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I'm at a crossroad and I have no idea what to do
I've been dating this guy for close to a year and two months. Currently we are broke up because all we do is fight constantly over anything possible. I know in my mind, its 100% best to move on, we both know it, but we both can't. We love each other so much and we can't stand the thought of being with someone else.
He really isn't all that great of a boyfriend because he doesn't treat me the way he should. It literally is all about him, we do what he wants. He never does anything for me either, he doesn't try or anything to make me feel appreciated or nothing. He says if we get back together, he will try and make everything right again.. But I've heard all that before.
Our relationship use to be GREAT. Last summer was probably the best months of my life that I have ever had. He was amazing and our love couldn't have been stronger, but when school started back our relationship took a turn and now at this point in time, its hit rock bottom.
I want to let him go, but its so hard because we were close bestfriends for over a year before we got together. We were each others first partner. We were in love before we even got together. I don't know what happen to us.
If we were to end it, what if I never get happy and I'll be alone? Like what if I was making the wrong decision? I don't know if I could handle seeing him with someone else. I also want to know how soon after a break up, would you date somebody else?
Thanks.
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I think it helps to know everyone fights and shares the same worries. Remember there will always be bad times and good times, so is it worth pushing through? Have you guys tried to make a truce?
In the end, do what makes you happy. If you don't you will always be kicking yourself. Do it when it feels right, and when you do there will be moments that you miss him terribly but with time it will ease.
Take care of yourself! and best of luck!
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If you do end it, you won't be alone for the rest of your life. I know it feels like it, but it just doesn't happen. You have your whole life ahead of you, and this guy isn't the only one out there. You aren't making the wrong decision to walk away from a bad relationship, when a relationship dies, sometimes the feelings from when it was alive still exist, but we just don't know how to put them away too. After a breakup, it's suitable to wait a week to let yourself get over it, any sooner and you will only want to compare the new lover to the old.
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