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I feel so alone I'm 15 f and I'm really not the most attractive girl my weight is a little above average and I can't control my zits but I've never had a boyfriend, my first kiss. And most of my friends and new friends have I get awkward when they talk about it I try to go away I cry a lot bc I had a chance with a 16 year old in the summer for my first kiss but I didn't take all the chances I had and we eventually just stopped talking and I've tried talking talking to him but I feel that he doesn't want to fall for me again bc eventually he just stop talking/texting me and he switched schools in half the year bc his grades weren't good enough:/ but he still goes to a local public school (link)
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Hey, don't feel bad, I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 18 and he was my first kiss also. It just takes time, and you are more than likely going to have more than one boyfriend. Just trust me and don't rush it, if you do you might end up getting hurt like I did, we were together for over a year and he just broke my heart. So just enjoy your life right now and don't just worry about boys, focus on school and being happy. And soon enough a guy will notice you and will want to date you, it just takes time and patience! Good luck and I hope I helped a little.
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I've done a lot of things sexual, but I've never really had real intercourse. When I was young, I had a quick fix with an ex, but I'm not even sure if he went that deep. I'm a little scared if I have sex I will bleed or something if the guy goes deep.
But one of my other fears is prevention. I've never had sex with a condom, and I am a very worrisome person. I've been reading tips online, but my nerves won't calm. I'm scared that even if I used a condom, something bad will happen. I cannot afford birth control and my parents would surely go ballistic. I know how to be responsible, and I feel ready now.
Any advice? (link)
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First off, more than likely you will bleed the first time you have intercourse, the first time i had sex with my boyfriend, i bled for like a day or 2, kinda like your period without the cramps and its a lot shorter, and my friend bled her first time too. If you feel ready to have sex then go for it, just try to make sure that you are ready and the guy is not pushing you to have sex with him. Usually condoms work really well, and the only time one broke on us was when he used lube on it that wasnt meant for condoms, so beware of that, but other than that you should be fine as long as you get some good condoms and not really the cheapest ones that you see. And im not on birth control and ive been having sex with my boyfriend for about a year now and we've always used condoms, so they've worked for us. well, good luck and i hope this helped you!!
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I'm 19 years old male, and I have never even dated anyone. I'm too scared to ask a girl out, or even talk to them. Any advice? (link)
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You can always do what I did to get my boyfriend. Find a girl that you really like and that you would like to start dating, and if your too nervous around women, like my boyfriend was, then have one of your friends talk to your crush, and find out if they like you and if they do tell your friend to tell them that you like her too, and then it shouldn't be too weird to talk to her knowing that she already likes you, then when you get to know her more, ask her out on a date. My friend did this for me for a guy that I liked at my job, and it turned out he liked me too, and we've been together for a year and two months, and we are very happy together. so good luck and i hoped this helped you!
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My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive? (link)
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hey, know exactly how you feel. so many bad things have gone bad in my life and i'm 18. people at school make fun of me too because i have a lisp and i've been told by so many people that i'm pretty and beautiful and i just wonder if they are telling the truth because i just feel like no guys like me, but just don't think that you should die because your life is so bad. just pray to God, don't hate being alive because your life is precious. if people make fun of you, just don't listen to them because ther are all dumb, i've learned from this and people might make fun of you because they are jealous but don't worry i think that everything will turn out just fine.
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im a freshman at my highschool and im new, i didnt move or anything ive always lived here, i just used to go to a different school. in the begining of school i thought i would make tons of friends since im a nice person you know. and i started off not talking in any of my classes. I hate to say this, but its still that way. and its half way through the year already. today at school someone told me people think im weird because i hardly talk in class..but the truth is im just a very quiet, shy person if u dont take the time to know me personally. once Im comfortbale, i never stop talking actually. And i hate how quiet i am in classes..i hate how people think im weird because of it..im sorry that im shy but thats just me, until you get to know me. it really upsets me to know that..i cried for the rest of the day after someone told me people think that about me..i dont want that reputation. I just wish others would take the time and get to know me. I wish people could see what a fun person I can be. Im also very upset about this because now im starting to get the idea people dont want to talk to me because they think im weird because im quiet. and it just pisses me off because its like you know what. if you think im quiet then why dont you just talk to me and find out if i actually AM quiet. because you know what, im not. im a very loud hyper person. and it really makes me mad at the same time. I hate this school. I want to go to a different one. And yeah i have friends, but not in my classes. and i dont have as many as id like. please help me, how can i become more talkative? i never EVER know how to start a good conversation. and its like how do i do that when no one wants to actually talk to me. I feel like im becoming depressed about this because its been happening for a while and I hope I become a little happier soon. Im really not liking my life right now.
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Hey, i am the same exact way and im a junior in high school. no ones ever tole me that im wierd for being quiet. i dont have that many friends because im shy but if u want more friends then u have to try to talk to more people in your classes. for me to make friends people just start to talk to me and then i talk back. just try to talk to some people that sit like right next to you. okay? hope i helped
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I've known him since 7th grade and he used to CRACK me up! So anyways we instant message each other everyday and as soon as he signs on he messages me! Awhile ago I liked him a little bit but I wouldn't tell him because I knew it was just a temporary crush. Well he speaks spanish fluently and I just take it at school. It came up so I told him I was "raw" at spanish (hahaha) and he said ok lets try. So he starts out "why are you so retarded?" (we act REALLY silly together) then "what's my name?" then "why are we just friends?" then he says "do you have a boyfriend?" I said no. Then "why not, you're pretty." Then I said I didn't know, most boys are stupid. (Hahaha no offense!) then he said "I don't have a girl either. I'm lonely, tho." Then he said bak to english!! Does it sound like he likes me? That was pretty random! And then he always wants me to pick him up and go eat! I don't kno.... (link)
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Yes, it sounds like he really likes you or else he wouldnt have brought that up. You should totally ask him out!
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ok, this is embarasing but here goes... A while ago i got caught by my neighbor peeking in her window when she had some friends over for a sleepover. i was on her back porch peeking in her window when 1 of her friends came out and said what are you doing??? i was like.. o my god... i was so embarased. so she told the other girls wat i was doing and they all talked and then 1 of them came to me and said they wouldnt tell on me if i did wat they said. she said that to be fair they should get to see me naked and that I should strip naked for them. otherwize they would tell my mom that i was a pervert and a peeping tom. anyway, i did it. i took off all my clothes and let them all see me. they looked and giggled and stuff for a long time and then they let me go home. The thing is that since then a couple of them have made be do it again for girls that werent even at the sleepover. they say i desrve it for peeking at them that night. Do you think I deserve it? Should I keep doing it for them? Please give me your advice!
Thanks,
Paul (link)
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No, I dont think that you should keep doing it. Even if you were peeking at them, you should just get a punishment from your parents and just dont do it again.You should be punished but only by your parents because i think that it is messed up that they keep making you do it especially if you feel uncomfortable.Hope i helped
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