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so i babysit this six year old 3 times a week.
he lies to me all the time about what he can and can't do.
one day he told me something he could do and his mother got mad at me.
i can tell she really doesn't like me now, but she has no one else to babysit for her.
her and her husband both smoke a lot.
when i come home from her house i REEK of ciggarette smoke.
it's disgusting.
i have to scrub myself in the shower to make the smell go away.
but it's still stuck in my jacket, so i smell it everyday.
one day i had my boyfriend pick me up and he was gagging on the smell.
the mother and her husband are both getting new jobs and i'm also afraid i'm going to have later hours, which just can't happen.
it's already effecting my grades because i'm always so tired after.
i just don't know what to do.
i'm one of those people that feel guilty about everything too.
i need a lot of help, please.
quit quit quit
I don't know if it's that i'm PMSing, or what, but my nic fits last for hours. I just keep crying and shaking... and my thoughts all day long go back and forth from "i just want a bleeping cigarette" to " i hate my bleeping boyfriend for making me quit when i really don't want to".
please tell me if quiting while PMSing is a horrible horrible idea, cause right now, it feels like it.
also, any advice on quiting smoking without gaining a ton of weight would be super appriciated.
thank you in advance for any advice you can give me.
Why quit? You only have one life to live so live it : )
well i live in toronto, canada and was wondering if anyone could help...
near the beginning of 2007 there was this commercial that aired on tv (i have rogers cables and i think it was eith omni or ctv if that helps) any way this guy rides a smal brown and white pony and passes a police guy then gets into an air balloon with a guy that looks like he popped out of the marry antoinette movie then he wakes up and realizes it was all a dream... the commercial was about mcdonalds breakfast but i am not sure if it was mcgriddle or mcmuffin (probably the latter)
if any one knows where i can find that video commercial ... or better yet and more importantly what was that song that played in the background i'd b grateful!
Thanks!
you tube, they got everything. but google it first
16/m
ive been hookin up with my bestfriend and im starting to become really into her.so i need some songs (guys singing!) about being into her or starting to like her. and how i cant tell her.. so far the only song i have is why dont you and i by santana.. thanks! please gimme some
true, the song idea is cute. but don't do it. Tell her... "I wanted to find the right song but no words could describe what I'm trying to say..." and continue on how you feel. do this in person, like laying next to her in bed.
How can i get over a boy the i crazy about?
Time heals everything, hun.
Okay so what are some tips on making out?
Like if you know someone is going to try and make out with you but you don't know how? What are some tips. What do you do with your lips/tounge?
Well, for myself, I like to give a good passionate kiss first. Just put your hands on his neck or face and kiss him hard. then open your mouth a little and he'll know what to do next.
as for tongue movement, get creative. spell your name, search places around his mouth, even suck on his tongue. that drives the boys nuts!
Ok guys i just need some tips on how to choose between people. There are a few lads who i like and i really dont know who to choose. They are all great
and its just really hard :\ I would appreciate a few ways on how to choose one lol. Thank Youu x x
Who's smarter, funnier, more fun, and, more attractive.
How do you tell someone who is totally in love with you that you want to go on a break from them ? :| I mean i do like my bf .. but i just need abit of time on my own. I dont want to finish with him forever i dont think, but i just want to go on a break from him. How do i tell him ? :\ Thank Yuu x x
You can go ahead and do that but there are absolutely no guarantees if HE will want YOU back. Trust me, guys hate it when you go on breaks with them and then you expect them to just come running back. think about the chances your willing to take.
If you want to do this, don't make it so formal. Just have it be like any other time you hangout with him. Start talking and tell him how you feel.
--TheCuriousAries
I have a lot of guy friends...but they are all FRIENDS.
I want them to notice me more as someone they could go out with...rather than a good friend.
I'm not tomboyish or anything...I'm not a bimbo..not a whore..slut.. or anything like that.
I'm just normal..I look like a girl...act like one that's it.
So any tips would be much appreciated.
15/F
Not telling you to be a whore, but... dress provocatively and they will be reminded your not JUST a friend... ;]
--TheCuriousAries
i love this guy, we talked and he was talking to me like a guy would talk to a girl he might like and he told me i was cute and everything then one of my best friends came into the picture and ever since then hes been talking to her the same way and talking to me more just like a regular person and im really upset, how should i handle this? 14/f
Forget about him. First of all your friend is a whore. second of all he's a jerk. forget about both of them and move on to bigger and better friends/guys. --TheCuriousAries
my bf nd i just recently started going out like a couple weeks but we have been best friends for a yr and liked each other for a long time. we have already kissed a couple times a couple times before dating and after. but i really want to kiss him a lot but i dont know if i should. i have made out with other guys but i dont want to be too fast. i doubt he would care but i just dont want to rush everything but the wanting to is def. there. what should i do??? please help and thanx so much! :]
Just go for it. Im sure he wants to do more than kiss but he's afraid YOU are afraid of rushing. Just go with the flow, and enjoy the ride!
Okay so I'm 15 and a girl and I've never had a boyfriend. I mean I don't think I'm very pretty but I'm not hideously ugly or anything. Guys like me and I've gotten asked out every now and then but it's never the guy I want or could potentially like. I guess it's cause I always fall for guys who are out of my league or whatever but how can I get more attention from guys? Especially guys I like?
I think it's great you've never had a boyfriend. If I were you, i would have been like that too. trust me, please it is so much better to WAIT for the right guy than to just date, to date.
I think you shouldn't have to do anything to get a guys attention, because if they like you enough you don't have to impress them.
--TheCuriousAries
I'm in love with my stepsister. She's fun to be around and jokes around alot and she's beautiful to me. I'm terrified of rejection so what should i do?
Are you a guy? Well either gender, theres a fifty percent chance of you getting rejected and ruining your friendship with her forever. if you are willing to take that risk then tell her, but if not, do not.
16/f
This 15 year old guy asked me out (5 month difference in age) But I don't like him so much. I used to..when he was better looking and not so much of a jerk..as he is now. He assumed that I said yes. I didn't say yes. (He thinks I like him so much)
Well, I want to tell him no..Like in school. Or even online. But I don't know how to. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I don't want this one to be my first.
(Also because he told me we were going to engage in sexual acts. He told me that we would progress as a couple...I don't want that. It's disgusting)
How do I turn him down? =\
This guy sounds like a freak. Tell him straight up your not feeling it anymore and you want to be friends. online is easy, and in person can be hard but if you get out all your coldheartedness it's easy. good luck!
ok I have a best friend who really likes this guy. She talks about him all the time. I think he likes her too because he flirts a lot with her. But he is kind of shy and I don't think he would ask her out. I really think she shuold ask him out but she says no and she doesn't think he will say yes. But I said give it a try because she is like obsessed with him. What should she do?
She should be straight up with him and tell him she is ready to date him, or wants to. if he really likes her he will agree, and dating will be a mutual decision.
ok I use to wear preppy clothes and a lot of pink last year and now that i am in highschool i like black t-shirts and skiny jeans. Like half of my clothes are preppy and half are punk rockerish. I wear more eyeliner and I am starting to like punk rocker guys. But I still act a little preppy and i still love pink. What is my style or am i just a mix of styles?
you are who you are, regardless of labels.
ok, this is embarasing but here goes... A while ago i got caught by my neighbor peeking in her window when she had some friends over for a sleepover. i was on her back porch peeking in her window when 1 of her friends came out and said what are you doing??? i was like.. o my god... i was so embarased. so she told the other girls wat i was doing and they all talked and then 1 of them came to me and said they wouldnt tell on me if i did wat they said. she said that to be fair they should get to see me naked and that I should strip naked for them. otherwize they would tell my mom that i was a pervert and a peeping tom. anyway, i did it. i took off all my clothes and let them all see me. they looked and giggled and stuff for a long time and then they let me go home. The thing is that since then a couple of them have made be do it again for girls that werent even at the sleepover. they say i desrve it for peeking at them that night. Do you think I deserve it? Should I keep doing it for them? Please give me your advice!
Thanks,
Paul
Sike! That's perverted, more than what you did! Tell them to get a boyfriend.