So, in the first day of high school I met this guy, and I instantly liked him. We talked throughout the year and by June I really liked him. Unfortunately, he moved to the States that summer. But we've still kept in touch, especially in grade 10. Recently we've webcamed and I realized how much I really like him and how much I miss him. He's all I can think about now and I REALLY like him alot. But am I wasting my time with him? I'm probably not going to ever see him again. Should I tell him that I like him, or would he find that awkward? What should I do? I mean I've liked him for three years now (I'm 17 now), he's the first person I've ever really liked...
gr8fruit answered Sunday May 29 2011, 2:16 am: Hi,
You should tell him you like him the next time you talk to him. It will not be awkward as long as you are talking casually and have hinted that you like him. After you do that, make sure he feels the same way, find out if you two will be in contact again (in person or cell) and then see if you can make a relationship work. Long distance relationships can work, they just take a lot of hard work and dedication. If you are both willing to put that in, you have yourself a successful relationship :)
Start by talking to him and see how he feels though. If he likes you as much as you like him, great; start something. If not, you can always be good friends and visit eachother whenever he can come back to where you live or visa versa. Write eachother letters! Letters can be handwritten AND cute cuz you can keep them forever; double bonus!
Instead of thinking about this all the time, take some action! It is better to try and know the truth than to wonder and never know <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
Sexysweetie answered Saturday May 28 2011, 10:48 pm: I'd say tell him and maybe talk ur parents into letting you go on vacation wherever he lives if he feels the same. Even if make him promise before hand that whatever you tell him he'll still be your great friend. That's how I would go about it. But if he has been talking to you this long and he ignores you you could dooo waaayyyy better. [ Sexysweetie's advice column | Ask Sexysweetie A Question ]
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