So my so called best friend has been telling her boyfriend everything that I've been telling her, And I've told her a lot. We've been friends for about two years and they have been in a really bad relationship for over a year now.
Now i found out because her boyfriend yelled at me and messaged me all the things he could use against me. It didn't really matter to me because it just doesn't bother me. Only thing that does bug me is that I thought i could trust her and i clearly couldn't. She has lied about a lot of other things to, I can't even begin to tell you how much she has lied and how busted she is.
Right now I am not speaking to her, when she knows someone is mad at her she ignores them like THEY did something wrong. When I was there for her from the start. So it's just..I don't even know.
VoiceofReason answered Friday May 20 2011, 1:51 am: There is nothing worse than a liar when it comes to friendships. They create a lot of distrust, stress and drama.
Since she also has loose lips and betrayed your confidence you are going to have to press the eject button on her. People around you know she is a liar, too, and she makes you look bad when you are seen with her. So stop associating with her and learn from this experience. [ VoiceofReason's advice column | Ask VoiceofReason A Question ]
lovealways1221 answered Thursday May 19 2011, 10:40 pm: you call her a friend..?
clearly what she did was not okay.. if there's 1 thing I learned from my past mistakes, its that if a friend (especially best friend) tells you some private information, you do not share it with anyone else unless she approves of it.
Just forget about her. Honestly. If the information doesn't bother you, then just leave her ass behind in the dust and move on with your life. Find another friend who will actually respect you. Don't even talk to her and completely shut her out. If she asks why or wants to be friends again, you just call her out on it and say its not okay to do that.
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