ok, this is embarasing but here goes... A while ago i got caught by my neighbor peeking in her window when she had some friends over for a sleepover. i was on her back porch peeking in her window when 1 of her friends came out and said what are you doing??? i was like.. o my god... i was so embarased. so she told the other girls wat i was doing and they all talked and then 1 of them came to me and said they wouldnt tell on me if i did wat they said. she said that to be fair they should get to see me naked and that I should strip naked for them. otherwize they would tell my mom that i was a pervert and a peeping tom. anyway, i did it. i took off all my clothes and let them all see me. they looked and giggled and stuff for a long time and then they let me go home. The thing is that since then a couple of them have made be do it again for girls that werent even at the sleepover. they say i desrve it for peeking at them that night. Do you think I deserve it? Should I keep doing it for them? Please give me your advice!
Additional info, added Tuesday January 22 2008, 12:39 pm: I just wanted to say thanks to everyone who gave me advice. You are all very nice. A few weeks have gone by and now there are like 6 girls who sometimes get me to strip. and 1 of them sometimes likes to tickle me after i takeoff my clothes. i guess i do deserve it. thanks anagin. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? WittyUsernameHere answered Monday January 7 2008, 4:08 am: Wow.
Thats hilarious.
I'm sorry, but it is. Too many friends and too many similar situations. Little girls are evil.
You probably shouldnt. You need to learn something about counter arguing. Tell them no. If they threaten you you can return that all you have to do is tell people that they blackmailed you into getting naked more than once because of it. I doubt they'll tell. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday January 7 2008, 1:32 am: oh my! haha no of course you dont desserve that. i wouldnt do this once more. next time, tell them they can tell your mom. and when she asks, just assure her you just wanted to see what they were doing, its not like they were naked. and if they tell your mom you exposed yourself to them so they wouldn tell, deny it! [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
thelaura answered Sunday January 6 2008, 8:30 pm: LOL, Are you mad?! Never let anyone treat you like that. Surely if they want to see you naked more, they're the "perverted" ones.
Say no. and if they say they'll blackmail you, let them. Deny all knowledge of peeping through their window and let it be a lesson to never do it again. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
EternallyMused answered Sunday January 6 2008, 8:10 pm: First off, NO! You should not keep doing it for them. They are treating you like a piece of meat and if you keep agreeing, its probably never going to stop. And if they threaten to tell on you, you have some blackmail on them too. Forcing you to strip, I think there are some people in there lives that they wouldn't want to hear that. I hope that helps, but to avoid any problems like this in the future,
don't peek in on girls having a sleepover. That is really, really creepy. [ EternallyMused's advice column | Ask EternallyMused A Question ]
clouded_bluee answered Sunday January 6 2008, 8:10 pm: No, you don't deserve this. You were peeking at them when, I'm just guessing, were clothed.
So, technically they're the perverted ones.
You could either stop doing that, or ask for something inreturn. But, I'd recommend stopping it, it does seem alittle strange, no offense. Because most people aren't like that..
popruler1718 answered Sunday January 6 2008, 7:42 pm: No, I dont think that you should keep doing it. Even if you were peeking at them, you should just get a punishment from your parents and just dont do it again.You should be punished but only by your parents because i think that it is messed up that they keep making you do it especially if you feel uncomfortable.Hope i helped [ popruler1718's advice column | Ask popruler1718 A Question ]
missbananafontana answered Sunday January 6 2008, 7:40 pm: I don't even want to know what you were doing. I would come up with a brilliant answer, and not do it any more. These girls are so perverted. What they did was wrong. How old are you anyway? What they did was really weird. Just let them tattle on you. That is so much better than being a male stripper. Good luck!
carayotie answered Sunday January 6 2008, 7:39 pm: Anything you feel uncomfortable doing you shouldn't do.
Just take the punishment from your parents and move on from it, because you do deserve punishment but not what these girls are making you go through.
If anything, those girls should be ASHAMED of what they are making you do and the outcome could be a lot more worse if you continue with their requests. It'd be easier to just fess up to your parents. [ carayotie's advice column | Ask carayotie A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Sunday January 6 2008, 7:38 pm: You got one look, so they should only get one look.
Now you know why it is rotten to go around peeping in the windows of girls.
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