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So there's this guy in my school and he's a year older than me. i'm 15 and he's 16. i'ved liked him for 3 years and like a month ago i said "heyy." to him on facebook, but he didn't me ook at say anything back, but he did tell all of his friends, cause they look at me constantly. Then he pointed my out to a couple of friends and said "yeah that's her." why would he do that? and he knows i like him, and he always stares at me everyday. i need help, do you think he likes me, or not? i mean he knows how much i like him, and this isn't just a crush. its something more. so please give me some advice, thanks. :)

hi, soo this he likes but he just doesnt want people to know for some reason.. what i think you do is play it cool like dnt worry so much about it... i know i will be hard but i think if you make like it what ever hes going to notice and he'll make the first move because you stop paying attention.

hope this helps

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My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 3 months. He is 18 and I am 16. We used to be the happiest couple around. We argued like every couple but we didn't do it all the time. I started talking to another guy but all i wanted was a friend, this other guy wanted more and i knew but i never told my boyfriend. Things got bad for a while but we decided to put the past behind us and start fresh. We were at a friends house and i was talking to him about fixing our relationship when he cut me off cause there were boobs on tv. And he is always talking to me like i dont matter anymore. What is really the problem?

hi,
well i think that his scared and he feels like if you talk about then you guys might break up and his afriad of loosing you... so his prentedning that everything is okay... you should bee alone with him when you talk because then he cant escape.

hope this helps.

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So, in the first day of high school I met this guy, and I instantly liked him. We talked throughout the year and by June I really liked him. Unfortunately, he moved to the States that summer. But we've still kept in touch, especially in grade 10. Recently we've webcamed and I realized how much I really like him and how much I miss him. He's all I can think about now and I REALLY like him alot. But am I wasting my time with him? I'm probably not going to ever see him again. Should I tell him that I like him, or would he find that awkward? What should I do? I mean I've liked him for three years now (I'm 17 now), he's the first person I've ever really liked...

What should I do?

hi, i think you tell him life is about taking chances, if you dnt you might regret it what if he feels the same way, and plus his in the states if its wierd you guys dnt have to seee eachother and you move on and so can he. You have like him 4 3 years it time to tell him, it now or never:)

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I feel so alone I'm 15 f and I'm really not the most attractive girl my weight is a little above average and I can't control my zits but I've never had a boyfriend, my first kiss. And most of my friends and new friends have I get awkward when they talk about it I try to go away I cry a lot bc I had a chance with a 16 year old in the summer for my first kiss but I didn't take all the chances I had and we eventually just stopped talking and I've tried talking talking to him but I feel that he doesn't want to fall for me again bc eventually he just stop talking/texting me and he switched schools in half the year bc his grades weren't good enough:/ but he still goes to a local public school

hi, well i think tht u should focuse on yoursefl more than getting a first kiss and boyfriend because once you know yourself everything will fall in place, you'll be confident and you be more sure of yourself, your still young enjoy life with friend and family have fun boys will come when you least expect it :)
ps. dnt be in such a hurry to be kissed let it happen when it happens you be glad you did.

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im a guy in high- school. And before you read this, im letting you know that this is a serious question.
I know you might think im weird, but me and my friends made a bet on the last NBA playoffs game. And i lost, and i bet against 3 of my guy friends. So i lost.
Now, they are making me do something....
Theres like this really hot girl in my class, shes a rich girl, spoiled, cheerleader, hot, big tits and ass, fake tan, you know how it is. Anyways, i dont even know her at all. Ive never even spoken to her, but i stare at her ass all the time.
Anyways, my friend that i lost the bet to is making me slap her in the face randomly in class when nobody is looking. Im being serious. My friend doesnt like her , from some other reason, and he wants me to slap her. Not punch her in the face or kick her or anything, but just smack her like upside the head. Or he offered for me to grab her ass when nobody is looking. Hes making me do either one since i lost the best.
The thing is, even though it sounds messed up for a friend to make me do that, i kinda WANT to do it haha.
What should i do?

ok has much as your friend may not like this girl, you shouldn't do what he wants do but is scared to do im not saying thta is worng becuz its very WRONG !!!!!!! tht can get you in alot of trouble.... so ya im not making the decision for but i just telling you tht u have two paths right and wrong

ps.. no girl should be treated like not matter how spoiled she is

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i'm a senior in high school and i have about 5 weeks left of high school.. if you don't know about senior slide, its basically when seniors slack off in school because by now they should already be committed to going to a college and there's no point in really getting good grades if you're already going to college.

Well i'm an average teenage girl and I work hard in school. My freshman and sophomore year I was on A honor roll. Junior year was B honor roll. This senior year I was on B honor roll up until now. I'm starting to slack off and I'm getting B's and C's in school but I usually got A's and B's. I know this is bad :( my parents got really mad at me for it and I know I need to get back on track and focus until school is officially over. But I can't help it! I can't wait to end high school! The weather is finally turning nice outside and it seems like school isn't my first priority anymore. I have a boyfriend and i'm involved with sports. Whenever I tell myself to focus on school and study, I always forget and just put off studying for later and think going outside to hang out is better. I know its bad for me but I just can't help it! I'd much rather go shopping over the weekend than work on a project. I guess I just need some motivation and a jump start.

Does anyone have any advice on how i can pull myself together for the next few weeks, stop procrastinating and stop senior slide?? please help!!

hi,
well i think tht u should think of it this way what ever you don know will reflect on what you do in college so if dnt change you habits not u will regret it in college.

ps. wy dnt you try this everytime you get something done reward urself with, so lets say you finish what was to b done tht week then you can go shopping on the weekend,

hope i have been able to help you :)

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