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my friend is obsessed
ok I have a best friend who really likes this guy. She talks about him all the time. I think he likes her too because he flirts a lot with her. But he is kind of shy and I don't think he would ask her out. I really think she shuold ask him out but she says no and she doesn't think he will say yes. But I said give it a try because she is like obsessed with him. What should she do?
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Well I had the same problem, I liked this guy who was i the same grade as me and we would flirt so what I did was I waited until we were alone then I got up the courage and asked him out and we have been going out for about 6 months now
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There's a number of things you, him, and her could do..
A: You could ask him if he likes your friend, if he does hint to him that she's likes him and to ask her out.
B: Again, find out if he likes her, if he does tell your friend you know he does for a fact, and tell her to go for it because most likey he will not say no.
C: They could both get up the courage to talk about it.
D: He might not like her, or not want a girlfriend. So, comfort your bestfriend and help her move on.
Hope I Helped & Good Luck !
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She should be straight up with him and tell him she is ready to date him, or wants to. if he really likes her he will agree, and dating will be a mutual decision.
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here's where you can go behind people's backs:
ask your friend what she would say if he asked her out. if it's yes, then at some point tell the guy that he had better ask her out because you have a "sneaking suspicion" she will say yes. your friend will be happy and you will have the satisfaction of hooking people up.
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I would never say interfer in someone else's affairs, but at this point, maybe you could be the moderator in their hooking up. If you think he would be open with you, and she wouldn't get to upset, go up to him and ask him if he likes her. See if you can draw him out of his shell and start making some kind of move on her. Just a thought.
Also, if you don't want to do this, you could always just tell her "no guts, no glory" and see if she will take it from there.
Good Luck!!
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