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I want a boyfriend


Question Posted Monday May 30 2011, 10:43 am

I feel so alone I'm 15 f and I'm really not the most attractive girl my weight is a little above average and I can't control my zits but I've never had a boyfriend, my first kiss. And most of my friends and new friends have I get awkward when they talk about it I try to go away I cry a lot bc I had a chance with a 16 year old in the summer for my first kiss but I didn't take all the chances I had and we eventually just stopped talking and I've tried talking talking to him but I feel that he doesn't want to fall for me again bc eventually he just stop talking/texting me and he switched schools in half the year bc his grades weren't good enough:/ but he still goes to a local public school

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crazytoad30 answered Monday June 13 2011, 7:08 pm:
don't aim too high. just find a guy that likes to talk to you and you will eventually date:) after you to break up you will find its easier to get guys because you are known as dateable.

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AngelKMC65 answered Tuesday June 7 2011, 8:19 pm:
Don't get discouraged! My first boyfriend was when I was 15 almost 16 years old. We lasted about 6 months. We barely saw each other and I kissed him only once!

It doesn't really matter but take my story for instance, it was awkward because we were both VERY young. In a couple years you won't even worry about having a boyfriend. Heck, your friends will be complaining and crying over broken hearts and you're just having fun being single.

You are still very young and being single young is a lot of fun! I absolutely love it! I have noticed guys get attracted when they see you having fun rather than trying to impress them.

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lovelysmile answered Monday May 30 2011, 10:22 pm:
hi, well i think tht u should focuse on yoursefl more than getting a first kiss and boyfriend because once you know yourself everything will fall in place, you'll be confident and you be more sure of yourself, your still young enjoy life with friend and family have fun boys will come when you least expect it :)
ps. dnt be in such a hurry to be kissed let it happen when it happens you be glad you did.

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innocent_angel answered Monday May 30 2011, 5:30 pm:
Hey, don't be upset about the fact you havn't had a boyfriend or first kiss, I was looking forward to being 19 before a guy even showed interest in me and I'm still with him! To be honest, I don't think how you look has anything to do with it, at 15 its how easy you'll "put out" eventually, you'll meet a guy who will fall in love with you and want to give you the world and your first kiss with him shall be magical, though it most likely won't last as "first loves" rarely work out.

Be patient, regardless of how much knowledge your friends have, you know your waiting for the right time, and I Guarantee at my age that's a great quality, no guy wants some broken goods after all. just wait and while your friends are discussing their love life, join in, make jokes, but don't get upset! trust me, I spent my entire school life being called a lesbian for lack of a boyfriend and the butt of all jokes, now nobody dares say a word against me ha. Moral of the story: everything will work out if you give it the time to :)

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popruler1718 answered Monday May 30 2011, 4:26 pm:
Hey, don't feel bad, I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 18 and he was my first kiss also. It just takes time, and you are more than likely going to have more than one boyfriend. Just trust me and don't rush it, if you do you might end up getting hurt like I did, we were together for over a year and he just broke my heart. So just enjoy your life right now and don't just worry about boys, focus on school and being happy. And soon enough a guy will notice you and will want to date you, it just takes time and patience! Good luck and I hope I helped a little.

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Rumely answered Monday May 30 2011, 3:07 pm:
You're 15, you have a lot of life ahead of you. So you passed up a chance for your first kiss last summer; don't worry, you'll get another chance. If one boy fell for you, sooner or later another one will. What I'm saying is, there is no rush. The reality is that you will probably meet many guys in the next 5-10 years, any guy you meet at this age is unlikely to be the one you end up with in adulthood, so there is no need to rush to have your first kiss with the first guy who comes along and puckers up. In the meantime, it's perfectly okay to be single. Work on making good choices, doing well in school, learning to be okay with who you are. Your time will come.

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