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well, i just broke up with my boyfriend, but while we were dating, we'd obv. make out. now the way i'm used to making out is opening my mouth, sliding my tongue in, and (this is pretty awkward, haha), and then closing it and repeating it. but he'd get soo into it, that he'd just keep his mouth open and just wiggled his tongue back and forth? is that right? because i've never done it like that before, and i didn't find it very interesting or fun. i wouldn't want to make out with him because of that either, and i don't know if i'm doing it wrong, or if he is. i do know that people have different ways of doign it, i'm just confused on the matter. would be be considered bad at making out, or what?

thanks!

Well, yes there are different techniques* for making out, but he IS making out the right way. You aren't supposed to open your mouth, stick your tongue in, then close & repeat ..

If you need tips google 'french kissing' or 'making out'

Also, you could go to www.sextutor.com & click on kissing for tips.

Hope I helped !

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my boyfriend used to finger me for how many times, ang im wondering if im still virgin? am i?

Yes, you're still a virgin. He could have broken your hymen, but is unlikely. You're still a virgin unless you have SEX.

Hope I helped !

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This questions for the girls and guys, mainly guys though.

Well, i was having sex with this guy and its not the first time ive been with him, but we didnt have a condom. He said he didnt mind and he would just go in me, and i am not on any birth control or anything and he knows that. He said it was up to me, and he said he really wants to. Other times when we've had sex, he would always hint it, or say something like, "I just want to go in you so bad" or something along those lines.

What does this mean exactly? Is there something he is trying to tell me? Were any of you in this situation before? Or guys, did you do something like this? Why did you?


Thanks everyone :]

Short & Sweet:

If he cums inside of you, without a condom, you will MOST LIKELY end up pregnant. So, if you want to have a baby then let him cum in you, I'm not sure if he is hinting at anything, unless you're old enough to have a child, he might be hinting that he wants to have one with you.

Hope I Helped & Be Safe !

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What do you think is the oldest a 16 year old could/should date?

No details, other than it would be legal. I just want to gain opinions on this.

Personally, I think a 16 year old dating up to age 19 is okay.

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Heyy. what is this song? thanks! :)

Oh sh!t shake that a$$ now move it like a jypsi stop no back it up and let me see yo hips swing?

thanks again

yaaa swing by savage, olddd but goood :)

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Well okay i have always wnated to know this like do guys like it more when you shave down there or not i am really confused please help D:

Well, whatever you feel more comfortable at is best for you.

But, most guys like it completely shaven or waxed, others like the "landing strip" - little piece of hair.


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i seriously have no but. how do i make it biggger?????

You can not get 'butt injections', but you can get butt implants.

But a safer way to get a better butt is by doing lunges, you can do them at home easily, doing steppers- either using the stairs or the plastics platforms that are normally used, also running or walking on an incline (ex. hills & such). Join a gym, alot of those machines tell you what they help, & eat healthy, always !


Hope I helped !

& if you need clarifying on anything or help with how to do any of those workouts just ask ! :)

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18/f
so i'm not really clear on the definition of
"getting felt up" im sure there is no exact definition but what is the concept? because guys have like grabbed my butt, and like rubbed it? rubbed my stomach and my boobs and stuff like that. is that considered being felt up?

Generally getting rubbed on your boobs, others may also use it for their feminine area or butt but not usually. Either meaning wanted or unwanted.


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firstly i'm 17 and im a guy.
Well, I went out with a girl about a year ago (october 2007). She was the perfect girl for me i swear. After 25 days she decided to end the relationship with me. I couldn't take it at all. Then a few months went on and she started going out with another guy, damn I was heartbroken, I couldn't get over her no matter what. Then after a while I THOUGHT I got over her, and then she became my really close friend, and all the feelings came back. One day I just couldn't keep it in and I told her how I felt, she never felt the same way. It felt good to let it out, but now, I'm still thinking I'm in love with her. Again, she's going out with someone now. She's still my close friend, but everytime I talk to her I feel the pain, but I don't want to lose my friendship with her by making things even more awkward. Please help soon!.
Thanks a lot!

Well, I can't talk from experience but I'll try to give you my best answer.

Don't not be friends with her because you love her, as everyone always says its better to have her as a fried than nothing at all. Unless it gets too unbarably hard, then I wouldn't be friends with her because that's just putting yourself through more pain, and sometimes the only way to truely get over someone is to end it with them on your own terms when you're ready, wether it be friendship or a relationship.

She already knows how you feel so there's nothing else you can really do, Right?

I hope this helped, if I didn't answer your question correctly, then just tell me & I'd be happy to EDIT :)

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i dont go to church, and basically every one i know does, or is heavily religious. what do i say to people if they ask me where i go to church, or did i go to church today?

thanks for your help!

Just answer with the truth, it's your choice to not go to church, and that is all that matters.

Hope I helped!

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i watched about 20 minutes of a movie the other day but i forgot to remember the name of it
the main character's name is scotty who has a german pen pal which he thinks is a guy but is actually a girl and she wanted to arrange a meeting with him but he then thought she was a rapist and she blocked hiim so he went to berlin with his friend cooper harris to find her
thanks for any help

Eurotrip, I'm definite.
Funnnny movie!

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If you have put in a tampon before then when you have sex there shouldnt be anything to pop right? So it shouldnt hurt either ?

No, that is not the case.

Having worn a tampon or not, chances are it is still going to hurt, and your hymen will pop. Although, some girls aren't born with hymens and others have broken them from riding a bike, or a tampon. But is usually unlikely.

Your vagina, wear the penis is inserted is a tight space, especially for a penis the first time.

For me sex hurt the first couple of times, and my hymen did break the first time, but that is completely normal.


Remember, always be safe and wear a condom, & do it when YOU are ready! Hope I helped!

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Im 120 pounds
and i walk like 3 miles. and lose 300 calories and my speed is 6.0 or----> 6.5

so yeah. to be more specific isnt that good .
?

Yes, that's good. But to be completely honest, you should always watch what you eat & do alittle weight training. To gain muscles in your back, chest, and arms. Also, 3 miles and at a speed of 6.0 on a treadmill would be running and you would DEFINATLY loose more than 300 calories. Which is good, even just doing 1.5 miles and loosing 300 calories is good. But what you're doing is excellent, and to do it everyday too !

Hope that makes sense ? Good Luck !

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Treadmille 50-60-70 minutes everyday
Speed: 6.0-6.1
[Speed walk]
Burn 300 or 200 and something calories.
Is that good enough?.

You're going to bur more calories if you walk at a speed of 6 mph for 50 minutes or more. I'd estimate around 600 or more.

Also it depends how much you weigh, for instance I weigh 116 and i walk on the teadmill for about 40 minutes at a speed of 3 mph and incline of 10 and loose 250 calories.

Make sure you put the incline up, my trainer always says its better to go at a lower speed and have an incline than to run without an incline.

If you do that on the treadmill everyday and do some weight training, 3 sets of 20. You should expect to see results, oh and eat healthy !

Hope I helped, anymore questions, just ask ! =)

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I am a male teacher in a mixed school.
I just finished my first year of teaching. I really like my school, the students are respectful, and so are the staff, but I'm having some problems.

Since I am the youngest teacher in the school, a lot of the girls I teach flirt with me.
They would do anything to get my attention.
Ok, I do feel flattered, but there's one girl in particular that is over the line.
I teach her four times a week, and she's 15. She sits in the front row, she is constantly flirting with me, she wears very low cut tops, and she always comes to find me because she has ''problems'' with her homework.
This is starting to worry me, I have a girlfriend, and I've told her about this, but it doesn't bother her.
What can I say to this girl. Whenever she talks to me, she tries to make physical contact, and I don't want to be fired from my job because of this.
Please give me some advice. I know school is over for the summer, but I found out the other day that I will teach her again next school year, and I don't want these things to haunt me.

Thank you in advance.

Like the columnist below me said, there is always going to be one girl like this. She's a teenage girl, and its in our nature to be flirty. haha

I personally don't think it is any of her business wether or not you have a girlfriend. Let it be known that nothing can ever happen, because one that's against the law, because i'm guessing you are over 18. Also, you can get fired and its unethical.

You can be alone with her, because lets face it, she has to learn and if she has questions you're supposed to be there to answer them, after all you are her teacher. Just don't let her ask you questions about your personal life, because it's none of her business and she's supposed to be there for other reasons, to learn about whatever you teach, not about you. Right ?

Don't let her know she 'scares' you or gets you nervous, she probably loves that. Who wouldn't ? Then she probably thinks she's getting to you, and you may be into her.

Honestly, don't ignore her, but don't give her any special attention. Which I'm sure you don't.

If she starts to show too much skin, then yes send her to the office. They will most likely make her change or wear a gym uniform. But the matter will be solved if she's 'slutty' enough.

Just don't worry, and treat her like everyother student. Sooner or later she will get the point that you don't want her.

Hope I helped & Good Luck !

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shuld i wear tanning bed goggles in the the tanning bed? does it protect your eyes better than just closing them? i've been going to the tanning bed w/o googles, and i'm worried it might hurt my eyes or cause blindness..

You should wear them, because I really don't think you want to be blind one day.. not saying you automatically will just because you don't wear them, but just to be on the safe side, please do.


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I'm confused on what to do with it. I sent announcements to about 30 people. Must I use it toward school, or can I use it for whatever I want? I'm assuming I can use it for whatever I want, but I sort of feel bad using people's money for my personal shopping and whatnot, haha. Also, does anyone know about how much money I'll get for that amount of invitations? I'm the oldest in my family, so I have no idea what to expect!

Yes, you can use it for whatever you'd like too. School, clothes, electronics, anything..

I'd say you'd have about $400 or more money from your party, so spend it as you please, have fun!


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i head that you can get your drivers permit 6 months before your 16th birthday, and then get your liscense on your birthday.i was wondering if this was true because i always thought that you needed to be 16 to get your permit. can anyone help me out? i live in easton, pennsylvania. thankssss!

I live in IL, and here you can start drivers ed classes when you're 15, so you get your permit when you're 15. They changed the law, where I live atlease ? to.. As of January 1st, 2008 you have to have your permit for 9 months, and have like 50 hours because you can get your drivers liscense ( that's if you get your permit after that date.) It used to be you had to have it for like 3 months with 20 hours, I think. Not sure if its the same where you live, try googling it.


Hope I Helped & sorry if this didn't make sense, I will clarify if need be.

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how big is the average penis for an 18 year old?

The average size for an erect penis is about 5.2-5.5 inches.


Hope I Helped !

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Can baby oil help me get a tan if I lay out in the sun.?See Im really white.!Ive tried everythingg.!I get in the tanning bed every day for an hour and im still white as everr.!Ive started laying out in the sun every day and I havent seen so much as a sun burnn.Ive used every kind of tanning lotion and oil there is 2 usee.!I need helpp.?and a friend told me 2 use baby oil and that would get me darkk.!DOES IT REALLY WORKK.?

If you want to use oil, use Banana Boat, they sell it in a brown spray bottle. You can usually find it in a drug store or groceory store.

Also, if you want to continue using the tanning bed, get a tanning lotion, from the tanning salon, with a bronzer in it. It will make you tanner.

And, you really should NOT under ANY circumstances be tanning in a bed for an hour long. The only results you will get is a MAJOR sunburn and when you're older plasticy skin and maybe skin cancer. If you aren't seeing a sunburn, then the tanning bed must not be working.

The longest you should stay in a tanning bed is for 20 minutes, and always use a 'tanning bed tanning lotion' which is sold @ tanning salons, like I said.

Do NOT use the oil in the tanning bed!

It takes time to see results when you are white. I've been tanning for almost 3 years and still don't have as good of results against my friends who are naturally tan. I can go tanning ten times and have the same results as if they went once. Just be patient, it takes time.


Hope I Helped & if you need anymore questions about tanning, I know quite abit. Good Luck !

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