this guy I know (no names). So he moved here like a year and a half ago, and quickly joined my group of friends. We were friends for a while and i really started to like him, well as it turned out so did my best friend. She told me she was going to ask him out and being the stupid girl i am thinking i had no chance with him said go for it. Well they dated for three months (which killed me!!!!) and broke up. Me and him then went back to being tight, like spandex.
We would meet up every day and talk none stop, mainly about how much he missed my best friend. Me once again being the stupid person thinking i had to be a good friend put my feelings aside and listen to him about her and tried to get them back together. That didnt work and he finally got over it.
So for the past six or seven months we have been even closer. We talk non-stop and are always joking with each other. When ever a friend or adult says we should stop flirting and go out, he blushes and rambles on and on. I dont know because he is always wanting to be with me (like hanging out and teams for school), he is always hugging me, making me laugh, ill catch him looking at me and then we both look away.
My question is "Does he like me? Did I miss my chance with him? Is there a chance for "US" or am I making the whole thing up in my head? I am seriously confused and need help to figure out what my next move is. Can anyone please help me?
PS: I dont want answers saying im too young! I know i am to young to be worry about these things but unless I know whether or not something can happen between me and him I am STUCK!Thank you for any advice given.
Hollywood22 answered Wednesday May 11 2011, 11:08 pm: I don't think you're crazy :) The one thing I caution you about getting with him is that it might hurt your best friend. If it's what your heart wants, then go for it, but don't be surprised if your best friend seems a little bit miffed for awhile. What you're describing are the tell-tale signs of a guy who really likes you! If he's what makes you happy, it's probably meant to be. Test the waters by going on a few li'l dates first, and then decide if you guys want to be one-on-one committed :) Good luck, and hope this helped! [ Hollywood22's advice column | Ask Hollywood22 A Question ]
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